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H~ZL
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VF56[ lJRFZTF\ Ô6L XSLX]\ S[4 VF $_ 8[JM
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N]QF6 tIÒG[ T[G[ V8SFJJFYL N]lGIFG[ ÒTFI4
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V[S CNL;
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AWF DF6;MDF\ JWFZ[ 5;\N SZJF ,FIS
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!P lGIlDTTF
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VG[ H[6[ —!__ JQF" S[D ÒJFIm˜ (How To Live
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VG[ lGIlDTTF p5Z ,B[,F ,BF6GM EFJFY"
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VG[ XMWBM/ SZJFDF\ J5ZFI K[4 V[8,]\ H GlC\4
T[ JUZ VG[S XMWBM/M Y. H G XSL CMT¦
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sJW] DF8[ HGFA CFÒ
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56 .:,FD[ ;[\S0M JQFM" 5C[,F ;[S; p5ZG]\
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ZC[JFGM K[f VF\TlZS ZLT[ Ô[TF\ GDFhDF\
lJRFZMG[ VFDYL T[D E8SJFGM K}8M NMZ VF5L
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JBTDF\ VG[ AG[ TM HDFT ;FY[ VNF SZLV[4 TM H
AWF ,FE D[/JL XSFIP GDFhDF\
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ChZT V,LsVPfo HIFZ[ TG[ V[D
H6FI S[ TFZF DGG[ B]NFGL ElST
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ChZT V,LsVPfo +6 J[/FV[ +6
RLH p5Z SFA} ZFBH[o s!f .AFNTDF\
lN, p5Z sZf HDTL JBT[ C,S
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VG[ DhCAL ;F~\ JF\RG JU[Z[ SZJFYL
NLGvN]lGIFGF V;\bI ,FEM D/[ K[P VG[ ZMÒDF\
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DwID RF,[ RF,JFGM C]SD K[f
JU[Z[vJU[Z[ NZ[S :Y/[ ;]jIJ:YF H~ZL U6JL
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Ô[JF D/[ K[P GF8S4 l;G[DF4 0Fg; 5F8L"VM4
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VG[ .DFGGL lGXFGLVMDF\YL K[4 V[8,[ S[ ;FRF
D]l:,D DMV ŸlDG TZLS[GL VF 56 V[S lGXFGL K[P
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ChZT V,LsVPfo —GSFDL
JFTM ;F\E/JFYL lN, 5Z SF8 R-[ K[P˜
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K[ VG[ ;F\E/GFZG[ 56 36M +F; YFI K[P VF
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s!f %,[.G4 8=[.G S[ A; ,[.8 CMI
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s$f VF0]\vVJ/]\ Ô[. wI[I JUZ AF3FGL
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p5ZF\T K[<,F N;vJL; JQF"DF\ U]HZL UI[,F
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DCtJFSF\1FFVM4 ,F,RM (Material Ambitions
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H[ ,MSM .DFG GYL ,FjIF T[DGL
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ÒJJFDF\ ;FY4 ;CSFZ4 A/4 5|[Z6F VG[ pt;FC
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Ô[G A]|S;o —VFHSF,GF\ DFvAF5
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—Z0J]\˜ V[8,[ VF\BDF\YL VF\;]VMGL WFZF
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5MTFGF N]oB p5Z Z0J]\ VFJ[ tIFZ[ H[D
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GSFD]\4 JWFZ[ 50T]\4 T[DH BM8]\ AM,JFYL
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H[D S[ N]VF4 lSZFVT[ S]ZVFG[ XZLO JU[Z[4 TM tIF\
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ÔTLI U]GFCM VG[ T[GFYL VFJTL VG[S A,FVM4
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VG[ ALH[ lNJ;[ TDFZF C[T]VM
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!&P 5|ItG ÔZL ZFBJM
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S[ V[ H :Y/[ VG[ V[ H 1F6[ SNFR TDFZF
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Ô6L XSFI T[JL HUTDF\ 5|JT"TL N'Q8
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JBT RFJJM H sJWLG[ !$_ JBT RFJL XSFIf
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T[VM AC] DM\3F\ 50TF\ CMJFG[ SFZ6[ O/GM p5IMU
GYL SZTF\ T[JM T[GM E|D CTMP
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VG[ V[SFU|TF H[JF DCFG pDNF U]6M VF56F\
ALÔ SFIM"DF\ 56 ,FJL XSLV[P
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(Paste)GL ,FBM ~l5IFGL ÔC[ZBAZM KF5FDF\
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VFJ[ K[P s5MTFGM W\WM JWFZL 5{;F 5[NF SZJF
DF8[f 56 NF\T DF8[ VF\U/L VG[ NF\T6
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;FDFgI DF6;MG[ VF 8[J 36L GFGL
VG[ DCtJ JUZGL N[BFTL CX[4 5Z\T] CSLSTDF\
T[ 36L H p5IMUL VG[ ;JFAJF/L 8[J K[P
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5IUdAZ ;FC[As;Pf TM GB SF5JFGF VFU|CL
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CTF H4 T[D UF\WLÒ 56 GB SF5JFGF VFU|CL
CTFP p5ZF\T GB SF5TL JBT[ DUHG[ V[S R8SM
(Mild Shock) ,FU[ K[ T[ DUHGL VD]S ;}T[,L
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ACM/L ZMÒ DF8[ N[Xv5ZN[XGL ;OZM B[0JL
ptTD U6FI K[4 56 CNL;MDF\ SC[JFI]\ K[ S[4 NZ
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VG[ DM8L ;FZL J:T]VM V5GFJJFYL ,FIS
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VG[ µ\RF NZHH[ 5CM\RL XSFI K[P NZ[S DM8F
DF6;DF\ VF 8[J BF; Ô[JF D/[ K[P
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ZC[JFGL V[SALÔG[ ;,FC s—VD| AL, DV Ÿ~O˜
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TYF —GlC\ VlG, D]gSZ˜f NF-L4 5ZNM
JU[Z[ AFATM V5GFJTF HJ]\P
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GDFhM VJFZvGJFZ AÔJL ,FJJFGL 8[JP
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JFlHAFTM p5ZF\T —GDFh[ XA˜ TYF GFO[,F
GDFh TYF lhIFZT[ C];{GsVPf TYF VgI XCLNM
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JFlZN YI[, ;,FDMDF\ ;,FD VF5GFZ
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jIlSTV[ V[JF DT,AGF XaNM prRFZJFGF CMI
K[ S[4 C[ ;tI VG[ ;FZ56G[ BFTZ
5MTFGF\ TYF 5MTFGF JCF,F\VMGF 5|F6
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T[ ;DÒ XSFI T[J]\ K[P
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T[YL H Ô[ VF56[ XCLNMG[ ;,FD VF5TL
JBT[ p5Z D]HAGF XaNM V\ToSZ65}J"S prRFZTF
CM.V[ sOIF ,ITGL S]gTM DVS]D
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CMI TM JF\RM ALSG]\ 5|SZ6 —D[VŸZFH]:;VFNC˜DF\4
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H[DF\ —ALS˜ XFYL pt5gG YFI K[4 lC\DT S[/JJF X]\
SZJ]\m JU[Z[ CSLSTM VF5JFDF\ VFJL K[P
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5|ItG 56 ;FYMv;FY SZJFYL UD[ T[8,]\ D]xS[,
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SFD VF;FG Y. XS[ K[P VG[ SFD 5]~\ Y. UIF
5KL GDFh VG[ ;HNF TYF VD, J0[ X]S=
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SZJL T[DH V<,FC[ GÞL SZ[,F T[VMGF CS VNF
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SZJF T[DH ;FZ56EIM" JTF"J SZJFYL B]NFGL
B]XG]NL 5|F%T YFI K[P VF 5|SFZGL G[SL
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ChZT Z;},[ SZLDs;PfV[ OZDFjI]\
S[4 lHA|.,[ DG[ NZZMH 5F0MXLVMGL
ZLVFIT s;NJT"G E,F.vwIFG ZFBJ]\f
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H]dVFGF lNJ;G[ —.N˜ U6L
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T[ lNJ;[ GFCLvWM.G[ sU];, SZLG[f 5MTFGL
5F;[GF ;F{YL ;FZF\ S50F\ 5C[ZL4 RF,] lNJ; SZTF\
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ZFBTF CMI K[ T[ AZFAZ GYLP
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#*P ;]gGT ZMhF
JFlHA ZMhF p5ZF\T ;]gGT ZMhF sp5JF;f
ZFBJFGL 8[JP
~CFGL T[DH XFZLlZS XlSTVM JWFZJF
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SZJFG]\ SFD SZTL CMI K[P
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ChZT V,LsVPfo E}bIF ZC[J]\
V[ ;FZL NJF K[P
p5ZGL CSLSTG[ VF CNL; S[8,]\ AW]\ ;DY"G
VF5[ K[¦ S[8,LV[ XMWBM/M4 S[8,F\I[ ;FIg8LOLS
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DC[GT VG[ ;DI VF%IF 5KL4
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VG[ ZMUMG[ AF/JF sD8F0JFfG]\ SFD SZ[ K[P
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TYF ;RM8 ZLT[ ;[\S0M JQFM" 5}J["
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SZM0MvVAÔ[ ~l5IFGF Ô6[ S[ ;FZL NJFGF\
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SFZBFGF\ µEF SZL NLWF¦ VG[ V[ 56 .g;FGGF
5[8DF\ H¦
VF56F\ 5IUdAZ ;FC[As;Pf H[JL
DCFG C:TLV[ S[J]\ IMuI SCŸI]\ K[ S[4
C]\ .<DG]\ XC[Z K]\ VG[ V,LsVPf T[GM
NZJFÔ[ K[P
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SZX[4 tIFZ[ VF HUTDF\YL V7FGGM ;3/M
V\WSFZ N}Z Y. UIM CX[P
#(P ;F~\ JF\RG
;F~\ JF\RG JF\RJFGL 8[JP SM. 56 ÔTG]\
GSFD]\ JF\RG4 JFTF"4 SlJTF4 X[ZvXFIZL4 ÔTLI
5]:TSM JU[Z[ NZ[S 5|SFZG]\ lAGp5IMUL VYJF
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GJ,SYF4 l08[S8LJ SCFGLVM4 D[U[hLGM4
DMHvDÔ DF8[G]\ JF\RG A\W SZJ]\ TYF
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s5]GZvJF\RGf p5ZF\T VFZMuI lJQF[GF TYF ALÔ
p5IMUL U|\YM sÒJGv;FlCtIf JF\RJFGL 8[J NLG
VG[ N]lGIFGF ,FE V5FJGFZL K[P HIFZ[ G9FZ]\4
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VG[ NLGvN]lGIF AUF0GFZ K[P ;FZF\ 5]:TSM
B[JGF 5}J"S XMWLV[ GlC\4 TM D/TF GYLP
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O=Fg;JF; DMZLVFSo —TD[ X]\ JF\RM KM
V[ DG[ SCM4 VG[ TD[ SM6 KM V[ C]\ TDG[ SCL
N.X V[ TM ;FR]\ K[ H4 56 TD[ 5]GZvJF\RG
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sV[SYL JWFZ[ JFZ JF\RGf X[G]\ SZM KM4
T[ Ô[ SC[XM4 TM C]\ TDG[ JWFZ[ ;FZL ZLT[ l5KFGL
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ChZT V,LsVPfo HAZH:T
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pNF;G[ B]X SZ[P
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T\N]Z:TLGL lS\DT ;DÔTF\ VF56G[ D/[,L
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T\N]Z:TLGM ;FZF\ SFDMDF\ p5IMU SZJFG]\
VG[ X]S=[ B]NF AÔJL ,FJJFGL CSLST 56 ;RM8
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