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dk Hkze vkSj fdLkh dks Hkh ugha gksrkA Kkuh dks rks fn[kkbZ iM+us yxrk gS fd
Lkc dq N vKkr gS] vkSj eq >Lks cM+k vKkuh dkSu! ftruk gh ge tkurs gS a
mruk gh tku ugha ikrs] cfYd tkuus okyk gh èkhjs&èkhjs [kks tkrk gSA ftruk
gh ge [kkstrs gS a] [kkst iwjh ugha gks rh] [kks tus okyk gh LkekIr gks tkrk gSA bLkfy, dgrk gwa % thou jgL; gS] feLVªh gSA thou igsyh ugha gSA
igsyh vkS j jgL; esa dqN iQdZ gSA igs yh ge mLks dgrs gS a tks gy gks LkdsA
jgL; mLks dgrs gS a fd ftruk ge gy djsa xs mruk gh gy gksuk eq f'dy gksrk tk,xkA igsyh mLks dgrs gSa fd ftLkdh Lkqy> tkus dh iwjh LkaHkkouk gSA
D;ksa fd igsyh dks tku&cw> dj my>k;k x;k gSA my>u cukbZ gqbZ gS] fufeZr
gSA thou igsyh ugha gSA mLkdh my>u cukbZ gqbZ ugha gS] fufeZr ugha gSA fdLkh us mLks my>k;k ugha gSA fLkiQZ Lkq y>kus okys gh my>u es a iM+ tkrs gS aA
thou jgL; gS] mLkdk eryc ;g gS fd Lkqy>kus dh dksf'k'k dh rks
my> tk,xkA vkS j vxj Lkgt Lohdkj dj fy;k rks Lkc Lkqy>k gq vk gSA
thou jgL; gS] mLkdk vFkZ ;g gS fd ge dgha Lks Hkh ;k=kk djsa vkSj dgha dh Hkh ;k=kk djsa ] va rr% tgka ge igqapsaxs og ogh txg gksxh tgka Lks
geus 'kq : fd;k FkkA thou jgL; gS dk vFkZ ;g gS fd tks izkjaHk dk ¯cnq gS
ogh var dk ¯cnq Hkh gS_ vkS j tks Lkkèku gS ogh Lkkè; Hkh gS_ vkSj tks [kks t jgk gS ogh [kkstk tkus okyk Hkh gSA
bLk jgL;] bLk thou dh fuf'pr gh dqa th Hkh gS] ¶LkhØsV dh¸ Hkh gSA
mLk dqa th dks Lke>us] [kks tus ds fy, ge ;gka mifLFkr gq, gSa A
igyh ckr% tks O;fDr fopkj Lks [kks tus tk,xk thou dks] og my>k
ys xkA fopkj dqa th ugha gS] dqa th dk èkks[kk gSA fdruk gh ge fopkj djs a]
ftruk ge fopkj djsaxs mruk ge thou Lks nwj pys tkrs gSaA ftruk ge fopkj djrs gSa mruk gh LkR; Lks gekjk iQkLkyk c
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bLkfy, bu pkj fnuksa esa eSa vkidks fopkj djus dks ugha dgwaxkA bu pkj
fnuks a es a ge vuqHko djus dh dksf'k'k djsaxsA ¯Fk¯dx ugha] fopkj ugha]
,DLkihfj,aLk dh] vuq Hko dh] vuq Hkwfr dh dksf'k'k djs axsA
vuqHkw fr gh dqa th gSA os tks bLk jgL; dks tkuuk pkgrs gSa ] [kksyuk pkgrs gS a] m?kkM+ uk pkgrs gS a] muds fy, vuqHkw fr ds vfrfjDr vkS j dksbZ ekxZ
ugha gSA ys fdu vR;fèkd vuq Hkwfr dh txg ge fopkj es a my> tkrs gS aA ge
Lkkspus yxrs gS a fd LkR; D;k gSA ge Lkkspus yxrs gSa fd thou D;k gSA ge Lkkspus yxrs gS a fd e`R;q D;k gSA ge Lkks pus yxrs gSa---vkSj ftruk ge Lkksprs gS a
mruk gh ge fLk¼karksa dks rks ik ysrs gSa ] ys fdu LkR; dks ikus Lks oa fpr jg
tkrs gS aA Lkc Lkks puk varr% fLk¼kar ns Lkdrk gSµe`r] ejs gq,A Lkc Lkkspuk 'kkL=k ns Lkdrk gSµe`r] ejs gq ,A Lkc Lkkspuk igsfy;ka ns Lkdrk gSµ[kq n dh
cukbZ gq bZ ] [kq n dh Lkqy>kbZ gqbZA ysfdu Lkks pus Lks dksbZ LkR; rd u dHkh igqapk
gS] u dHkh igqa p Lkdrk gSA
rks igyh ckr rks vkt dh jkr tks vkiLks dguk pkgrk gwa og ;g% LkkiQ Bhd Lks Lke> ysa fd ge ;gka dqN Lkks p&fopkj ds fy, bdV~Bs ugha
gq ,] ;gka ge fdLkh vuq Hko ds fy, bdV~Bs gq, gSa A ge dq N Lkkspuk ugha
pkgrs] ge dqN tkuuk pkgrs gS aA ge Hkkstu ds Lkacaèk esa fopkj ugha djs axs] ge Lokn ysuk pkgrs gS aA ge rS jus ds Lkacaèk esa 'kkL=k ugha ius dh vkdka{kk ugha j[krs] ge rks izs e esa Mw c tkuk
pkgrs gS aA
vuqHko dk vFkZ gS% ge mrjuk pkgrs gSa] Mw cuk pkgrs gS a] [kksuk pkgrs gS aA Lkkspus dk---ugha] Lkks pus dk dksbZ Lkoky ugha gSA tks Hkh Lkksprk gS og
fdukjs ij cS Bk jg tkrk gSA vkSj fdukjs ij cS B dj dksbZ fdruk gh Lkksps
tUeksa &tUeks a rd] rc Hkh dgha ugha igqa p ikrk] cLk fdukjs ij gh cS Bk jgrk
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gSA ,sLkk ugha gS fd dks bZ vkSj fdukjs ij cSBk gksxk] ge Hkh tUeks a Lks Lkkspus ds
fdukjs ij cSBs gSaA ,sLkk rks dksbZ Hkh ugha gS tks igyh ckj ¯tnxh ds fdukjs ij
cS Bk gksA ge cgqr ckj ¯tnxh ds fdukjs ij cS Bs gS aA mLk Lkcdk dksbZ fgLkkc
yxkuk eqf'dy gS] x.kuk djuh eqf'dy gS fd ge thou ds rV ij fdruh ckj cS B pqds gSa A vua r gS og ;k=kkA varghu gS og dFkkA ysfdu ckj&ckj ge
Lkksprs gh jgs gS aA vkSj ckj&ckj ge Lkksp&Lkks p dj ejrs jgs gSa A tku ugha ik,
gS a mLks tks Lknk fudV FkkA Lkkspus okyk dHkh Hkh ugha tku ikrkA Lkks pus okyk] tks fudV gS] mLkLks Hkh nwj pyk tkrk gSA
vki es js ikLk es a cSBs gks a vkSj eSa vkids Lkaca èk es a Lkks pus yxwa ] rks esjs vkSj
vkids chp gtkjksa ehy dk iQkLkyk gks tkrk gSA iQw y ikLk esa f[kyk gks vkS j eSa iQwy ds Lka caèk esa Lkkspus yxwa] rks eS a iQwy Lks nw j fudy tkrk gwa A Lkkspuk nwjh gS] vuq Hko fudVrk gSA
thou ds jgL; dh igyh dqa th vuq Hkwfr ij tks j nsrh gSA
ysfdu bLkdk ;g eryc ugha gS fd eSa vkiLks dgwa fd fopkj er djuk vFkkZ r fo'okLk djukA ugha] fo'okLk djus dks Hkh eS a vkiLks ugha dgrkA
,sLks fn[kkbZ iM+ rk gS fd fo'okLk 'kk;n fopkj dk fojksèkh gS] gS ugha A tks FkksM+ k
de fopkj djrs gSa os fo'okLk dj ys rs gSa A fo'okLk Hkh fopkj dh gh cgqr ef¼e] èkheh Lkh ek=kk gSA tks Fkks M+ k gh Lkks prs gSa os fo'okLk dj ysrs gSa] tks
T;knk Lkks prs gSa os vfo'okLk ij igqap tkrs gSaA fo'okLk Hkh fopkj gh gSµFkdk
gq vk] gkjk gq vkA fo'okLk Hkh vuqHko ugha gSA u fopkj vuqHko gS] u fo'okLk
vuq Hko gSA vuqHko nks uks a Lks ugha feyrkA vuq Hko feyrk gS iz;ksx Lks]
,DLkisfjesa V LksA dksbZ oS Kkfud fopkj ugha dj jgk gS vkSj u dks bZ oSKkfud
fo'okLk dj jgk gS] viuh iz;ksx'kkyk esa iz ;ksx dj jgk gSAvkidks eS a fdLk iz;ksx'kkyk es a ys tkÅa\ thou ds fy, dks bZ iz ;ks x'kkyk
ugha gSA vki gh iz ;ks x'kkyk gSa A vkidks eSa vkids Hkhrj gh ys tkuk pkgwa xkA
thou dh ryk'k ds fy, dgha fdLkh vkSj ys cksjsVjh esa] fdLkh iz;ksx'kkyk esa]
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fdLkh dka p dh ij[kuyh esa tkapus dh t:jr ugha gSA vki gh vius Hkhrj
thou ds iwjs tkxrs gq, :i gS aA vxj Hkhrj tk Lkdsa rks thou dh iz;ksx'kkyk
esa vki izos'k dj tkrs gS aA ;g u rks fo'okLk Lks gks xk] u ;g fopkj Lks gksxkA
;g Hkhrj iz os'k Lka dYi Lks gksrk gSA bLkfy, bLk dqath dk nwLkjk Lkw=k gS% LkadYi] foyA fdruk rhoz LkadYi
gS Hkhrj izos'k dk] mruh gh rhozrk Lks Hkhrj iz os'k gks tkrk gSA
,d fe=k us eq >s vHkh ,d NksVh Lkh ?kVuk fy[k dj HksthA
dS usMk esa ,d vfHkusrk gqvkµpkYLkZ dkyZ xuA ejus ds nLk Lkky igys
mLkus oLkh;r dh vkS j dgk fd tc eS a ej tkÅa rks es jh dcz es js xkao es a gh
cukbZ tk,A mLkdk xka o dSusMk ds ikLk ¯izLk&}hi es a ,d NksVs Lks }hi ij gSA eSa vius gh xkao es a niQuk;k tkÅaA ysfdu tc mLkus oLkh;r dh Fkh rc mLkds ikLk #i;s Hkh Fks] bTtr Hkh
FkhA vfHkusrk dh bTtr vkSj #i;s dk dks bZ HkjksLkk ugha A ,sLks rks fdLkh dh
bTtr dk vkSj #i;s dk dksbZ HkjksLkk ughaA fiQj vfHkusrk dh bTtr vkS j #i;k! tc og ejk rc og fcydqy fHk[keaxk FkkA yks x mLks Hkw y pqds FksA iQkjxkWVu
iQsLksLk es a] Hkwys gq, psgjksa es a mLkdh fxurh gks xbZ FkhA vkS j ejk Hkh rks vius
xkao Lks nks gtkj ehy nw j ejkA ejk og VsDLkkLk es aA dkS u fiQdj djs mLkdh oLkh;r dh! dkSu mLks igqa pk,! mLkds ikLk diQu ds iS Lks Hkh ugha FksA os Hkh
xkao ds yksxksa us Hkjs FksA mLks nks gtkj ehy dh ;k=kk dkS u djk,! xkao ds
yksxksa us mLks niQuk fn;kA
ejrs oDr vkf[kjh {k.k Hkh mLkds vksaB ij ,d gh ckr Fkh] vkf[kjh
ckr Hkh mLkus ;gh dgh fd dq N Hkh djds eq>s es js xkao Hkst ns uk vkS j ftLk
nj[r ds uhps eSa iSnk gq vk Fkk mLkh nj[r ds uhps eq >s niQuk ns ukA ysfdu dSLks mLks igqa pk;k tk,\ ej x;k] rks yks xks a us mLks niQuk fn;k ogha nks gtkj
ehy nwjA
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mLk jkr ,d cgq r gSjkuh dh ?kVuk ?kVhA mLk jkr vpkud rw iQku vk
x;kA ,sLkk rwiQku tSLkk fd dksbZ LkaHkkouk gh u FkhA o`{k m[kM+ x,] edku fxj
x,A ftLk o`{k ds uhps mLks niQuk;k Fkk] og o`{k m[kM+ x;k tM+ksa Lkfgr vkSj
mLkdh yk'k Hkh m[kM+ xbZ A ,d ydM+h ds rkcwr esa mLks xM+k;k x;k Fkk] og rkcwr Lkfgr yk'k ckgj vk xbZA Lkeq æ ogka Lks nks ehy nwj Fkk] rwiQku èkDds
ns&ns dj mLkdh yk'k dks] mLkds rkcwr dks Lkkxj rd igqa pk fn;kA vkS j nks
gtkj ehy mLk eqnsZ us ;k=kk dh vkS j ¯iz Lk&}hi ds fdukjs tkdj yx x;k tgka og iSnk gqvk FkkA tc yksxksa us mLk rkcwr dks [kksyk] rks Lkkjk 'kjhj xy x;k
Fkk] fLkiQZ psgjk fcydq y Lkkcq r cp x;k FkkA os igpku x, fd og rks pkYLkZ
dkyZ xu gS] muds xkao dk iS nk gqvk vfHkus rkA mUgksa us mLks mLkh o`{k ds uhps niQuk fn;k tgka og iSnk gq vk FkkA
eq >s fdLkh us ;g [kcj Hksth vkSj eq>Lks iwNk fd D;k dgrs gS a vki\
D;k bLk vkneh dk ejus ds igys dk LkadYi bruk izHkko'kkyh gks Lkdrk gS\
;g dsoy Lka ;ks x gS ;k fd bLkds LkadYi dk ifj.kke gS\
bruk izHkko'kkyh LkadYi gks Lkdrk gSA ¯tnxh Hkj ge Lka dYi Lks gh thrs vkS j ejrs gSa A detksj gksrk gS rks detksj ¯tnxh gksrh gSA iz cy gksrk gS
rks izcy ¯tnxh gks tkrh gSA vkneh ds gkFk esa ,d gh rkdr gS% og mLkds foy iQksLkZ dh gS] mLkds Lka dYi dh gSA
ugha ] u rks fo'okLk Lks dksbZ Hkhrj dh ;k=kk ij tkrk gS] u dks bZ fopkj
Lks Hkhrj dh ;k=kk ij tkrk gSA u ¯Fk¯dx Lks] u fcyhiQ LksA tkrk gS foy Lks]
LkadYi LksA
LkadYi dks Fkks M+ k Bhd Lks Lke> ysuk t:jh gSA LkadYi dk eryc gS
fd tks Hkh eSa fu.kZ; ys jgk gw a] og iwjk gSA og fu.kZ; vèkw jk ugha gSA ;fn eSa 'kka r gksuk pkgrk gwa ] rks ;g esjk fu.kZ; iwjk gS] ;g vèkw jk ugha gSA ,sLkk u gks
fd es jk vkèkk eu dgrk gks fd 'kkar gks tkÅa vkSj vkèkk eu dgrk gks fd
D;k djksxs 'kkar gksdjA rks vkidk vkèkk eu vius ckdh vkèks eu dks dkV
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ns xkA vkidk Je O;FkZ gks tk,xkA ;g ,sLks gh gksxk tS Lks dksbZ vkneh nhoky
ij ,d b±V p ,d vkneh dgrk gS% Lkqcg ika p cps mBuk gSA vkSj tc og
dgrk gS rc Hkh vxj Fkks M+ k Hkhrj >kads rks mLks irk gS fd og mBs xk ughaA
og Hkh mLks ekywe gSA og iDdk djrk gS fd ika p cts rks mBuk gh gS! vkSj rc Hkh og vxj Fkks M+ k xkS j djs rks irk pys xk% bLk ika p cts mBus ds Hkhrj
og vkokt ekStwn gS tks dg jgh gS fd dgka mBks xs! dS Lks mBksxs! jkr cgqr
LknZ gS!
ysfdu vHkh bLk vkokt dks og >q Byk nsrk gS] Lkks tkrk gSA Lkqcg ika p cts tc ?kM+h dk vykeZ ctrk gS rc og nwLkjh vkokt] tks Lkka> Hkh
ekStw n Fkh] og dgrh gS% dgka bruh LknhZ] fiQj dHkh Lkks puk] fiQj dy mBukA
og fiQj Lkks tkrk gSA Lkqcg iNrkrk gSA tc ika p cts jkr og djoV cny
dj Lkks rk gS rc Hkh Hkhrj ,d vkokt gksrh gS fd rq e ;g D;k dj jgs gks\
Lkka> fu.kZ ; fd;k Fkk] Lkqcg iNrkuk iM+sxk! ysfdu mLkdks Lkqurk ughaA Lkqcg
mBrk gS vkSj iNrkrk gS fd eS aus fu.kZ; fy;k Fkk vkS j ;g D;k gks x;k\ eSa
mBk D;ksa ugha\viuk gh Lka dYi vkèkk vius gh vkèks LkadYi Lks dV tkrk gSA
euq"; dh ¯tnxh dk cM+s Lks cM+ k nq [k ;gh gS fd mLkdk eu [kq n gh
[kaMksa esa caVk gS vkS j ,d&nwLkjs dks dkV nsrk gSA
;g tks bu vkus okys fnuks a es a ge ,d var;kZ=kk ij] thou dh [kkst
ij] jgL; ds vuq Hko ds fy, tkus dh rS ;kjh esa vk, gS a] è;ku j[kuk gS fd
LkadYi iwjk gks] iwjs eu Lks rS;kjh gks] iwjk eu jkth gks] rks nq fu;k esa dks bZ jksd ugha LkdrkA bLk nqfu;k esa ,d gh 'kfDr gS tks dk;Z dkjh gS] og gekjs LkadYi
dh 'kfDr gSA ys fdu vxj ogh gekjs ikLk ugha gS] rks ge fcydq y futhZ o gSa]
thrs th ejs gq, vkneh gS aA
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rks nw Lkjh ckr vkiLks dguk pkgrk gwa---igyh ckr fd fopkj djus ge
;gka bdV~Bs ugha gq, gS aA bLkfy, bu rhuks a fnuksa ds fy, fopkj dh fiQdj Nks M+
nsukA ge ;gka fo'okLk djus bdV~Bs ugha gq , gS aA bLkfy, vki ¯gnw gSa fd
eqLkyeku gSa fd tSu gS a fd bZLkkbZ gS a] fiQdj NksM+ nsukA vkids fo'okLkks a Lks ;gka dks bZ iz ;kstu ugha gSA vkids fopkjksa Lks dks bZ eryc ugha gSA vkids LkadYi Hkj
Lks vFkZ gSA vius Hkhrj VVksy ys uk fd eS a tks Hkh fu.kZ ; d:a og iw jk gS\
è;ku jgs] NksVs&NksVs fu.kZ; Lks ijh{kk gks tkrh gSA bLkfy, eSa us Lkks pk gS
fd dq N yksx] tks Lke>rs gksa fd os rhu fnu ekSu j[k Lkdrs gSa] os ekS u gh
j[ksa A og rhu fnu dk ekS u muds Lka dYi ds fy, cM+k vkèkkj cu tk,xkA os
rhu fnu 'kCn dk mi;ks x gh u djs aA Fkks M+ h vM+pu gksxh] cgq r T;knk vM+pu ugha gksxhA vkS j ,d fnu esa vki vuqHko djsaxs fd T;knk cks yus dh t:jr gh ugha Fkh] ge fiQtw y T;knk cksy jgs FksA t:jr iM+s rks FkksM+k dkxt ij fy[k
dj dqN dg nsukA vU;Fkk rhu fnu vfèkdre yks x ekSu jg Lkds a] rks xgjs
ifj.kke gksaxsA NksVk Lkk Lka dYi muds fy, cM+k mi;ksxh gks tk,xkA tks yksx rhu fnu rd pqi jg Lkdrs gS a] cgqr Nks Vh Lkh ckr gS] ysfdu ckr cM+h gSA
D;ksa fd pqi jgus dk fu.kZ; vxj fuHkk;k tk Lkds] rks vkids Hkhrj LkadYi dh
i`’Hkwfe dks fuekZ.k dj tk,xkA vkSj ge tks vkS j iz ;ks x djus tk jgs gSa muesa og Lkg;ksxh gks tk,xkA
,d fe=k us eq >s vkdj vkKk ekaxh gS fd os rhu fnu u rks cksysa xs]
'kCn dk R;kx j[ksaxs_ u Hkks tu ys axs] Hkks tu dk R;kx j[ksa xs_ vkS j u oL=k
igusaxs] oL=k dk R;kx j[ks axsA
eS a ekurk gwa ] mUgsa cgqr ifj.kke gks LkdsaxsA
vki Hkh bu fnuks a ds fy, viuk gh dks bZ LkadYi [kkst ys axs] rks Hkh pys xkA ekS u rks cgq r vPNk gS] Lkjyre gSA dks bZ rhu fnu miokLk j[kuk pkgs]
rks rhu fnu miokLk j[k ysA dksbZ rhu fnu ,d ckj gh [kkuk [kkuk pkgs] rks
,d ckj gh [kkuk [kk ysA dksbZ vkèkk [kkuk [kkuk pkgs] rks vkèkk [kkuk [kk ysA
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ysfdu tks Hkh LkadYi djs mLks rhu fnu iw jk djsA mLks fiQj rhu fnu ds chp
esa cnyuk ugha gSA dks bZ oL=k NksM+ dj jguk pkgs] rks rhu fnu ds fy, oL=k
NksM+ nsA dksbZ de oL=k djuk pkgs] rks de oL=k dj ysA tks Hkh ftLkdks Bhd
yxs] rhu fnu ds fy, nks&pkj LkadYi vius vkLk&ikLk [kM+ s dj ys vkS j mues a thus dh dksf'k'k djsA rhu fnu mudks rksM+ uk gh ugha ] pkgs [kqn VwV tk,a] ij
os Lka dYi ugha rks M+ us gS aA
Lkkèkuk LkadYi ds foLrkj dk uke gSA ge dS Lks mLks vius pkjksa rjiQ
iQSyk ysa \ vkSj gekjk O;fDrRo LkadYi Lks dSLks pkjks a rjiQ Lks vkiwfjr gks tk,\
rks ,sLks NksVs&Nks Vs fu.kZ; dj ysus ds fy, vkiLks dgrk gwa] LkHkh LksA tks ftLkds
[k;ky esa vk tk,A ,s Lks eSa us mnkgj.k ds fy, Lkq>k;kA tks ftLks [k;ky esa vk tk, og bu rhu fnuksa ds fy, nks&pkj Lka dYi vius eu esa ys ysA fdLkh dks dgus dh t:jr ugha] D;ks afd fdLkh Lks dksbZ eryc ugha gSA vkS j ckdh yksxksa
Lks eSa ;g dgrk gwa fd bu rhu fnuksa esa dksbZ Hkh vkneh dqN Hkh djrk gqvk
ekyw e iM+s] vki mLk ij u Lkksp&fopkj djuk] u vki mLkdh rjiQ ns [kuk] uvki mLkdh ¯prk ys uk vkS j Ñik djds ckèkk rks nsuk gh erA D;ksafd irk ugha
mLkus D;k Lka dYi fy;k gSA vxj dksbZ vkneh vkidks èkwi esa [kM+k gqvk fey
tk,] rks vki er jksduk fd èkwi esa D;ksa [kM+s gSa! gks Lkdrk gS mLkus LkadYi fy;k gks] og èkwi esa [kM+k gSA dksbZ vxj nks ?kaVs rd [kM+k gks rks vki er
dguk mLkLks fd cSB tkb,A D;ksafd gks Lkdrk gS mLkus nks ?ka Vs [kM+ s jgus dk
LkadYi fd;k gksA dksbZ jsr ij ysVk gks rks ysVs jgus nsukA dksbZ dqN Hkh dj jgk
gks] bLk f'kfoj esa dksbZ nw Lkjs O;fDr dks fdLkh f'k‘kpkj] fdLkh Lkadksp] fdLkh
vkS ipkfjdrk dk fuHkko ugha djuk gSA ;gka vki fcydqy vdsys gS a] ckdh Lks
vkidks dks bZ Hkh iz;kstu ugha gSA rks ;g LkadYi rks de Lks de LkHkh ys ysa µfd eS a vds yk gwa ;gka] eq>s
nw Lkjs Lks dksbZ Hkh iz;kstu ugha gSA bu rhu fnu] dkSu D;k dj jgk gS] og
mLkdh ckr gS] og mLkdk viuk dke gSA dksbZ vkidks ukprk fey tk, rks
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LkadYi&'kfDr dk eryc gh ;g gks rk gS fd ge tks djuk pkgrs gSa
dj Lkdrs gS aA ge vxj 'kkar gksuk pkgrs gS a rks nq fu;k dh dksbZ rkdr ges a
v'kkar ugha dj LkdrhA
yksxksa ds Lkacaèk esa geus Lkquk gS] ns[kk gS] vkx ds vaxkjs ij ukp tkrs gS aA dq N Hkh ugha gS] fLkiQZ Lka dYi dh 'kfDr gSA ,d [k;ky iDdk fd ugha
ty LkdwaxkA bruk Lkk [k;ky fd ugha ty Lkdwa xk] iS jksa dks bruh {kerk ns
tkrk gS fd vkx dk Lkkèkkj.k fu;e dke ugha dj ikrkA Fkks M+ s Lks LkadYi dh iz frHkk gks Hkhrj] rks ge vkSj tks LkadYi fNik gS gekjs Hkhrj mLks Hkh mBk ysrs
gSa] mLks Hkh txk ysrs gSa A
xqjft,iQ dqN Lkkèkdksa dks ysdj] tSLks vkt eS a ;gka vkidks ysdj vk x;k gwa ] ,sLkk xqjft,iQ uke dk ,d iQdhj dq N Lkkèkdksa dks ysdj friQfyLk ds xkao ds ckgj Bgjk gqvk FkkA mLkus mu LkcLks dgk gq vk Fkk fd tc Hkh eS a
dg nwaµLVkWi! Bgj tkvks! rks tks tgka gks og ogha Bgj tk,A vxj fdLkh
vkneh us ck;ka iSj Åij mBk;k Fkk pyus ds fy, rks ck;ka Åij gh jg tk,]vc tehu ij u yxsA pkgs og fxjs rks fxj tk, vkneh] ys fdu viuh rjiQ
Lks iSj dks uhps u j[ksA fdLkh dh vka [k [kqyh gS rks [kq yh jg tk,] vc viuh
rjiQ Lks can u gksA vka [k can gks tk,] ckr vyxA ysfdu Hkhrj [k;ky jgs fd eSaus ca n ugha dh gSA eq ag [kqyk gks cksyus ds fy, rks [kqyk jg tk, rks [kqyk
gh jg tk,A
rks mudks cgqr Lks iz ;ksx djok jgk FkkA LkadYi dk iz;ksx gSA ge vius
LkkFk Hkh cs bZ ekuh djrs gS aA dksbZ vkneh ck;ka iSj mBk;k gS] og Lkksps xk fd ,d
LksdsaM es a irk D;k pyrk gS fd eSaus uhps j[k fy;k] fiQj LVkWi dj ywa xkA
ysfdu ;g xqjft,iQ dks èkks [kk ns us dk Lkoky ugha gSA bLkLks xq jft,iQ dk D;k ysuk&nsuk! ;g vius dks èkks[kk nsuk gSA
,d Lkqcg cgq r gh vnHkqr ?kVuk ?kVhA ikLk gh ,d ugj Fkh] tgka
f'kfoj Fkk mudkA ugj Lkw[kh gS] vHkh ikuh ugha cgk gS mLkes aA can gS ugjA
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rhu ;qod ugj dks ikj dj jgs FksA vpkud racw ds Hkhrj Lks xq jft,iQ us
vkokt nhµLVkWi! #d tkvks! os rhuksa Hkh ugj esa #d x,A Lkw[kh ugj Fkh]
ikuh ugha Fkk vHkhA
ysfdu rHkh vpkud u ekywe fdLkus ugj [kksy nh vkS j tksj Lks ikuh dh èkkj vkbZA ,d ;q od rks èkkj dks vkrs ns[k dj Nykax yxk dj ckgj gks
x;kA mLkus dgk] xqjft,iQ dks rks irk ugha] og rks racw ds Hkhrj cSBk gSA ;g
rks izk.kysok gks tk,xk è;kuA og Nyka x yxk dj ckgj gks x;kA nks ;qod [kM+s jgsA ikuh dh èkkj xys&xys rd vk xbZ ] rc nw Lkjs ;qod us Lkks pk fd vc tjk
t:jr Lks T;knk gqvk tk jgk gS] vc eq >s fudy tkuk pkfg,A vHkh rd Bhd
Fkk] ys fdu xqjft,iQ dks D;k irk fd ;gka izk.k fudy tk,axs!
og Nyka x yxk dj ckgj gks x;kA ,d ;qod Hkhrj jg x;kA ikuh dh èkkj mLkds vksaBksa
dks NqbZ ] fiQj mLkdh ukd Mwch] mLkds eu es a Hkh ,d&nks ckj [k;ky vk;k fd
eSa fudy tkÅa A ys fdu mLkus dgk fd tc ok;nk fd;k gS rks ok;nk iwjk
djukA mLkds eu esa Hkh [k;ky vk;k fd xqjft,iQ racw ds Hkhrj cSBk gS] mLks
D;k irk! ysfdu mLkus dgk fd ;g rks tc eS aus ok;nk fd;k Fkk rc dks bZ
'krZ u Fkh fd racw ds Hkhrj gksvksxs] irk gksxk fd ugha gksxk] ;g dksbZ 'krZ u
FkhA 'krZ rks fLkiQZ bruh Fkh fd LVkWi ;kuh LVkWi! Bgj tkvks ;kuh Bgj tkvks! bLkfy, vc dksbZ Lkoky mBus dk ugha gSA fLkj ij Lks ikuh cg x;kA
xqjft,iQ HkkxkA og ugj mLkus gh Nq M+ okbZ FkhA og Lkc tkuk gq vk
bartke FkkA og Hkkxk gq vk ckgj vk;k] ugj es a dw nk] mLk ;qod dks ckgj
fudkykA mLk ;q od Lks dgk fd D;k gqvk rqEgkjs eu esa tc ikuh Åij Lks
pyk x;k\
mLkus dgk] eu esa \ igyh niQs eu LkekIr gqvk vkS j eSa gh cpkA vkSj eSaus og ik fy;k ftLkdh ryk'k es a eS a vk;k FkkA
xqjft,iQ us dgk] ysfdu vdsys ugj es a Mwc tkus Lks dSLks ik yksxs\
mLkus dgk] ugj esa ugha Mwck] Lka dYi esa Mw ckA
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og vkneh nw Lkjk vkneh gks x;kA mLkds Hkhrj fØLVykbts'ku] mLkds
Hkhrj dksbZ pht dsa fær gks xbZ] bdV~Bh gks xbZA mLk O;fDr dh vkRek iS nk gks
xbZ A mLkus iqdkj yh viuh Lkkjh 'kfDr tks mLkds Hkhrj iM+h Fkh] ,d nkao ijA
rks bu rhu fnuksa esa cgqr rjg ds nkao gS aA cgqr rjg dh pqukSfr;kavkidks eS a nwa xkA vxj vki nka o ij yxk Lkdrs gSa rks ifj.kke gks tk,a xsA
LkadYi dk Lej.k j[ksa A dqN Hkh vius Lka dYi r; dj ys aA fdLkh dks
crkus dh t:jr ugha gSA vius Hkhrj r; dj ysa] D;ksa fd og vkidh ckr gSA
iwjs djs axs rks vki] ugha iwjs djsa xs rks vkiA bZekunkjh rks vius iz fr] csbZekuh rks
vius izfrA fdLkh Lks dqN dgus dh t:jr ugha] mLks vius Hkhrj ys ysaA ;fn
iw jk dj ik,] rks bLk f'kfoj Lks [kkyh gkFk ykSVus dh t:jr ugha gksxhA vxj iwjk ugha dj ik,] rks Lke> ysuk pkfg, fd esjs vfrfjDr esjh [kkst esa vkS j dks bZ ckèkk ugha gSA ysfdu Lkc iwjk fd;k tk Lkdrk gSA dks bZ dfBukbZ ugha gSA
fLkiQZ dfBukbZ dk [k;ky gh ,dek=k dfBukbZ gS fd dSLks iw jk djsaA rks dksbZ
NksVs Lks ysa] cM+s dh t:jr ugha gSA
rhLkjh ckr] bLkds igys fd dy Lkq cg ge è;ku 'kq: djs a] vkidksè;ku ds Lkacaèk esa dqN Lke>k nwa rkfd vkids eu es a LkkiQ gks tk,A
igyh ckr rks ;g gS fd è;ku dh iz fØ;k Lo;a es a LkksbZ gqbZ 'kfDr dks txkus dh izfØ;k gSA mLks dq aMfyuh dgsa] mLks iz k.k dgsa ] mLks dks bZ vkSj uke ns
ns aA ge Lkcds Hkhrj cgq r dqN Lkks ;k gq vk gS] vkSj og tx u tk,] rks gekjh
;k=kk ds fy, 'kfDr ugha miyCèk gksrhA ftLk 'kfDr Lks ge thrs gSa og cgqr
Åijh gSA cgq r 'kfDr gS gekjs Hkhrj] tks foJke dj jgh gS] tks Lkks jgh gSA
ftLks geus dHkh Ns M+ k ugha] 'kk;n ge ¯tnxh es a Ns M+ saxs Hkh ugha vkSj og gekjs
LkkFk jgsxh vkS j ge ej tk,axsA tSLks fdLkh vkneh ds ikLk frtksM+h gks vkSj ogvius [khLks es a nLk&ikap #i;s j[ks gks] mUgha dks viuh LkaifÙk Lke> dj ¯tnxh
xoka nsA Hkw[kk jgs] I;kLkk jgs] Hkh[k ekaxs vkS j frtksM+h dk mLks irk u gks tks
fd mLkdh gh gSA ysfdu ,sLks ukLke> vkneh cgq r eqf'dy Lks [kks tus Lks
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feysaxs ftuds ikLk frtks M+ h gks vkSj ftudks irk u gksA ysfdu tgka rd ¯tnxh
dk Lka ca èk gS] ,sLks ukLke> vkneh gh feysa xsA [kks tus Lks Hkh og vkneh eqf'dy
Lks feysxk ftLkus viuh ¯tnxh dh iwjh LkaifÙk dk mi;ksx fd;k gSA
rks è;ku dh izfØ;k dk igyk pj.k rks gS gekjs Hkhrj dh iwjh 'kfDr dks txkus ds fy,A bLk 'kfDr dks txkus ds fy, dks bZ pksV] dks bZ gS e¯jx dh
t:jr gSA og ge 'okLk dk mLkesa mi;ksx djsaxsA igys nLk feuV ds pj.k esa
è;ku ds ge brus tksj Lks 'okLk ys axs fd mLkdk ge gFkkSM+h dh rjg mi;ksx djsaxsA og 'okLk Hkhrj pksV djs] ckgj ¯iQds] Hkhrj pks V djsA mLk pks V Lks ge
LkksbZ gqbZ 'kfDr dks txkuk 'kq : djs axsA
vkidks 'kk;n irk u gksxk fd tc Hkh vkidks 'kfDr dh t:jr iM+ rh gS] pkgs vkidks gks'k gks ;k u gks] vkidh 'okLk dh pksV Lks gh 'kfDr Lknk txkbZ tkrh gSA vkius dHkh [k;ky u fd;k gksxk] vxj vkidks ,d cM+k
iRFkj mBkuk gks] rks vpkud vki xgjh 'okLk ysdj Hkhrj jksd ys rs gS a vkSj
fiQj iRFkj dks mBkrs gS aA dHkh vkius Lkkspk u gksxk fd xgjh 'okLk ys djHkhrj jksd ys us Lks iRFkj ds mBkus dk D;k Lka caèk gSA xgjh 'okLk ds fcuk mLkh
iRFkj dks vki vxj Lkkèkkj.k 'okLk ys rs jgs a rks u mBk LkdsaxsA
ftu yksxks a us fijkfeM ds iRFkj p
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FkkA ;k [kqn pyrh gqbZ dkj dks ihNs Lks idM+ ys] rks ifg, ?kw ers Fks ys fdu
dkj vkxs ugha c
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nw Lkjh ckr è;ku j[kuh t:jh gS% vxj ;g pj.k iwjk ugha fd;k x;k] rks cgqr
Lks uq dLkku gks tkus dk Mj gSA
ijLkksa gh ,d tkikuh Lkkfèkdk esjs ikLk vkbZ ] og ;gka f'kfoj es a Hkh
ekS tw n gSA mLkus eq>Lks iwNk fd baMksusf'k;k esa Lkq cqn uke dk è;ku dk iz ;ks x pyrk gSA mLkesa ;g tks igyk pj.k gS og ugha gSA mLkes a nwLkjk gh pj.k gSA
rhLkjk Hkh tks pj.k gS og Hkh ugha gSA rks mLk Lkqcqn ds Lkacaèk esa esjk D;k
[k;ky gS\
vxj igyk pj.k u gks] tSLkk fd Lkq cqn uke ds è;ku es a ugha gS] rks cM+s
[krjs gS aA igys pj.k Lks vkids 'kjhj dh iw jh fo|q r fodfLkr gksdj vkids
'kjhj ds pkjksa rjiQ orqZ y cuk ysrh gSA vxj ;g orqZ y u cus] rks vkidks ,sLkh chekfj;ka idM+ Lkdrh gSa ftudh vkidks dYiuk Hkh ugha gSA vki chekfj;ks a ds fy, ukWu&jsfLkLVs aLk dh gkyr esa gks tkrs gSaA bLkfy, Lkqcqn dk iz;ksx djus okys
cgq r Lks yksx vthc&vthc chekfj;ksa Lks ihfM+r gks tkrs gSaA bLkfy, igyk
pj.k iwjk gksuk cgqr t:jh gSA vkids pkjksa rjiQ fo|q r dk orqZ y cuuk t:jh gSA vU;Fkk è;ku esa ,d rjg dh oYujs cy] ,d rjg dh vksi¯ux] ,d rjg
dk }kj [kqyrk gS] mLkesa Lks dqN Hkh izos 'k gks Lkdrk gSA vkSj u dsoy chekjh
izos'k gks Lkdrh gS] cfYd Lkqcqn ds vusd Lkkèkdksa dks tks cM+h Lks cM+h dfBukbZ gqbZ gS og ;g fd dq N nq‘ vkRek,a muesa izos 'k dj Lkdrh gSa A
è;ku dh gkyr esa vkids ân; dk }kj [kqyk gks tkrk gSA mLk oDr
dks bZ Hkh izos 'k dj Lkdrk gSA vkSj gekjs pkjksa rjiQ cgqr rjg dh vkRek,a
fuja rj mifLFkr gSa A ;gka vki gh mifLFkr ugha gSa ] vkS j Hkh dksbZ mifLFkr gSaA
bLkfy, igys pj.k dks gj gkyr esa iwjk djuk t:jh gSA vxj igyk pj.k
iwjk gS rks vkidk 'kjhj ,d rjg dk jsfLkLVsaLk] ,d rjg dh iz frjksèk dh nhoky [kM+h dj ysrk gS] mLkesa Lks dksbZ Hkh gkfudj pht vkids Hkhrj izos'k
ugha ik Lkdrhµ,dA vkS j vkids Hkhrj Lks dks bZ Hkh 'kfDr ckgj ugha tk
Lkdrh] og nhoky dk dke djus yxrh gSA tS Lks fd ge vius ?kj ds pkjksa
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rjiQ fctyh dk rkj nkSM+k nsa ] vkS j mLkesa djaV nkS M+ jgh gks] rks pks j Hkhrj u
?kqLk Lkds] D;ksa fd rkj dks Nq, fd eqf'dy es a iM+ tk,A Hkhrj dk vkneh Hkh
ckgj u tk Lkds] D;ksa fd rkj dks Nq, rks eq f'dy esa iM+ tk,A Bhd igys
pj.k dk ;gh egRoiw.kZ dke gS fd og vkids pkjks a rjiQ fo|qr dk orq Zy cuk nsA u rks Hkhrj Lks ckgj dqN tk Lkds] u ckgj Lks Hkhrj dqN vk LkdsA
rhLkjh ckr igys pj.k ds Lkacaèk esa ;g Lke> ysuh t:jh gS fd tc
vkidh 'kfDr Hkhrj pks V [kkdj txsxh] rks vkidks cgqr rjg ds vuqHko 'kjhj
esa gks us 'kq: gks tk,axsA og eS a vkidks dg nw a rkfd vkidks ijs 'kkuh u gksA
D;ksa fd chp es a iw Nus dk dks bZ mik; ugha gksxkA 'kjhj esa cgq r rjg ds vuq Hko
gks Lkdrs gSaA vyx&vyx yksxks a dks vyx&vyx rjg ds vuq Hko gksaxsA fdLkh dks yxs xk 'kjhj cgqr cM+k gks x;k] ?kcM+ kgV gks xhA fdLkh dks yxsxk 'kjhj iRFkj dh rjg Hkkjh gks x;k] ?kcM+kgV gksxhA fdLkh dks yxs xk 'kjhj cgqr NksVk
gks x;k] fd vka [k [kksy dj ns [kus dk eu gksxk fd ekeyk D;k gS] eSa dgha
[kks rks ugha x;k! ysfdu vka [k [kks y dj ns[kuk ugha gSA vki viuh txg gS a]
dgha dqN [kks ugha x;k gSA ;s Lkkjh izrhfr;ka mLk 'kjhj es a ubZ 'kfDr ds txus
Lks gks uh 'kq: gks tk,axhA fdLkh ds 'kjhj es a Lkkai&fcPNw jsa xrs gq, ekyw e iM+us
yxsa xsA fdLkh dks pha fV;ka pyrh ekywe iM+us yxsaxhA fdLkh ds Hkhrj fo|qr dhèkkjk cgrh ekywe iM+us yxsxhA fdLkh dks yxsxk fd dksbZ pht >jus dh rjg
Åij Lks uhps fxj jgh gSA fdLkh dks ekywe iM+ sxk uhps Lks Åij dh rjiQ dks bZ
pht p
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Hkj dh vknr gj pht dks jksdus dh gSA vxj gaLkh Hkh vkrh gS rks ge èkhjs
ga Lkrs gS a] tks j Lks ugha gaLkrsA jksuk Hkh vkrk gS rks LkEgky ysrs gSa ] D;ks afd jks uk
'kksHkk ugha nsrkA ukpus dk rks dksbZ Lkoky ugha gSA dwnus dk dksbZ Lkoky ugha
gSA gkFk&iS j vO;oLFkk Lks fgykus dk dks bZ Lkoky ugha gSA ¯tnxh esa ge Lkc jksds jgrs gSaA tc 'kfDr vkids Hkhrj txsxh rks vkids Hkhrj tks Hkh #dk gS
og Lkc izdV gksuk pkgs xkA bLkdks vki pkgsa fd jksd ys a] rks vki jksd Lkdrs
gS aA ysfdu jksdus Lks Hk;adj uq dLkku gks axsA D;ksafd tks 'kfDr tx xbZ gS vxjvkius mLks jksdk rks og vkids fy, 'kkjhfjd :i Lks uqdLkkudkjh fLk¼ gks xhA
mLkdk ftEek eq> ij ugha gksxkA è;ku dk iz;ksx rks O;FkZ pyk gh tk,xk]
mLkLks uqdLkku Hkh gksus 'kq : gks tk,axsA 'kjhj esa xzafFk;ka vkS j xka Bsa cu tk,a xh mLk 'kfDr dh] og fudyuk pkgsxh vkSj vki jksds axsA
rks tSLks gh igys pj.k ds ckn 'kfDr iSnk gksxh] vkidk 'kjhj tks Hkh
djuk pkgs] mLks iw.kZrk Lks Lkg;ksx nsuk gSA dks bZ ukpus yxsxk] dksbZ fpYykus
yxsxk] dksbZ jksus yxsxk] dks bZ gaLkus yxsxk] dksbZ vLrO;Lr eqæk,a cukus yxs xk] dks bZ vkLku cukus yxsxk] vkSj 'kjhj tks Hkh djuk pkgs mLks fcydq y ,sLkk NksM+
ns uk gS fd gesa dksbZ iz;kstu ugha] fLkiQZ LkkFk nsuk gSA ;g bruh rhozrk Lks LkkFk
ns uk gS fd vxj gkFk FkksM+k fgy jgk gks rks mLks iwjk LkkFk ns ns uk fd og iwjk fgy tk,A
jksdus ds uqdLkku gS a] Lkg;ks x ns us ds vHkwriwoZ iQk;ns gSa A vxj vkius iwjk
Lkg;ksx ns fn;k rks vkids 'kjhj dh u ekywe fdruh chekfj;ka tks vkids ihNs
iM+h gksa] vpkud foyhu gks Lkdrh gSaA vkids eu ds u ekywe fdrus jksx tks
fpÙk dks ?ks js gksa µØksèk] dke] yksHkµvpkud vki ik Lkdrs gS a fd eu gydk
gks x;k vkSj os cg x,A nq [k] mnkLkh] ihM+k] oS euL;] bZ";kZ] os Lkc fxj tk Lkdrs gSa A vxj 'kjhj dks iwjh rjg Lks vkius [kqy dj [ks yus dk ekS dk fn;k]
rks vkidk 'kjhj gh ugha] vkids eu dh Hkh dSFkkfLkZLk gks tkrh gS] jspu gks
tkrk gSA vkSj bLk nLk feuV dk tks LkcLks cM+k mi;ks x gS og ;gh gS fd
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rhozrk dh rks rhu fnu esa gh LkekIr gks tk,xkA tc fxj tk,axh Lkkjh chekfj;ka
rks vki ,dne gyds vkS j 'kkar gks tk,a xs] fiQj ugha pys xkA fiQj vki djuk
Hkh pkgsa xs rks ugha dj Lkdsa xsA
nwLkjs pj.k ij cgqr è;ku ns uk t:jh gS] D;ksafd LkokZfèkd egRoiw.kZ gSA rhLkjs esa izos 'k ds fy, og ¯yd] Lksrq dk dke djrk gSA vkS j nwLkjs esa gh
LkcLks T;knk ckèkk iM+ rh gSA u rks vki [kqy dj ukp ikrs gSa ] u fpYyk ikrs
gS a] u jks ikrs gS a] u Mksy ikrs gSa A mLkLks ckèkk iM+ tk,xhA eu es a Lks u ekywe D;k&D;k fudyuk 'kq: gks xkA tkuojksa tSLkh vkokt fudyus yxs xh] rks vkidks
Mj yxsxk fd ;g eSa dSLks fudkywa ! mLks fudyus ns uk gSA tks Hkh gks jgk gks]
mLks Lohdkj djds mLkdk LkkFk ns nsukA iw jk LkkFk ns nsukA vxj vki iw jk LkkFk ns Lkds rks ifj.kke Lkqfuf'pr gSA vkSj vnHkqr ifj.kke gksaxs ftudh vki
dYiuk Hkh ugha dj LkdrsA
nwLkjk pj.k iwjk gks rks gh ge rhLkjs es a iz os'k dj LkdsaxsA tks nwLkjs ij
vVd tk,xk og nw Lkjs ij vVd tk,xkA vkSj nwLkjs ij vVduk igys ij
vVdus Lks Hkh T;knk gkfudj gSA D;ksafd 'kjhj dke djuk 'kq: dj fn;k vkSjvkius vxj jks d fy;k] rks vki u ekywe fdLk rjg dh ubZ rjg dh #X.krkvksa
dks vkS j ubZ rjg dh ekufLkd fof{kIrrkvksa dks fuea=k.k ns Lkdrs gSaA gj pht dh gkfu mruh gh gks rh gS ftruk ykHk gks rk gSA mudh ek=kk
cjkcj gksrh gSA vxj vki ykHk ys rs gS a rks iw jk ys ysa] vU;Fkk gkfu gkFk iM+
tk,xhA ;k fiQj djsa gh erA rks tgka gS a ogha csgrj gS aA djuk gS rks iw jk Lke>
dj djsa vkS j iwjk iz ;ks x djsa] rkfd fdLkh dks gkfu u gks tk,A
tc nw Lkjs pj.k esa iwjh rjg 'kjhj dh xfr;ka 'kq: gks axh] rks vkidks 'kjhj
vyx ekyw e gks us yxsxkA ogh mLk nw Lkjs pj.k dk dherh vuqHko gSA tc 'kjhj ukps xk] fpYyk,xk] tkuojksa dh vkokt djus yxsxk] dqN Hkh cdus yxsxk]
dqN Hkh cksyus yxsxk] jksus yxsxk] gaLkus yxsxk] rc vkidks igyh niQs irk
pysxk fd vki vyx [kM+ s ns[k jgs gSa vkSj ;g 'kjhj D;k dj jgk gS! ;g
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vkidks fHkUurk dk igyk vuqHko gksxk fd eSa Lkk{kh dh rjg ns[k jgk gwa vkSj
;g gks jgk gSA Lkquk gS geus cgq r fd eSa vyx gwa vkSj ;g 'kjhj vyx gSA
ge vyx gS a vkSj ;g 'kjhj vyx gS] ;g Lkquh gq bZ ckr gSA ;g vkidks
vuqHko gks Lkds xhA vkSj ;gh bLk nwLkjs pj.k dk izfriQy gS fd ;g vuqHko gks tk, fd eSa vyx gwa vkSj 'kjhj vyx gSA tSLks gh ;g vuqHko gks rk gS] rhLkjs
esa ge xfr dj tk,a xsA
rhLkjs pj.k esa iw Nuk gS vius HkhrjµeS a dkS u gw a\ ;g brus tksj Lks iwNuk
gS] Hkhrj gh iwNuk gS] ys fdu brus tksj Lks iwNuk gS fd iS j Lks ysdj fLkj rd
;g xw atus yxs HkhrjµeS a dkS u gwa \ D;ksa fd tc ;g fn[kkbZ iM+ rk gS fd 'kjhj eS a
ugha gwa ] rks ;g Lkoky mBrk gS fd eS a dkS u gwa\ vkS j bLk ekS ds dks Nks M+ ugha ns uk gSA bLks rhoz rk Lks iwNuk gSA nLk feuV vius Hkhrj rwiQku mBk ns uk gS fd eSa dkSu gwa \ nks ¶eSa dkSu gw a\¸ ds chp es a txg u cpsA vkSj tc vki cgqr
tks j Lks Hkhrj iwNs axs rks cgqr Lka Hko gS fd vkids eq ag Lks ckgj Hkh fudyus yxs]
rks mLkdk Hk; ugha ysuk gSA 'kq: djuk gS Hkhrj] vxj ckgj Hkh fudyus yxs rks ¯prk ugha djuh gS] fudy tkus ns uk gSA rhLkjs pj.k esa Hkh 'kjhj Mksyrk
jgs xk] ukprk jgsxk] mLkdh ¯prk ugha ysuh gSA Mks yus nsuk gS] ukpus nsuk gSA
rhLkjs pj.k esa nLk feuV rd ¶eSa dkSu gwa \¸ bruh rhoz rk Lks iwNuk gS fd eu esa vkS j [k;ky gh u jg tk,A Lkkjh rkdr bLk ij yxk nsuh gS] dksbZ fopkj gh
u jg tk,A vxj vkius iwjh rkdr rhLkjs pj.k esa yxk nh rks pkSFkk pj.k
vkidks miyCèk gks xkA
pkSFks pj.k esa vkidks dqN Hkh ugha djuk gSA rhu pj.k es a gesa djuk gS]
pkSFks es a foJkeA pkSFks esa ge fLkiQZ---dks bZ [kM+ k gS] [kM+k jg tk,xk_ dksbZ fxjk
gS] fxjk jg tk,xk_ dksbZ cS Bk gS] cSBk jg tk,xk_ tks tS Lkk gS oSLkk jg tk,xkA pkSFks pj.k es a nLk feuV fLkiQZ iz rh{kk ge djsaxsA tks Hkh gks mLkesa] mLkdh ge
izrh{kk djsa xsA
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cgqr dqN gks Lkdrk gSA cgq r dqN gksxkA cgqr dqN gks rk gh gSA dqN
vuqHko vkiLks ckr d:a rkfd vkidks gksa rks vkidks ijs 'kkuh u gks tk,A
fdLkh ds Hkhrj ,dne fctyh ds dkSa èkus tSLkk iz dk'k gks tk,xkA fdLkh ds
Hkhrj] gtkjksa Lkwjt tys gks a] ,sLkk izdk'k gks tk,xkA fdLkh ds Hkhrj] Lkq cg dk tSLkk izHkkr gksrk gS] ,sLkk izdk'k gks tk,xkA Lkcds Hkhrj vyx&vyx gksxkA
izdk'k dk vuq Hko gksxk vfèkdre yksxks a dksA dq N FkksM+s Lks yksxksa dks xgu
va èkdkj dk Hkh vuqHko gks xkA dks bZ vuqHko vfuok;Z ugha gSA Lkcdks fHkUu gksa xs] D;ksa fd Lkcds O;fDrRo fHkUu gSa A fdLkh dks uhyk jax fn[kkbZ iM+s xk] fdLkh dks
yky jax fn[kkbZ iM+ saxsA fdLkh dks dksbZ èofu;ka LkqukbZ iM+ us yxsaxhA fdLkh dks
dks bZ Lokn mrjus yxsxkA ikapksa bafæ;ksa ds vuq Hkoks a es a Lks dks bZ Hkh vuqHko gksuk 'kq: gks tk,xkA oSLkk izdk'k vkius ckgj dHkh ugha ns[kk gksxk tS Lkk Hkhrj
fn[kkbZ iM+ sxkA u oS Lkh èofu ckgj Lkquh gksxh tS Lkh Hkhrj LkqukbZ iM+sxhA ;g
gks xkA ;g pkSFks pj.k es a gksxkA
pkSFks pj.k ds ckn ikapoka pj.k ge ;gka ugha mBk,axsA rhu pj.kvkidks djus gSa ] pkSFkk gksus nsuk gSA vkS j ikapoka fiQj dHkh ihNs vkidks gksxkA
fdLkh dks ;gka Hkh gks Lkdrk gSA mLkdh ckr ugha djuh gSA ikaposa es a Lkc
LkekIr gks tk,xkA u rks izdk'k jg tk,xk] u va èkdkj jg tk,xk] u dksbZ èofu jg tk,xh] u dksbZ ja x jg tk,xk] u dksbZ Lokn jg tk,xk] Lkc [kks tk,xk]
ika pksa ba fæ;ks a ds Lkc vuq Hko [kks tk,axsA
ikaposa pj.k esa tks gksxk mLkds fy, dgus dk dks bZ Hkh 'kCn ugha gSA og
tc vkidks gks xk rHkh vki tku LkdsaxsA pkSFks pj.k rd ge iz ;ksx djsaxsA pkSFks
pj.k rd ge è;ku djs axs vkSj ika poka pj.k vkidks iQfyr gksxkA fdLkh dks
;gka Hkh iQfyr gks tk,xk] fdLkh dks ?kj ykS V dj iQfyr gksxk] fdLkh dks dqN oDr yxsxk] fdLkh dks dqN oDr yxsxkA ysfdu ;fn vki tkjh j[krs gS a rks
ika poka pj.k Hkh vk tk,xk] tc Lkc [kks tk,xkA pkSFks ds vuqHko Hkh [kks
tk,axsA
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bLk iwjh izfØ;k esa Lka dYi gh ,dek=k vkèkkj gSA bLkfy, bLk iz fØ;k dks
djus ds igys ge ijekRek dks Lkk{kh j[k dj igys LkadYi djs axs rhu ckjA
vkS j var esa vius LkadYi dks iwjk djus dk [k;ky j[ksaxs iwjs Lke;A DykbesDLk
ij djuk gS izR;sd pj.k dks] mLkdh pks Vh ij] ihd ij] vkf[kjh Åa pkbZ ij djuk gSA mLkes a da twLkh ugha pys xhA tS Lks fd ikuh xje gksrk gS] LkkS fMxzh ij
tkdj xje gksrk gSA fuU;kucs fMxzh Hkh jgk rks ikuh jg tkrk gS] fiQj mcyrk
ugha] Hkki ugha curkA LkkS fMxzh ij Hkki curk gSA rks vkidks viuh LkkS fMxzh rkdr yxk nsuh gS rks gh vki nwLkjs pj.k esa izos 'k djs axsA vkSj vxj vkius
rhu pj.kks a es a LkkS fMxz h rkdr yxk nh rks vki ik,axs ,oksijs 'ku gks x;k]
ok"ihdj.k gks x;kA vki mM+ tk,axs] vki ugha cpsaxsA dksbZ vkS j vkids Hkhrjvk tk,xkA og tks dksbZ vk tkrk gS ogh thou dk jgL; dgsa] ijekRek dgsa ]
Lkekfèk dgsa] eqfDr dgsa] fuokZ.k dk vuqHko dgs a] tks Hkh ge 'kCn ns uk pkgsa ns
Lkdrs gS aA
;s rhu pj.k] bLk Lkacaèk esa tks Hkh iz'u gksaxs os vki fy[k dj ns rs tk,axs] rks jkst jkr dks ge ckr dj ysa xsA
vc eS a Lke>rk gwa vHkh oDr gS rks ge iz;ksx Hkh djsaxsA bLk iz ;ks x dks
vHkh dj ysa xs rkfd Lkqcg Lks gh fcydqy xfr Lks 'kq: gks tk,] bLkesa dksbZ deh u jg tk,A ;g iz;ksx [kM+s gksdj djus dk gSA vkS j iQkLkys ij [kM+s gks uk
gS] ;gka rks txg dkiQh gS] rkfd dksbZ ukps rks fdLkh dks pksV u yx tk,]
fdLkh dks èkDdk u yx tk,A vkSj vxj vkidks èkDdk yx Hkh tk, rks
vkidks fiQdj ugha djuh gS] vkidks viuk dke tkjh j[kuk gSA
rks vki nw j&nwj iQS y tk,aA ckrphr fcydqy u djs aA ckrphr fcydqy u djs aA iQkLkys ij gks tk,a A vki viuh&viuh txg [kM+s gks tk,a iQkLkys ij]
fiQj ykbV cq>k nh tk,xhA ckrphr u djs aA iQkLkys ij gks tk,a A ns [ksa] vius
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vkLk&ikLk ns[k ysa fd vkids ikLk txg gSµvki mNysa ] dw nsa] ukpsa ] dks bZ vkSj
ukps] rks vkidks èkDdk u yxsA
LkcLks igyk rks ;g LkadYi fd pkyhLk feuV ds fy, ge vka[k can
dj jgs gS a] ;g vka [k tc rd eSa ugha dgwa rc rd ugha [kqys xhA pkyhLk feuV ds fy, vka [k ca n gks jgh gSA vka[k can dj ys aA vkSj ,d Hkh O;fDr vka[k
[kksy dj chp es a ugha [kM+ k jgsxkA vxj fdLkh dks [kM+k jguk gks vka[k [kksy
dj] og gV tk, ;gka Lks ckgjA vkS j ckgj tks yksx [kM+ s gS a fdukjs ij mues a Lks dks bZ Hkh ckr ugha djs xk] vU;Fkk nwLkjks a dks ckèkk gksxhA ftudks pq ipki [kM+s
jguk gS ckgj os pq ipki [kM+s jgsaA vka[k [kksys dksbZ O;fDr chp esa ugha gksxkA
bZ ekunkjh Lks ckgj gV tkb,A fdLkh dks vka[k [kks ys [kM+ s jguk gS] og ckgj gks tk,A vkSj ihNs [kM+s dksbZ Hkh O;fDr;ks a esa Lks tjk Hkh ckrphr ugha gksxhA
Bhd gSA vka[k can dj ys aA pkyhLk feuV ds fy, vka[k can gks rh gS]
;g gekjk igyk LkadYi gqvkA nksuksa gkFk tksM+ dj ijekRek ds Lkkeus LkadYi
dj ysa % izHkq dks Lkk{kh j[k dj eS a LkadYi djrk gwa fd è;ku esa viuh iw jh 'kfDr yxkÅaxk! izHkq dks Lkk{kh j[k dj eSa LkadYi djrk gwa fd è;ku es a viuh
iwjh 'kfDr yxkÅaxk! izHkq dks Lkk{kh j[k dj eS a LkadYi djrk gwa fd è;ku esa
viuh iwjh 'kfDr yxkÅaxk! igyk pj.k 'kq : djsa% nLk feuV ds fy, 'okLk dh pksV ekj dj Hkhrj
dh 'kfDr dks txkukA xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk]
xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---iwjh rkdr yxk,a ] 'okLk
dks Hkhrj ys tk,a] ckgj iQsadsa---'kjhj mNyus yxs] fiQdj u djsa ---xgjh 'okLk]
xgjh 'okLk---iw jh rkdr yxk nsuh gS---xgjh 'okLk---ns[ksa ] dks bZ [kM+ k u jgs
cs dkj] iwjh rkdr yxk,a---xgjh 'okLk---iwjh pksV ekjsa ] Hkhrj dh 'kfDr txsxh--- pksV ekjs a---xgjh 'okLk ysa] xgjh Nks M+sa ---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---
Lkkr feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk,a---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh
'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---Hkhrj dh 'kfDr
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tx jgh gS] ukpsa ] mLkdh fiQdj u djs a---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---vkS j xgjh---
vkS j xgjh---iwjs 'kjhj es a 'kfDr tkxs xh] iw jk 'kjhj fo|qr Lks Hkj tk,xk] mLks Hkj
tkus ns a---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh
'okLk] xgjh 'okLk--- ikap feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk,a---iw jh rkdr] Lkkjs 'kjhj dks 'okLk Lks
Hkj ysa --- dks bZ fiQdj ugha ] ukpuk vk,] dksbZ ¯prk u djs a---xgjh 'okLk---'kjhj
Mksysxk] Mks yus ns a_ da isxk] daius nsa---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---'kfDr tx jgh gS] jksvka&jksvka daius
yxsxk] 'kjhj Mksyus yxsxk] mLkdh fiQdj u djsa---pkj feuV cps gS a] eSa pq i gks
tkrk gwa] vki iw jh rkdr yxk nsa ] fiQj ge nwLkjs pj.k esa izos'k djsa xs--- xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---dks bZ ihNs u jg tk,] vU;Fkk nwLkjs pj.k es a izos'k ugha gks Lkdsxk---xgjh 'okLk---rhu feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk nsa ---iw jh
'okLk dks ckgj iQsadsa] Hkhrj ys tk,a---
nks feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk,a ---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---'okLk esa iwjh rkdr yxk ns a] FkksM+h Hkh LkksbZ gq bZ u jg tk,---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk]
xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk]
xgjh 'okLk--- ,d feuV] fiQj eSa dgw axk ,d] nks] rhu] rc iwjh rkdr yxk,a] fiQj ge
nw Lkjs pj.k esa iz os 'k djs a---xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk] xgjh 'okLk---,d! iwjh
rkdr yxk ns a---nks!--- rhu!---iw jh rkdr yxk ns a---
vc nwLkjs pj.k esa izos'k dj tk,aA 'kjhj tks djuk pkgrk gS] djus nsa ---
'kjhj tks djuk pkgrk gS] djus nsa ---ukpsa] dw nsa] jks,a ] fpYyk,a] gaLksa ] tks Hkh 'kjhj djuk pkgrk gS] djus nsa---dwnsa ] ukpsa ] viuh gh txg ij dwns a&ukpsa ] ;gka&ogka
u gVsa ---viuh gh txg ij dwnsa ] ukps a] jks,a] gaLksa] fpYyk,a] tks Hkh gks jgk gks
gks us nsa---tksj Lks] tksj Lks] tks j Lks] tks j Lks] tksj Lks] tks j Lks---viuh gh txg ij]
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viuh gh txg ij] tks Hkh djuk gSµmNysa ] dwnsa] ukpsa ] jks,a] fpYyk,aµysfdu
viuh gh txg ij---tksj Lks] tksj Lks---'kjhj dks fcydq y Fkdk Mkyuk gS---tksj
Lks] tks j Lks] tksj Lks---
fcydq y Bhd! cgqr Bhd! cgqr Bhd! Ng feuV cps gSa ] iw jh rkdr yxk,a ---'kjhj dh Lkc chekjh fudy tkus ns a] eu ds Lkc jksx fxj tkus ns a---gaLksa]
jks,a] fpYyk,a ] ukpsa ---
fcydq y Bhd! tksj Lks] tks j Lks---tks Hkh gks jgk gS gksus nsa] ij tksj Lks
gks us nsa---tks Hkh gks jgk gSµgaLksa] tksj Lks gaLksa _ jks jgs gSa ] tksj Lks jks,a_ fpYyk jgs
gSa] tksj Lks fpYyk,a_ ukp jgs gSa ] tksj Lks ukpsa µviuh gh txg ij---
ikap feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk ns a] fiQj ge rhLkjs pj.k esa iz os'k djsa--- cgqr Bhd! cgqr Bhd! tksj Lks] tks j Lks---iw jh rkdr Lks fpYyk,a] jks,a ]
gaLksa] ukpsa--- viuh gh txg ij] nw j u gVsa] viuh gh txg ij tks djuk gS
tksj Lks djs a---pkj feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk nsa] fiQj ge rhLkjs pj.k esa izos'k djs axs---tksj Lks] tksj Lks] tksj Lks---
rhu feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr yxk,a---ukpsa] dw nsa] fpYyk,a] jks,a] gaLksa ] tks
Hkh 'kjhj dj jgk gS djus ns a---viuh gh txg ij] tks Hkh 'kjhj dj jgk gS djus ns a---
nks feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr---rwiQku yk nsa ---fcydq y rwiQku es a pys tk,a--
-tks Hkh gks jgk gS] tksj Lks---tks Hkh gks jgk gS] tksj Lks---tksj Lks] tksj Lks] tks j Lks-
--'kjhj vyx ekywe iM+us yxsxk] 'kjhj fcydqy vyx fn[kkbZ iM+us yxs xk---
ukps a] dwnsa ] fpYyk,a] jks ,a] gaLks a] 'kjhj vyx gS---tks j Lks djsa ] mruk gh LkkiQ
ekyw e iM+s xk 'kjhj vyx gS---ftrus tksj Lks dj Lkdsa mruk 'kjhj vyx ekyw e iM+s xk---
cgq r Bhd! ,d feuV cpk gS] vc eSa ,d] nks] rhu dgw a rc iw jh
rkdr yxk ns uh gS] 'kjhj dks vyx dj nsuk gSA ,d!---iwjh rkdr yxk,a---nks!---
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iwjh rkdr yxk,a--- rhu!---iwjh rkdr yxk,a ] fiQj ge rhLkjs pj.k es a iz os'k
djsa---fpYyk,a tks j Lks---
vc rhLkjs pj.k esa iz os 'k dj tk,aA ukprs jgsa ] iw Nsa HkhrjµeSa dkS u gw a\ ukprs jgsa] Hkhrj iwNs aµeS a dkS u gwa\ eS a dkS u gwa\---nLk feuV ds fy, Hkhrj
iwNs aµeS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\---iwNsa Hkhrj]
Hkhrj iwNsaµeSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\ eS a dkSu gwa \---ukprs jgs a] ukprs jgsa ] iw Nsa µeS a dkS u gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa\---
Hkhrj ,d gh Lkoky jg tk, ,M+h Lks fLkj rdµeS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \
eSa dkSu gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\---Mksysa] Mks ysa] ukpsa ] iwNs aµeS a dkS u gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\---eu dksFkdk Mkyuk gS] iw Nsa µeS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\---
ns[ksa ] ckgj [kM+ s gq , yksx ckrphr u djsa!
eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \---Lkkr feuV cps gS a] iwN Mkysa vius eu dks tks j LksµeS a dkS u gwa\ fiQj ge foJke djs axsA tks ftruk Fkd tk,xk mrus xgjs
foJke es a tk Lkds xkA eSa dkSu gwa \ eSa dkSu gwa\---Mksysa ] Mksysa ] ukps a] iwNsaµeSa dkSu
gw a\ eS a dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\ eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkS u gwa\--- cgqr Bhd! iwNsaµeSa dkSu gw a\---ckgj vkokt fudy tk,] fiQdj u djsa]
iw Nsa µeS a dkS u gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gw a\
eSa dkSu gw a\---tks j Lks iwNsa HkhrjµeS a dkSu gwa \---ckgj fudy tk,] ¯prk u djsaA
eSa dkS u gwa \---ukpsa ] dw nsa] iw Nsa µeS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gwa\---ikap feuV cps gSa ] iwjh
rkdr yxk,a] fiQj ge foJke djs axs---eS a dkS u gw a\ eS a dkSu gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa
dkS u gwa\--- cgqr Bhd! cgqr BhdA dwns a] ukps a] iwNsaµeSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu
gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\---dksbZ fiQdj ugha] vkokt fudy tk,] iwNsaµeS a dkS u gwa\ eSa
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dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\---pkj feuV] iwNsaµeSa
dkS u gwa \---
ns[ksa ] Hkhrj iz os'k u djs a] ns [kus okys yks x ckgj jgsa A ns[kus okys dks bZ
LkTtu Hkhrj u vk,a] ckgj jgsa A eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \---rhu feuV cps gS a] iwjh
rkdr yxk,a---eS a dkS u gwa\---ukpsa ] Mksysa ] iw Nsa µeS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkS u gwa \---
cgqr Bhd! cgqr Bhd! Fkks M+k Lkk Lke; vkSj gS] rhu feuV iwjh rkdr
yxk nsa µeS a dkS u gwa\ eSa dkSu gwa \ eS a dkSu gwa \ eS a dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkS u
gwa\ eS a dkS u gwa\ eSa gwa dkS u\ eSa dkSu gwa\---tks j Lks] nks feuV cps gS a] iwjh rkdr
yxk nsa ---eS a dkS u gwa\---ukpsa] dw ns a] iwNsaµeSa dkSu gw a\---,d feuV cpk gS] iw jh rkdr yxk ns uh gS---eS a dkS u gwa \ eSa dkSu gw a\ eS a dkS u gwa\---,d!---iwjh rkdr yxk nsa ---nks!---iwjh rkdr yxk nsa---rhu!---iwjh rkdr yxk nsa ftruh rkdr gS---
cLk vc Lkc NksM+ nsaA vc Lkc NksM+ nsa A ukpuk NksM+ nsa ] iwNuk NksM+ ns a] pkSFks pj.k es a iz os'k dj tk,a ---u iwNsa] u ukpsa _ NksM+ ns a] Lkc NksM+ nsa ] nLk feuV
ds fy, fcydqy 'kw U; gks tk,a ---Nks M+ ns a] nLk feuV ds fy, pkSFks pj.k es a pys
tk,a---NksM+ ns a] pqi gks tk,a] vc u iwNsa ---vc u iw Nsa ] Nks M+ nsa] nLk feuV ds fy, tS Lks feV x,] nLk feuV ds fy, tS Lks ej x,---[kM+s gSa] [kM+s jg tk,a---
fxj x, gS a] fxjs jg tk,a ---cS Bs gSa ] cS Bs jg tk,a--- nLk feuV ds fy, tSLks feV x,] LkekIr gks x,A nLk feuV ds fy, Lkc
'kwU; gks x;kA nLk feuV ds fy, feV x,] LkekIr gks x,] tSLks gSa gh ugha A nLk
feuV xgjs foJke es a mrj tk,a vkS j Hkhrj ns[krs jgsa D;k gks jgk gSA Hkhrj
izdk'k gh izdk'k Hkj tk,xkA vnHkqr izdk'k Hkhrj Hkj tk,xkA iz dk'k gh izdk'k] vuar izdk'k Hkhrj Hkj tk,xkA
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ns[ksa ] n'kZd pysa&fiQjsa u] tgka gSa pq ipki ogha [kM+s jgs a vkSj ckr u djsa A
ckrphr u dfj, n'kZdks a esa Lks dksbZ ] vU;Fkk dy Lks vkidks [kM+s ugha gksus
fn;k tk,xkA
nLk feuV ds fy, tSLks ej x,] feV x,A Hkhrj iz dk'k gh iz dk'k 'ks "k jg x;kA Hkhrj izdk'k gh iz dk'k 'ks"k jg x;kA Hkhrj iz dk'k gh izdk'k 'ks "k jg
x;kA izdk'k gh izdk'k] vuar izdk'kA tS Lks feV x,] tSLks cw an Lkkxj esa [kks
tk,A
Hkhrj ns [krs jgsa] Hkhrj ns [krs jgsa A Hkhrj ns[ksa] Hkhrj ns[ksa] Lkk{kh ek=k jg
tk,aA vuar iz dk'k] vuar iz dk'k 'ks"k jg x;kA vkuan dh èkkjk,a cgus yxsa xh]
efLr"d Lks iS j rd vkuan dh èkkjk,a cgus yxs axhA Hkhrj ns[ksa] vkuan gh vkua nHkj tk,xkA jks,a&jks,a esa] 'okLk&'okLk esa vkua n gh vkuan Hkj tk,xkAvkuan gh vkua n 'ks"k jg tkrk gSA Hkhrj ns[ksa ] Hkhrj ns[ksa] bLkh vkuan ds
jkLrs izHkq rd igqapuk gSA bLkh izdk'k ds jkLrs mLkds ea fnj dks [kkst ysuk gSA
Bhd Lks igpku ysa bLk izdk'k dh >yd dksA Bhd Lks igpku ysa bLk vkuan ds vuqHko dksA
Lkc 'kkar gks x;k] Lkc 'kw U; gks x;kA fdLkh vkS j gh nqfu;k es a [kks x,
gS aA ;g nqfu;k feV xbZ ] dks bZ vkSj gh nqfu;k 'kq: gks xbZ gSA Hkhrj] Hkhrj ns [ks a]Hkhrj Mwcrs tk,a] Mw crs tk,aA ns[ksa ] iz dk'k gh iz dk'k] vkuan gh vkua n 'ks"k jg
tkrk gSA
Lkc 'kwU; gks x;kA Lkc 'kkar gks x;kA Hkhrj izdk'k gh iz dk'k jg x;kA
vuar izdk'k] ,s Lkk izdk'k tSLkk dHkh ugha tkukA vifjfpr] vKkr izdk'k Hkj
x;k gSA vkuan gh vkua n] jksvka&jksvka 'okLk&'okLk vkuan Lks Hkj xbZ gSA bLk
vkuan dk Lokn Bhd Lks ys ys a] bLks igpku ysa A vkus okys rhu fnuksa esa bLkesa vkS j xgjs vkS j xgjs vkS j xgjs Mw crs tkuk gSA jkst vkS j xgjs mrjuk gSA jks t
vkS j xgjs mrj gh tk,axsA LkadYi djsa fd bLkesa jks t rhu fnu esa xgjkbZ xgjkbZ
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iz dk'k gh iz dk'k] vkuan gh vkua n 'ks"k jg x;k gSA iz dk'k gh iz dk'k]
vkuan gh vkuan 'ks "k jg x;k gSA
vc nksuksa gkFk tks M+ dj] fLkj >qdk dj ijekRek dks èkU;okn ns nsaA nksuksa gkFk tks M+ ys a] fLkj >qdk ys a] ijekRek dks èkU;okn ns ns aA mLkdh vuqda ik vikj
gS! mLkdh vuqda ik vikj gS! mLkdh vuqda ik dk dksbZ var ugha ! mLkdh
vuq daik vikj gS! gkFk tksM+ ysa ] fLkj >q dk ysa mLkds vKkr pj.kks a es aA èkU;okn ns nsaA tks vkt feyk gS og jkst c
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vkidks Hkkx ys uk gks rks è;ku esa LkfEefyr gks a] vU;Fkk ;gka u vk,a A ;gka vxj
dks bZ Hkh n'kZd dh rjg gks xk] mLks iQkSju ckgj dj fn;k tk,xkA bLkfy,
ftudks Hkkx ysuk gS os gh ;gka vk,a] vU;Fkk u vk,a A ;gka ns [kus okys dh
dksbZ t:jr ugha gSA vkSj dks bZ Hkh O;fDr è;ku esa ;gka &ogka chp esa ugha pys xkA
,d ckr vkSj è;ku j[kuh gS fd txg ;gka cgq r T;knk ugha gS] bLkfy,
vki mNys a&dwnsa viuh gh txg ijA nkSM+s a erA D;ksa fd vki nkS M+sa xs rks fiQj
dfBukbZ gksxhA txg ugha gS] nwLkjs Lks nks&pkj yksx Vdjk x,] fxj x,] fiQj
mudk è;ku VwV tk,xkA viuh gh txg dk [k;ky j[ksa] ogha dwns a&mNysa ] tks
Hkh djuk gS ogha djsaA Hkkxs a erA cgqr vPNk iz ;ksx vkius fd;k gS] tks eSa us dgkA de Lks de ipkLk izfr'kr yksxksa us iwjh 'kfDr yxkbZ A ifj.kke Hkh gq , gS aA dy Lkqcg Lks eS a pkgwaxk
fd LkkS izfr'kr ifj.kke gksa vkS j LkkS iz fr'kr yksx 'kfDr yxk,a A rhu fnu esa
dks bZ Hkh vkneh [kkyh gkFk ugha ykSVuk pkfg,A ugha ykSVus dk dks bZ dkj.k Hkh ugha gSA ysfdu vki dq N Hkh u djsa] rc cgq r vLkaHko gSA ,d dne vki
pysa] ijekRek gtkj dne pyus dks Lknk rS ;kj gSA bu rhu fnuksa esa vkids
Hkhrj Lkc dqN cny Lkdrk gSA dks bZ 'kfDr vkids Hkhrj mrj Lkdrh gS vkS j Lkc :ika rfjr] Lkc VªkaLkiQkeZ gks Lkdrk gSA
LkadYi djsa] rhu fnu mLkdk iwjk iz ;ks x djsa A tks ckrsa eSaus igys dgh gS a]
os Lkksp dj dq N LkadYi dj ys uk] os rhu fnu iwjs djus gSaA vfèkdre ekS u
jgukA tks yksx iwjk ekSu u Hkh j[k Lkds a] os Hkh vfèkdre pqi jgs aA vkS j fnu
esa Hkh dksbZ dgha cSBk gks] dqN dj jgk gks] rks nw Lkjs yksx mLkesa fdLkh rjg dh
ckèkk u nsa Avkidk LkadYi iwjk gks] ,sLkh ijekRek Lks izkFkZuk djrk gw aA
gekjh vkt dh jkr dh cSBd iw jh gq bZ A
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tks ?kj ckjS vkiuk - ूवचन -2
è;ku ds Lkaca èk es a
es js fiz ; vkReu~! è;ku ds Lka caèk es a nksÙkhu ckrs a ge Lke> ys a] vkSj fiQj iz ;ks x ds fy,
cS Bs axsA ,d ckr rks ;g Lke> ysuh t:jh gS] è;ku esa ge fLkiQZ rS ;kjh djrs gS a]
ifj.kke Lknk gh gekjs gkFk ds ckgj gSA ysfdu ;fn rS ;kjh iwjh gS] rks ifj.kke
Hkh Lkqfuf'pr :i Lks ?kfVr gksrk gSA ifj.kke dh ¯prk Nks M+ dj Je dh gh
ge ¯prk djsa A vkS j ifj.kke dh ¯prk Nks M+ dj iw jh ¯prk ge vius Je dh
dj Lkdsa ] rks ifj.kke Hkh Lkq fuf'pr gSA ys fdu ifj.kke dh ¯prk es a Je Hkh
iwjk ugha gks ikrk vkSj ifj.kke Hkh vfuf'pr gks tkrs gS aA igys rhu pj.k vkidh rS;kjh ds pj.k gSaA pkSFks pj.k esa vkidks fLkiQZ
izrh{kk djuh gS] vkS j dqN Hkh ugha djuk gSA tSLks dksbZ }kj [kksy dj cS B tk,
vkS j ?kj esa Lkw ;Z dh fdj.kksa ds vkus dh iz rh{kk djsA ge }kj gh [kks y Lkdrs
gS a] Lkw;Z dk vkuk u vkuk Lkw;Z ij gh fuHkZ j gSA ;g cgq r ets dh ckr gS! ge
pkgsa rks }kj dks can j[k dj Lkw;Z dks vkus Lks jksd Lkdrs gSa ] ysfdu fLkiQZ }kj
[kksy dj ge Lkw;Z dks Hkhrj ugha yk LkdrsA ys fdu }kj [kq yk gks rks Lkw;Z ds
vkxeu ij izdk'k gekjs ?kj ds Hkhrj Hkh vk gh tkrk gSAè;ku ds igys rhu pj.k }kj dks [kksyus ds pj.k gSa A pkSFkk pj.k izrh{kk
dk] vos¯Vx dk gSA ;s rhu pj.k ftruh rhozrk] ftrus LkadYi] ftruh xgurk]
xgjkbZ Lks fd, tk,axs] mruk gh }kj [kq y LkdsxkA tjk Lkh Hkh Ñi.krk] tjk Lkh
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Hkh da twLkh] Je esa tjk Lkk Hkh cpko ifj.kke esa ckèkk cu tk,xkA tSLks yksgkj
yksgk xje gks rHkh pksV djrk gS vkS j yks gs dks eksM+ ys rk gSA ge Hkh tc
vius Je dh iwjh xjeh esa gks rs gS a rHkh gekjs Hkhrj :ikarj.k dh ?kVuk ?kVrh
gSA bLkfy, iwjs Je ij è;ku j[kuk t:jh gSA vc eS a ns[krk gwa ] vki ukp
jgs gSa ] rks mLk ukpus esa Hkh vki O;oLFkk j[kus dh dksf'k'k djrs gS aA mLk
ukpus esa Hkh vki e;kZnk vkSj Lkhek cukus dh dksf'k'k djrs gSaA mLk ukpus esaHkh ,s Lkk ugha ekywe iM+ rk fd vkius iwjh rkdr yxk nh gSA dqN Lknk gh ihNs
cpk jg tkrk gSA og tks ihNs cpk jg x;k gS ogh ckèkk cu tk,xkA vki
fpYyk jgs gSa_ tc fpYyk gh jgs gSa] rks èkhjs ugha] iw jh 'kfDr Lks!
iz R;s d pj.kviuh iw jh 'kfDr ij gksxk rHkh nwLkjs esa izos'k gksxkA tSLks vkidks dkj pykus
dk irk gks] rks ,d xs;j tc viuh iwjh 'kfDr esa gks xk rks nw Lkjs xs;j esa
e'khu dks Mkyk tk Lkdrk gSA nwLkjk iwjh 'kfDr es a gksxk rks rhLkjs xs;j esa Mkyk
tk Lkdrk gSA rhLkjk iwjh 'kfDr esa gks rHkh ge pkSFks xs;j es a xkM+h dks Mky
Lkdrs gS aA
Bhd oS Lks gh gekjs 'kjhj vkS j fpÙk dh Hkh O;oLFkk gSA ogka tc ge
,d pj.k iw jk djsa ] rks gh nwLkjs pj.k esa iz os'k dj Lkdrs gS aA nwLkjs pj.k dk izos'k&}kj igys pj.k dh DykbesDLk] pje Lkhek ij gh LkaHko gksrk gSA bLkfy,
eSa dgwaxk fd vkt Lkq cg Lksµdy rks geus iz;ksx ds fy, è;ku fd;k Fkk rkfd
vkids [k;ky esa vk tk,µvkt Lkqcg Lks rks iz;ksx ugha gS] dy vkius Lke>
fy;k gS] vkt Lks djuk gh gS] iwjh 'kfDr yxk nsuh gSA vkSj Fkdus dk FkksM+k
Hkh [k;ky u ysukA ;g Hkh Lke>k ns uk t:jh gS fd vki Fkd Lkdrs gSa vxj
vkius vius dks jksdkA vxj vkius ugha jks dk] vki dHkh ugha FkdsaxsA ;g eq >s LkSdM+ ksa fe=kks a ij iz ;ks x djds cgqr gS jkuh dk vuqHko gq vk fd
tks yks x vius dks tjk Lkk jksd ys axs] os Fkd tk,a xsA D;ks afd muds Hkhrj nks gjs
dke 'kq: gks tk,axsA nksgjs dke Fkdk Mkyrs gSa A os ukp Hkh jgs gS a vkSj jksd
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Hkh jgs gSaA rks mudh gkyr oSLkh gS tS Lks dks bZ dkj esa ,DLkhyjsVj Hkh nck jgk
gS vkSj czs d Hkh yxk jgk gS] ,d LkkFkA vki fpYyk Hkh jgs gS a vkSj jksd Hkh
jgs gSa A rks vki vius Hkhrj myVh 'kfDr;ka iSnk dj jgs gS a tks vkidks Fkdk
nsa xhA vxj vki tks dj jgs gS a mLkes a iw js gh cg x, gS a] rks vki Fkds axs ugha]è;ku ds ckn vki vkS j Hkh gyds] vkSj Hkh rkts] vkSj Hkh LoLFk gks tk,a xsA
bLkfy, tjk Lkk Hkh jksduk] vkidks Fkdku ykus okyk fLk¼ gksxkA bLkfy, tjk
Hkh u jksdsaA
nwLkjh ckr tks Lke> ysuh t:jh gS og ;g gS fd dbZ ckj ,sLkk gksrk gS
fd fdUgha fe=kksa dks irk gh ugha pyrk fd muds Hkhrj u rks ukpus dk Hkko
mB jgk gS] u fpYykus dk Hkko mB jgk gS] u jksus dk Hkko mB jgk gS] u ga Lkus dk Hkko mB jgk gS] os D;k djsa \ 'okLk ysuk rks gekjs gkFk esa gS] rks ge igyk pj.k iw jk dj ysrs gSa A
vkS j ¶eS a dkS u gwa \¸ iw Nuk Hkh gekjs gkFk esa gS] rks ge vkf[kjh pj.k Hkh iwjk
dj ys rs gS aA ysfdu nwLkjs pj.k es a dq N yksxksa dks ,s Lkk yxrk gS fd dksbZ Hkko ugha mB jgk] rks D;k djs a\ rks nwLkjk pj.k vxj #d x;k rks igys vkSj rhLkjs
pj.k cs dkj gks tk,axsA rks nw Lkjs pj.k esa [kks t dj ysa 'kh?kz rk Lks] tks Hkh vkids
[k;ky esa vk tk,A vxj dqN Hkh [k;ky esa u vk,---dbZ ckj ,sLkk gksrk gS] gekjs neu brus xgjs gSa ] geus vius dks bLk Hkkafr nck;k vkSj jksdk gS fd gks
Lkdrk gS gekjh dksbZ Hkh o`fÙk izdV gks us ds fy, fgEer u tqVk ik,---,sLkh
gkyr esa vxj vkius Bhd Lks igyk pj.k iwjk fd;k gS] rks nw Lkjs pj.k esa
vkidks dqN Hkh u Lkw>s rks vki fLkiQZ viuh txg ij ukpuk 'kq: dj ns aA
dqN Hkh u Lkw >rk gks] mLk gkyr esa fLkiQZ ukpuk 'kq: dj nsaA Lka Hkkouk ;g gS
fd ukpuk 'kq: djrs gh] ,d feuV vki ukpsa xs] ,d feuV ds ckn ukpukvkids Hkhrj iQwV iM+ sxkA fiQj vkS j phtsa Hkh iQwV Lkdrh gSaA
iz R;sd O;fDr ds Hkhrj nw Lkjs pj.k es a ,d Lkh pht ugha ?kVsxhA dks bZ jks
Lkdrk gS] dksbZ fpYyk Lkdrk gS] dksbZ gaLk Lkdrk gS] dksbZ ukp Lkdrk gS] dksbZ
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fxj dj yks V Lkdrk gS] dq N Hkh gks Lkdrk gSA bLkfy, nwLkjs pj.k esa fdLkdks
D;k gks jgk gS] bLkdh fiQØ u djsa_ Lo;a dks D;k gks jgk gS] bLkdh fiQØ
djsaA vkSj tks Hkh gks jgk gS mLks iw.kZ Lkg;ksx ns ns aA tjk Lks Lkg;ksx dh deh
iwjs Je dks O;FkZ dj nsxhA rhLkjs pj.k ds Lkacaèk esa Hkh ,d ckr Lke> ys a fd tc ge ¶eS a dkS u
gw a\¸ iwNrs gS a] rks nks ¶eSa dkSu gwa \¸ ds chp esa txg ugha NksM+uh gSA vkS j
rhLkjs pj.k esa tc ¶eSa dkS u gwa\¸ iw N jgs gS a] rc ukpuk tkjh j[ksaxs rks ¶eSa dkS u gwa \¸ iw Nus esa cgqr vkLkkuh gksxhA ukpus ds fjne ij ¶eS a dkS u gwa\¸ iw N
Lkds axs rks cgqr rhozrk vk tk,xhA vkSj ;g brus tksj Lks Hkhrj iwNuk gS fd
vxj ckgj fudy tk, rks bLkdh ¯prk ugha ysuh] mLks fudy tkus nsukA rhu pj.k iw js gks tkus ds ckn pkSFks pj.k esa fLkiQZ Lkk{kh jg tkuk] Hkhrj ns[krs jguk] D;k gks jgk gSA cgqr dq N gksxk] vkSj tks dqN Hkh gks mLkdh
ckrphr vkiLk es a vki ugha djsaxsA
nksigj rhu Lks pkj rks esjs ikLk ekSu es a cS Bs axsA pkj Lks ikap ds chp O;fDrxr :i Lks ftUgsa dqN Hkh dguk gks os eq>Lks vkdj dg tk,a xsA
rhu Lks pkj tks ge ekSu esa cSBsaxs] mLk Lkacaèk es a nksÙkhu ckrsa Lke> ysa A
gkWy ds Hkhrj cSBsa xs rhu Lks pkjA tks fe=k Hkh gkWy ds ckgj Hkh ekS u gSa os rks Bhd] tks ekS u ugha gS a os Hkh gkWy ds }kj Lks gh ekSu gks tk,axsA gkWy ds
Hkhrj ,d Hkh 'kCn dk mPpkj.k ugha djuk gS] fdLkh dks Hkh ughaA cLk
pqipki vkdj cSB tkukA eSa vkids chp cSBk jgw axk] vki vka[k can fd, cS Bs
jgs aA fdLkh dks xgjh 'okLk ysuk gks] ys Lkdrk gSA fdLkh dks ukpuk gks] ukp
Lkdrk gSA fdLkh dks jksuk gks] jks Lkdrk gSA ftLkdks tks gksA vkS j fdLkh dks esjs
ikLk vkus tSLkk yxs rks og nks feuV ds fy, esjs ikLk vkdj cS B Lkdrk gSA ysfdu nks feuV ds ckn ogka Lks gV tk,] D;ks afd vkSj yksxksa dks Hkh vkus dk
[k;ky gks Lkdrk gSA nks feuV Lks T;knk dksbZ esjs ikLk ugha cSBs xkA
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vc ge è;ku ds fy, [kM+ s gks tk,aA dkiQh iQS y dj [kM+ s gks a] vkS j ,d
ckr è;ku j[ksa fd dksbZ eSnku esa nkSM+s ughaA dqN yksx ihNs Hkh vk Lkdrs gS a
ykWu esaA---
tks ?kj ckjS vkiuk - ूवचन -3
LkadYi % Lka?k"kZ dk foLktZ u
es js fiz ; vkReu~!
Fkks M+ s Lks iz 'u Lkkèkdks a us iwNs gSa] mLk Lkaca èk es a ge ckr djsa xsA
,d fe=k us iw Nk gS fd LkadYi dh Lkkèkuk esa D;k FkksM+k Lkk neu]
Lkiz s'ku ugha vk tkrk gS\ LkadYi dh Lkkèkuk es a D;k FkksM+k dk;&Dys'k ugha vk
tkrk gS\
bLk Lka caèk esa nks ckrs a Lke> ysuh t:jh gS aA ,d] fd ;fn fdLkh o`fÙk dks
nckus ds fy, Lka dYi fd;k gS] rc ckr nwLkjh gSA tS Lks fdLkh vkneh dks T;knkHkks tu dh vknr gSA bLk vknr Lks NqVdkjs ds fy, vxj mLkus miokLk dk
LkadYi fd;k gS] rc neu gksxkA ysfdu T;knk Hkkstu dh u dks bZ vknr gS] u
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T;knk Hkkstu Lks yM+ us dk dksbZ [k;ky gSA rc ;fn miokLk dk LkadYi fd;k
gS rks og fLkiQZ LkadYi gS] mLkes a neu ugha gSA
bLk Lkkèkuk f'kfoj esa eSaus ftLk Lka dYi dh ckr dh gS] og fdLkh o`fÙk
dks nckus ds fy, ugha] LkadYi dks gh iQSykus ds fy, gSA o`fÙk dks nckus ds fy, Hkh Lka dYi dk iz;ksx gks Lkdrk gS] gks rk gS] gksrk jgk gSA ysfdu og
LkadYi dk fu"ksèkkRed] fuxs fVo :i gSA
eS a bLk dejs ds ckgj tkrk gwa] bLkes a nks ckrsa gks Lkdrh gSaA ckgj tkuk
eq>s vkua niw.kZ ekywe gks jgk gS bLkfy, ckgj tkrk gwa ;k bLk dejs es a eq >s nq [k
ekyw e iM+ jgk gS bLkfy, ckgj tkrk gwaA nksuksa gkyr esa eSa vkidks ckgj tkrk
gq vk fn[kkbZ iMwaxk] ys fdu nksuksa esa fpÙk&fLFkfr fHkUu gks xhA ,d es a eS a fLkiQZ dejs Lks Hkkx jgk gwa ] nwLkjs esa eSa ckgj tk jgk gwaA ,d fuxsfVo gS] ,d ikftfVo gSA
LkadYi dk mi;ksx fdLkh o`fÙk dks nckus ds fy, dfj,xk rks Lkiz s'ku
vkS j neu gksxk] tks ?kkrd gSA Lka dYi dks iQSykus ds fy, gh iz;ksx dfj,xk rks
cgq r Lkg;ksxh gS] cgqr vFkZ iw.kZ gS vkS j cgqr egRoiw.kZ gSA Lkkèkuk f'kfoj es a ge fdLkh pht dks nckus esa tjk Hkh mRLkqd ugha gSaA ;g rks Lkkjh izfØ;k gh phtks a
dks fudkyus dh gS] nckus dh ugha gSA ;g Lkkjk è;ku dk iz;ksx] eu esa tksHkh nck gS] mLks Hkh ckgj iQs ad nsus ds fy, gSA
rks LkadYi dk tks ge iz ;ksx dj jgs gS a] tS Lks ,d vkneh T;knk ckr
djrk gS] bLkLks Nq Vdkjk ikus ds fy, vxj ekS u dk oz r ys] rks ;g neu gqvkA
ysfdu ekS u dk fLkiQZ bLkfy, ozr ys fd rhu fnu mLks ns [kuk gS fd og ekSu
jgus ds LkadYi dks iw jk dj Lkdrk gS ;k ughaA cksyus u cksyus dk dks bZ iz 'u
gh ugha gSA rc fLkiQZ LkadYi dh gh Lkkèkuk gqbZ A
,d nwLkjs fe=k us Hkh iwNk gS fd LkadYi D;k vius Lks gh yM+uk ugha
gS\
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ugha A vLky esa tc rd LkadYi ugha gS rHkh rd ge vius Lks yM+rs gS aA
LkadYi dh deh gesa nks fgLLkksa es a ckaV nsrh gSA nLk fgLLkks a es a Hkh ckaV Lkdrh gSA LkadYighu vkneh dk D;k eryc gksrk gS\ LkadYighu vkneh dk oLrqr%
;g eryc ugha gks rk fd og Lka dYighu gSA LkadYighu vkneh dk eryc
gks rk gS% mLkds Hkhrj ,d gh LkkFk cgqr Lks Lo&fojksèkh Lka dYi gSa A Lka dYighuvkneh dk vFkZ gS% ,d gh LkkFk cgqr Lks Lks YiQ&daVªkfMDVªh LkadYi mLkds
Hkhrj gSa A Lka dYighu vkneh Lka dYighu ugha gks rk] cgq &LkadYih gks rk gS]
Lo&fojksèkh LkadYih gksrk gSA Lka dYioku vkneh dk vFkZ gS fd mLkds Hkhrj ,d {k.k esa ,d gh LkadYi gS vkSj mLk Lka dYi ij mLkdk Lkkjk fpÙk ,dtqV]
Lkexz gS] bdV~Bk gSA
fdLkh Hkh NksVh ckr ij vxj fpÙk iw jk bdV~Bk gks tk,] VksVy gks tk,]
rks ge vius Lks yM+ gh ugha Lkdrs] D;ksafd gekjs ikLk nwLkjk dksbZ cprk gh
ugha ftLkLks ge yM+ saA eS a vius bu nksuksa gkFkks a dks yM+k Lkdrk gwaA ;s es js gh nksuksa gkFk gSaA esjk vkèkk 'kjhj ,d gkFk dh rjiQ gks Lkdrk gS] vkèkk nwLkjs
gkFk dh rjiQ gks Lkdrk gSA ysfdu eS a bu nksuks a dks Lkg;ksxh cuk Lkdrk gwa A ;s esjs gh nks uks a gkFk gSa A vkS j rc buesa dks bZ yM+kbZ ugha jg tkrh] ;s bdV~Bs gks
tkrs gSa A
LkadYi dk vFkZ gS% gekjs Hkhrj tks eYVh&foYLk gS a] tks cgqr Lka dYi gSa ]
cgq &LkadYi gS a] fojksèkh Lka dYi gSa ] os Lkc ges a vkRe&[ka fMr fd, gq, gSa ]
fMLkbaVhxzs V fd, gq, gSa A ,d Lka dYi iwjk djrs gh gekjs Hkhrj fØLVykbts 'ku]
,dhdj.k gksuk 'kq: gks tkrk gSA tc Hkh dks bZ O;fDr ,d Nks Vs Lks LkadYi dks Hkh iwjk djrk gS] rc og
O;fDr cu tkrk gSA de Lks de mruh nsj dks rks O;fDr cu gh tkrk gSA
va xzs th dk 'kCn O;fDr ds fy, ba fMfotq vy cgqr vPNk gSA bafMfotqvy dk
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eryc gks rk gS% bafMfoftcy] ftLks ge cka V u Lkdsa] v&caVkA vxj
bafMfotqvy dks ge ¯gnh es a iz dV djs a] rks dguk gksxk% v&foHkDr] vucaVk]
bdV~BkA
LkadYi Lka?k"kZ ugha gS Lo;a LksA LkadYi Lo;a Lks Lka ?k"kZ dk foLktZ u gS] Lo;a dk ,d gks uk gSA
,d nwLkjs fe=k us iwNk gS bLkh Lka nHkZ esa fd D;k Lkkèkuk esa o`fÙk;ksa ds
js pu dh gh t:jr gS ;k neu dh Hkh t:jr gS\
neu dh rks Lkkèkuk esa dksbZ Hkh txg ugha gSA jspu dh gh txg gSA Lkp
ckr ;g gS fd gesa ijekRek dks ikuk ugha gSA geus ijekRek dks [kks ;k gSA ges a mLks okiLk ikuk gSA og dks bZ ubZ miyfCèk ugha gSA ,d vFkks± esa] tks gekjsHkhrj fujarj ekStw n gS mLkh dks m?kkM+uk gSA rks geus vius Åij ftruh o`fÙk;ksa
dks neu djds bdV~Bk dj fy;k gS mudk dwM+k&ddZV LkHkh vyx dj ns uk
iM+ sxkA ;fn gekjs eu ij dks bZ Hkh o`fÙk dk vkoj.k u jg tk,] rks tks 'ks"k cpsxk] ogh ijekRek gSA
ysfdu neu esa rks vkoj.k c
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uLk&uLk vkSj [kwu ds d.k&d.k es a iQS y x;kA og fudy ugha ik;k] og nc
x;k Hkhrj] og Lkc rjiQ iQSy x;kA
tS Lks dgha Lks eokn fudy jgh gks] rks dks bZ Hkh ugha dgsxk fpfdRLkd
fd bLkdks nckuk gS fd js pu djuk gSA iQksM+k gks x;k gS] eokn gS] rks mLks ckgj fudky vyx djks] LkiQkbZ djksA ysfdu gks Lkdrk gS fd dksbZ dgs fd
bLks nck dj Hkhrj dj yks! vius 'kjhj dk bruk fgLLkk [kjkc ckgj pyk
tk, rks cM+k uqdLkku gks tk,xkA otu rks t:j Fkks M+ k de gks xk ghA rks bLks nck ysa Hkhrj] Åij Lks eyge&ifÍ;ka dj ysa vkS j eokn dks va nj dj nsaA
rks fiQj è;ku jgs fd og eokn ckdh [kwu dks Hkh eokn cuk ns xhA vkSj
;g Hkh è;ku jgs fd og iwjs 'kjhj dks LkM+k nsxhA vkS j ;g Hkh è;ku jgs fd mLkLks vki LoLFk ugha gks axs] vkSj&vkSj chekj gksrs pys tk,axsA Bhd ,sLks gh fpÙk dh of̀Ùk;ka gSaA ftUgs a ckgj iQs aduk pkfg,] mUgsa ge
Hkhrj nck jgs gSa A Øksèk dks ge Hkhrj nck jgs gSa A dke dks ge Hkhrj nck jgs
gS aA yksHk dks] Hk; dks ge Hkhrj nck jgs gSaA
ysfdu vki dgs axs fd D;k ge fdLkh ij Hkh Øksfèkr gks mBsa\ eokn dh ckr rks cgq r nw Lkjh gS] D;ks afd mLkdk nw Lkjs Lks dks bZ Lkacaèk ugha] eq>Lks gh Lkaca èk
gSA esjs iSj es a iQks M+k gS] eS aus eokn ckgj fudky nhA ys fdu Øksèk dk ekeyk rks cgq r nwLkjk gSA Øksèk rks eSa fdLkh ij fudkyw axkA
ysfdu bLks Fkks M+ k Lke>uk t:jh gSA ;g Hkh vko';d ugha gS fd vki
Øksèk nwLkjs ij fudkysaA dks bZ ,sLkk Lkekt Hkh gks Lkdrk gS fd tc Hkh dksbZ
eokn fudkys] nw Lkjs ij iQs adsA rks mLk Lkekt esa cM+h fnDdr [kM+h gks tk,xhA
Øksèk dks Hkh nwLkjs ij fudkyus dh t:jr ugha gSA Øksèk dks Hkh è;ku es a
fudkyk tk Lkdrk gSA nq[k dks Hkh nw Lkjs ij fudkyus dh t:jr ugha gSA nq[k dks Hkh è;ku esa fudkyk tk Lkdrk gSA vds ys gh fudkyk tk Lkdrk gSA Øksèk
esjk gS rks nwLkjs dh t:jr D;k gS\ vds yk gh fudy Lkdrk gSA
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eS a vkiLks ;g dguk pkgrk gwa% dke Hkh] Øksèk Hkh] eksg Hkh] Lkc] tks
Hkh gekjs Hkhrj gS] ge mLks vxj nwLkjs ij u fudkysa vkS j è;ku esa fudkysa rks
,d :ika rj.k gks xkA nwLkjs ij fudkyus ij rks miæo gksus gh okyk gSA fdLkh
nw Lkjs ij Øksèk fudkys axs rks miæo gksxkA xkyh ns axs rks xkyh ykS VsxhA fiQj nwLkjkHkh rks Øksèk fudkysxkA fiQj bLkdk va r dgka gks xk\
bLkfy, ftu yksxksa us Lkekt dk è;ku j[kk mUgks aus Lkcdks Lke>k fn;k
fd Øksèk er fudkyks] Øksèk vius Hkhrj ih tkvksA rks mUgksaus Lkekt dks rks
cpk fy;k] nwLkjs dks rks cpk fy;k] ysfdu vki iQa Lk x,A eS a vki ij Øksèk u
d:a rks vki rks cp x,] ysfdu esjk D;k gksxk\ eS a rks Øksèk Lks Hkjk gwa HkhrjA
;g Øksèk dgka fudysxk\ ;g es js gh O;fDrRo dks #X.k vkS j chekj vkS j ijs 'kku djsxkA vkSj vxj bLk rjg ds cgqr Lks jksx bdV~Bs gks tk,a rks eS a ikxy gks tkÅa xkA
bLkfy, ftruh LkH;rk c
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ugha iM+s xkA ga Lkh vkus yxsxh fd og D;k ikxyiu dj jgk gSA vkSj Hkhrj Lks
o`fÙk mBuh can gks tk,xh] D;ksa fd o`fÙk ds mBus ds fy, iqjkuk neu t:jh gSA
,d vkSj fe=k us iwNk gS fd vkids bLk è;ku ds iz ;ks x esa vxj dgha dks bZ ikxy gks tk,!
ets dh ckr ;g gS fd vxj dksbZ ikxy gks vkSj bLk è;ku dks dj
Lkds rks ikxy ugha jg tk,xkA ;g t:j eqf'dy gSµikxy dks Lke>kukA ge
esa Hkh dbZ ikxy gks rs gS a mudks Hkh Lke>kuk eq f'dy gksrk gS fd dSLks djksA
ikxyksa dks Lke>kuk cgqr eqf'dy gS fd è;ku os dS Lks djsa A ys fdu vxj ikxy dks Hkh Lke>k;k tk Lkds rks ikxy Hkh ikxyiu Lks eqDr gks tk,xkA D;ks afd ftu phtks a dks mLkus nck;k gS os fxj tk,a rks mLkdk eu gydk gks tk,A
bLk è;ku ds iz;ksx Lks dks bZ ikxy ugha gks Lkdrk] D;ks afd ;g è;ku dk
iz;ks x ikxyiu dks ckgj iQsaduk gSA ikxy gksus dk jkLrk gS% Hkhrj nckukA
ckgj iQsaduk ikxy gks us dk jkLrk ugha gSA ge rks dpjs dks ?kj ds ckgj iQs ad jgs gSa ] ge mLks Hkhrj ugha j[k jgsA
rks bLk iz ;ksx Lks dksbZ ikxy ugha gks LkdrkA gka] ge pwafd bLk iz ;ksx dks ugha fd, gS a bLkfy, gekjs Hkhrj cgqr Lkk ikxyiu bdV~Bk gS] og bLkesa
fudysxk] og fn[kkbZ iM+sxkA bLkfy, vkidks 'kd gks Lkdrk gS fd ;g
vPNk&Hkyk vkneh] ftLkdks geus dHkh bLk rjg fpYykrs&ukprs ugha ns [kk]
;g fpYyk&ukp D;ksa jgk gS\ ikxy rks ugha gks x;k\
;g ikxy Fkk! vkids Lkekt vkSj vkidh Ñik Lks bLkus bruk ikxyiu
bdV~Bk dj fy;k gS tks fudy jgk gSA ;g vkneh ikxy gS! vkSj vki ;g er Lke>uk fd ;gh gS] vki Hkh gSa A vki vius dks jksd dj [kM+s gksaxs
ikxyiu dks] ;g fudyus ns jgk gSA rks è;ku j[kuk] vkf[kj esa egaxk vkidks
iM+ sxkA bLkdk fudy tk,xk] vkidk cp tk,xkA
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ikxyiu gekjs Hkhrj gS! mLkdk fudy tkuk t:jh gS] rks ge gyds gks
tk,aA vkSj dksbZ ikxy jgrs gq, ijekRek rd ugha igq ap LkdrkA gydk gks uk
iM+ sxkA ikxyiu cks> gSA ikxyiu Hkkjh iRFkj dh rjg gekjh Nkrh ij gSA rks
ia[k ysdj ge mM+ ugha LkdrsA ;s Lkc iRFkj vyx djus iM+sa xsAvc tks vyx dj jgk gS mLkdks ge dgrs gSa µrqe ;g D;k dj jgs gks\
D;ksa fd dy rd og fNik, Fkk vkHkw"k.kksa es a iRFkjksa dks] e[keyh diM+ksa esa
nck, Fkk] rks ge Lke>rs Fks bLkds 'kjhj ds fgLLks gSaA vkt bLkus fudky dj iRFkj iQsads rks ge dgrs gSaµrqe ikxy rks ugha gks x, gks\
vkSj etk ;g gS fd ge Hkh mUgha iRFkjks a dks nck, [kM+ s gS aA tc vki
fdLkh vkneh dks ukprs ns[krs gS a rks vki Lkks prs gS a fd ;g ikxy rks ugha gks x;k! vkius vius eu ds Hkhrj dHkh iwNk gS fd vki Hkh ukpuk pkgrs gSa \ dHkh ckFk:e es a vds ys es a vius dks ukprs gq , vuqHko fd;k gS\ dHkh
ckFk:e ds vkbZus esa eqag fcpdkrs gq , ns[kk gS vius dks [kq n\
vkbZuk u gks ckFk:e esa rks ckr nwLkjh gSA ysfdu ckFk:e esa ge LkcFkksM+k&cgq r fudkyrs gS aA nwLkjksa ds Lkkeus LkEgy dj [kM+ s gks tkrs gS aA og
LkEgyuk [krjukd gSA mLkesa Hkhrj dq N bdV~Bk gks jgk gSA bdV~Bk gksrs&gksrs
,d Lkhek gS gj pht dh] mLkds ckn iQwVuk 'kq: gks tkrk gSA ftudks ge ikxy dgrs gSa os geLks fHkUu yksx ugha gS a] gekjs gh tSLks yksx gSa A fLkiQZ tks
iQdZ gS og FkksM+k Lkk Doka fVVh dk gSA mudh ek=kk tjk T;knk] gekjh tjk de
gSA os tjk vkxs fudy x, gS a] ge tjk ihNs gS aA ysfdu jkLrk ogh gSA fdruh
ns j vkxs jgsa xs\ ge Hkh igq ap tk,axsA ge ukeZ y fdLe ds ikxy gSa] LkkekU;
fdLe ds ikxy gSa] vkSj Hkh ikxy gekjs tSLks cgqr gSa bLkfy, ge pyrs gSaA os
tjk cs pkjs vds ys fdLe ds ikxy gks tkrs gSa rks mudks fnDdr gks tkrh gSA ugha] bLk è;ku ds iz;ksx Lks rks dksbZ ikxy ugha gks LkdrkA ys fdu bLk
è;ku ds iz ;ksx esa ikxyiu fudyrk gSA fudyuk ikxy gksuk ugha gSA ikxy
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gks us dk eryc gS% tc vki u fudkyuk pkgsa vkSj fudyus yxs rks Lke>uk
fd ikxy gks x,A tc vkids cLk esa u jgs vkSj fudy tk,A
,d vkneh LkM+d ij tk jgk gS vkS j u jksd Lkds vkS j gaLkus yxs [kM+ s
gks dj] rks Lke>uk fd ikxy gks x;kA vc og yk[k dksf'k'k djs] mLkds cLk ds ckgj gSA mLkus bruk jksd fy;k gS fd vc cLk Lks T;knk rkdr bdV~Bh gks
xbZ gS] cLk dks rksM+ dj fudy jgh gSA ysfdu ;gka ge tks iz ;ks x dj jgs gSa
og Los PNk Lks] okys afV;jyh] ge fudky jgs gS a bLkfy, fudy jgk gSA vkS j ge ftLk {k.k pkgrs gSa mLkh {k.k #d tk,xkA ftLk {k.k geus pkgk] #dkA
ikxyiu dk eryc gh ;g gS fd vius ij fu;a=k.k u jg tk,A bLk è;ku esa
rks vius ij iw jk fu;a=k.k gSA nwLkjh ckr] tks yksx ikxy gksrs gS a mUgsa Lke>kuk cgq r eqf'dy gks rk gS] D;ksa fd Lke>us dh cqf¼ Hkh [kks tkrh gSA ge esa Lks Hkh dq N yksx [kM+s jg
tkrs gS aA nLk&ikap ,sLks yksx gSa] os [kM+s jg tkrs gSa] os nwLkjksa dks ns[krs jgrs gS aA
vc mUgs a ikxy ekuuk pkfg,A D;ks afd nwLkjs dks ns [kus Lks dksbZ Hkh iz;kstu ugha gSA nwLkjs dks ns [kus dks cM+h nqfu;k iM+h gS] ;gka vkus dh dksbZ Hkh t:jr ugha A
bruh nwj dh ;k=kk nwLkjs dks ns[kus ds fy, dh gks rks csdkj xbZA vkS j nw Lkjs dks
ns [k dj dfj,xk D;k\ D;k iQk;nk gS\ vius dks ns [kus dh dksf'k'k dfj,A ys fdu dq N yksx vius Lks cpus ds fy, nwLkjs dks ns[krs jgrs gS aA ;g rjdhc
gS] ,Ldsi gS] iyk;u gSA nwLkjs dks ns[k dj os vius dks cpk jgs gSa fd vius
dks u ns [kuk iM+sA
vc vkt nksigj ekSu esa eSa us ns[kk% nks&pkj yksx nw Lkjksa dks ns[kus es a yxs
gS aA ;s ikxy gS aA vPNh nqfu;k gksxh rks budk bykt gksxkA vHkh budk bykt
ugha gksrkA cfYd gks Lkdrk gS ;s vius eu es a Lkksp jgs gksa fd ;s Lkkjs ikxy yksx bdV~Bs gks x, gS a] ge ,d cqf¼eku ;gka cSBs gSaA ge tjk ns[k jgs gSa fd
dkS u&dkSu ikxy gSaA
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è;ku jgs] ikxyksa dks Nks M+ dj---ikxyksa dks dHkh irk ugha gksrk fd os
ikxy gSa] cLk---ikxyks a dks NksM+ dj LkHkh dks FkksM+k&cgqr 'kd gks rk gS fd ge
ikxy gS aA fLkiQZ ikxyksa dks 'kd ugha gks rk dHkhA vxj vki ikxy[kkus esa tk,a
rks ,d ikxy ugha dgsxk fd eS a ikxy gwa! ns[k ysa vki ikxy[kkus esa tkdjAvLky es a ikxy gksus dk igyk izek.k ;g gS fd mLkdks 'kd dHkh ugha gksrk
fd eS a ikxy gw aA ikxyks a dks Lknk ;gh 'kd gksrk gS fd nw Lkjs ikxy gks x, gSaA
[kyhy ftczku us ,d NksVh Lks ?kVuk fy[kh gS fd mLkdk ,d fe=k
ikxy gks x;kA fe=k ikxy gks x;k rks og n;k fn[kkus ikxy[kkus esa x;kA cM+h
Åaph nhoky ds Hkhrj ikxy[kkus ds cxhps esa mLkdk fe=k cSBk FkkA og tkdj
mLkds ikLk cS B x;kA fiQj mLkus Lkkspk dgka Lks ckr 'kq: d:a A fiQj mLkus ;gh dgk fd ;gka Lkc Bhd rks gS\ mLkus dgk fd fcydqy Bhd gSA ckgj ds ikxy[kkus Lks tc Lks cp x, gS a] cM+k vkua n gSA mLk ikxy us dgk fd ckgj
ds ikxy[kkus Lks tc Lks cp x, gS a rc Lks cM+k vkuan gSA
og rks cM+k gS jku gq vkA og vk;k Fkk LkgkuqHkwfr fn[kkusA mLkus mLk ikxy dks xkSj Lks ns[kk! og ikxy mLkdh rjiQ cM+h LkgkuqHkwfr Lks ns[k jgk
FkkA mLk ikxy us dgk fd rqe Hkh vk x, D;k Hkhrj\ vPNk fd;k! Hkxoku
djs ftuesa Hkh cqf¼ gS Hkhrj vk tk,aA ckgj rks Lkc ikxy gks x, gS aA ikxyksa dks Hkj 'kd dHkh ugha vkrk fd os ikxy gS aA mUgsa Lknk nwLkjksa
ij 'kd vkrk jgrk gS fd os ikxy gSaA cqf¼eku vkneh igyk 'kd vius ij
mBkrk gS fd esjh fLFkfr D;k gS\
bruk t:j eS a dgrk gwa fd ;g iz;ksx jspu dk gS] dSFkkfLkZLk dk gSA
bLkfy, bLkds }kjk ikxy gksus dh dksbZ Lka Hkkouk ugha gSA gka ] bLkdks u dfj,]
rks ikxyiu dks cpk ys us dh Lka Hkkouk gSA
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,d vkSj fe=k us iw Nk gS fd vkius dgk fd bLk è;ku ds iz;ksx es a
dHkh&dHkh vYire oL=k Hkh vLkg gks tkrk gSA rks uXurk dk è;ku esa D;k
LFkku gS\
vLky esa cgqr xgjs esa è;ku Lkexz uXurk gS] VksVy usds MusLk gSA oL=kksa
dh gh ugha] fpÙk ds oL=kksa dh HkhA 'kjhj ij
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bLkhfy, rks nwLkjs dks Hkh uaxk ns[k dj gedks ?kcM+kgV gks rh gSA vc
nwLkjk vkneh ua xk gS] mLkdks vxj LknhZ yx jgh gksxh rks mLkdks yx jgh gksxh
vkS j èkwi yx jgh gksxh rks mLkdks yx jgh gks xh] vki D;ksa ijs 'kku gq, tk jgs
gS a\ vkidks ijs'kkuh bLkfy, gks jgh gS fd mLkdh uXurk fLkiQZ uXurk ugha gS] mLkdh uXurk dgha gekjs xgjs eu esa dkeokLkuk dh izrhd gSA og gekjs eu
dh dkeokLkuk eq f'dy es a Mky jgh gSA
rks tc vkidk eu gydk gks xk rks okLkuk ds tks iz rhd&oL=k gS a os
fxjuk pkgs axsA mLk oDr jks duk gh er] mudks fxj tkus nsukA muds fxjrs gh
eu ,d ubZ xfr es a izos'k dj tk,xkA ;k rks ge dkeokLkuk dks fNikus ds
fy, oL=k igus gq , gS a vkSj ;k fiQj ge dkeokLkuk dks fn[kkus ds fy, oL=k igus gq, gSa A bLkes a iq #"k vkSj L=kh ds chp iQkLkyk gS FkksM+kA vkerkSj Lks iq#"k dkeokLkuk dks fNikus ds fy, oL=k igus gq, gSa vkS j vkerkSj Lks fL=k;ka
dkeokLkuk dks izdV djus ds fy, oL=k igus gq, gSa A bLkfy, iq#"kksa dk oL=k
NksM+uk Lknk vkLkku gS] fL=k;ksa dk NksM+uk vkS j eqf'dy gSA fL=k;ks a ds Lkkjs oL=k muds 'kjhj dks fNikus dk dke de] iz dV djus dk dke T;knk djrs gS aA
vLky es a dksbZ L=kh oL=kksa ds fcuk bruh Lkqanj ugha gksrh ftruh oL=kksa es a fn[kkbZ
iM+rh gSA oL=kks a dk Lkkjk mi;ksx 'kjhj dks mHkkjus ds fy, fd;k tk jgk gSA L=kh ds oL=k cgq r gh vkØked gSa] ,xz sfLko gS aA bLkfy, L=kh dks rks vkSj
eqf'dy gks tkrh gS mUgsa NksM+ukA ysfdu L=kh ds fpÙk es a Hkh {k.k vkrk gS] {k.k
vkrk gS tc eu mLkdk fuHkkZ j gksrk gSA vkS j tc og vius 'kjhj] tc vius
'kjhj dks fn[kkus dh o`fÙk Lks eqDr gks us dk {k.k vkrk gS] rc mLkds oL=k fxj
Lkdrs gS aA
uXurk dk vFkZ oL=kks a ds vFkZ Lks tqM+k gSA oL=k dk vkidk tks vFkZ gS] mLkLks foijhr vkidh uXurk dk vFkZ gksxkA vxj oL=k vkids fy, fLkiQZ 'kjhj
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Hkko tqM+ s gS aA geus uXu 'kjhj dks Lohdkj ugha fd;k gSA tc fd uXu 'kjhj gh
gekjk gS] pkgs ge fdrus gh oL=k igusa ] 'kjhj uXu gh gSA ysfdu uXu 'kjhj Lks
ge Hk;Hkhr gks x, gSa A
eS a ugha dgrk gwa fd vki viuh rjiQ Lks oL=kksa dks Nks M+ ns aA
mu fe=k us ;g Hkh iw Nk gS fd dks bZ viuh rjiQ Lks Nks M+ dj [kM+ k gks
tk,] rks ;g rks vH;kLk gks tk,xkA
eS a ugha dgrk gw a vki viuh rjiQ Lks NksM+ ns aA ysfdu {k.k vk tkrk gS
eu dk tc NksM+us dk [k;ky mBs] rc pq ipki fxjk ns aA vkSj vxj vkidks igys Lks gh irk gS fd vkids fpÙk esa è;ku esa og {k.k vkrk gS] rks mLkdh otg Lks ckèkk u Mkysa ] è;ku ds igys gh oL=k vyx djds [kM+s gks tk,aA
vc eq >s u ekywe fdrus fe=kksa us vkt gh vkdj dgk fd cgqr
dfBukbZ gks tkrh gS oL=k dks iguukµgks rk gS fd iQkM+ dj iQsa d nsa A
iQkM+ dj iQsa dus Lks ukgd oL=k dk uqdLkku gksxkA mLks fudky dj gh j[k nsa og cs grj gSA vkS j chp es a dfBukbZ vk,] vxj vkidks irk py x;k
gS fd chp esa dfBukbZ vkrh gS] rks igys gh j[k ns a] mLkes a dksbZ vH;kLk ugha gS] mLkes a fLkiQZ Lke> gSA vxj xehZ rs t gS rks dksbZ vkneh oL=k fudky dj
j[k nsrk gS] D;ks afd mLks ekywe gS fd oL=k iguus Lks xehZ Hkkjh iM+ tk,xhA
vxj è;ku es a ,sLkh fLFkfr vkrh gS rks Mjs a u] pqipki oL=k vyx dj ns aA
mLk oL=k ds vyx djrs gh dkeo`fÙk dks cgqr cq fu;knh varj iM+ sxkA
vkS j Hk; dks Hkh cgqr] vkids Hk; dh o`fÙk Hkh fxj tk,xhA Hk;Hkhr gSa ge
LkcLksµfd dgha ge uXu [kM+ s gks x, rks D;k gksxk\ dks bZ D;k dgsxk\ oL=kks a ds LkkFk ¶dksbZ D;k dgs xk¸ ;g cgqr tks j Lks tqM+k gSA ckFk:e esa rks vki uXu
gks tkrs gS a] vius vkidks uXu ns[kus es a vkidks dks bZ ,rjkt ugha A ys fdu dksbZ
nwLkjk u ns[k ys] dksbZ nwLkjk D;k dgsxk\ ftLk {k.k oL=k fxj tkrs gSa mLk fnu
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nwLkjs dk Hk; Hkh fxj tkrk gS mLkh {k.kA mLk fnu ds ckn 'kk;n ¶nw Lkjk D;k
dgsxk¸ ;g Lkoky gh ugha mBrk] nwLkjk gh LkekIr gks tkrk gSA vkSj gekjs ikLk
oL=kksa ds fLkok; 'kjhj ds ikLk fxjkus dks dqN gS Hkh ughaA
è;ku jgs] eu es a dq N fxjs] bLkds igys 'kjhj Lks fxjuk t:jh gks tkrk gSA ogh gekjk }kj gSA vkSj tks vkneh 'kjhj dh pht rd fxjkus es a vLkeFkZ
gks rk gS og eu dh pht fxjkus esa cgqr vLkeFkZ gks tkrk gSA 'kjhj dh pht
fxjrs gh eu dh pht fxjus esa Lkgwfy;r] Lkqfoèkk] Lkqxerk] Lkjyrk gks tkrh gSA
bLkfy, eSa us dgk] fdLkh dks Hkh Nks M+uk gks og NksM+ Lkdrk gSA ;g rks
Lkkèkuk f'kfoj gSA ;g dksbZ cktkj ugha gSA ;gka rks os yks x bdV~Bs gS a ftudh
vius esa mRLkq drk gS vkS j tks dgha tkuk pkgrs gSa fdLkh xgjh ;k=kk ijA vkSj ftudh oL=kksa es a mRLkqdrk gS mUgsa Lkkèkuk f'kfojks a es a ugha vkuk pkfg,A mudh nqfu;k ;g ugha gSA tks mruh vksNh vkSj O;FkZ dh phtksa esa mRLkq d gS a mudk
Lkkèkuk Lks dks bZ Lkacaèk dHkh u tqM+ ik,xkA Lkkèkuk Lks Lkaca èk rks mudk gh tqM+
ik,xk tks fcydqy gh ryokj dh èkkj ij pyus ds fy, rS ;kj gS a] brus LkkgLkh gS a] cLk mudkA vU;Fkk ckdh yksxks a dks Lkkèkuk es a mRLkqdrk ugha ysuh pkfg,]
og mudk dke ugha gSA rS ;kjh vkus nsa] oDr vkus ns a] izrh{kk djs aA tc og
oDr vk tk, rcA
,d fe=k us iw Nk gS fd 'kfDrikr ds Lkacaèk esa vkidh D;k n`f‘ gS\
vkt nksigj tks yksx ekS u esa mifLFkr Fks] muesa Lks pkj&Ng bLk fLFkfr
esa vk x, Fks fd mu ij 'kfDrikr gks tk,A ysfdu NksVh&NksVh ckèkk,a ckèkk
cu tkrh gS aA 'kfDrikr dk dsoy bruk gh vFkZ gS fd gekjs pkjksa rjiQ fojkV ÅtkZ
iQSyh gqbZ gSA ijekRek dh vuar 'kfDr iQSyh gqbZ gSA fdLkh {k.k esa vki bLk
Hkko&n'kk esa gksrs gSa fd og 'kfDr vkids Hkhrj izos'k dj tk,A dHkh og
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Lkhèkh Hkh iz os'k dj Lkdrh gSA ysfdu Lkhèkh iz os'k djus es a 'kk;n vki cgqr
eqf'dy es a iM+ tk,a A mLkds vk?kkr dks 'kk;n Lke> ik,a] u Lke> ik,aA 'kk;n
mLkds vk?kkr es a mUeÙk gks tk,a A 'kk;n mLkds vk?kkr esa vki brus ?kcM+k tk,a
fd nqckjk mLk }kj ij u tk,a A D;ksa fd fojkV gS 'kfDr] vkS j mLkdk igykvuq Hko cgqr Lka ?kkrd pksV igqa pk Lkdrk gSA igys vuqHko dh otg LksA fctyh
dks Nw dj dHkh ns[kk gksxk] vutkus Nw xbZ gks xhµij og rks dks bZ cM+h 'kfDr
ugha gS] cgq r Lkkèkkj.k oksYVs t dk ekeyk gSA ijekRek dk oks YVs t rks vua r gSA mLkdh 'kfDr tc igyh niQs fdLkh ik=k esa mrjrh gS rks dq N Hkh gks Lkdrk
gSµmLkds Hkhrj vkaèkh] rwiQku] Hkwdai_ mLkds Hkhrj Tokykeq [kh] Lkc dq N gks
Lkdrk gSA og 'kfDr Lkhèkh Hkh mrj Lkdrh gS] ysfdu [krjs mLkesa cgqr gS aA bLkfy, Lknk vkLkku iM+ rk gS ;g fd fdLkh O;fDr ds ekè;e Lks og mrj tk,A rc
cgq r Lkjyrk gks tkrh gSA og O;fDr tS Lks jsX;qys Vj dk dke dj ikrk gSA tSLks
vkids ?kj es a ,d jsX;qys Vj yxk gqvk gS] mLkLks fdruh fctyh dk oksYVst ?kj ds Hkhrj ykuk] mruk vki yk ikrs gS aA
rks dHkh dks bZ ,s Lkk O;fDr tks mLk 'kfDr dks miyCèk gqvk gks] vkids
fy, ekè;e cu Lkdrk gSA vki vxj rS ;kj gksa rks og ekè;e Lks fojkV dh 'kfDr vki esa mrj Lkdrh gSA og mLk O;fDr dh 'kfDr ugha gksrh] 'kfDr rks
fojkV dh gh gks rh gS] O;fDr rks fLkiQZ ,d ekè;e dh rjg] chp esa ,d
ckaLkq jh dh rjg dke esa vk tkrk gSA ckaLkqjh gks rk gS og] Lkquus okys vki gks rs
gS a] xkus okyk dks bZ vkSj gks rk gSA vksaB fdLkh vkSj ds] xhr fdLkh vkSj ds]
ckaLkq jh fdLkh vkSj dh] dku fdLkh vkS j dsA
'kfDrikr LkaHko gSA vkSj bLk Lkaca èk es a dy ekSu ds Lke; esa nks Ùkhu ckrsavkidks dg nwa rks [k;ky j[ksa] rks ctk; Lke>us ds fd D;k gS] djds gh ns[k
ys a fd og D;k gSA
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tc dy esjs ikLk vk,a] rks vkids Hkhrj tks Hkh gksrk gks mLks iwjh 'kfDr
Lks