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    ZUZULML AE^ML SEAM@ZHBEAHM [ZH@IDINH [I[UDESBES[ZX

    [elmlnnuln Omwmc

    Ae`ml Fm`udtms [sh`idinh Ulhvershtms Berju Cumlm

    Seam`tur Mgdh

    [rif. Ar. B. Elijg Bmr`ub

    Ar. M. M. Mlwmr [rmcu Bmln`ulenmrm, B.Zh.

    [ebhbphl Seam`sh

    Erlm Budtmgmam, B.Zh.

    ^m`hd [ebhbphl Seam`sh

    Oulebml, Z.[sh., J.^.[.

    Ze`ertmrhs

    Bugmbbma Dutgfh, Qhm Zepthmlh

    Celamgmrm

    Mloms [urlm Xuagm

    Ztmf Seam`sh

    Behdhsgm Aomth Mrub, Ahm Myu Busth`m, @mrhlm JylthmAewh, Mloms [urlm Xuagm, Bmae Awh Jmgymlhlnrub,

    Zhth Giahomg, Zhtmwmty Qohptirhlh, B.C.M., B.[sh.,

    H`m Zusmlth, B.[sh.

    Ahvhsh Shset

    Bugmbbma Hfml Fmuzh, Behdhsgm Aomth Mrub, @mrhlm

    Jylthm Aewh

    Ahvhsh Aesmhl aml Qmtm Detm`

    Gmrhs Zunmlagh Z.As

    Ahvhsh Fitinrmfh

    Ahml Mbmdhm Qmrbhzh

    Ahvhsh H`dml, [ribish, aml [eloumdml

    Bugmbbma Dutgfh, Mnus Budymlm, Ohddy Bmrny Guh

    Diaerm, Qrh Gmrtmth, Xinm [rhi

    Ahvhsh Jetm`, Ahstrhcush, aml Zhr`udmsh

    Ahvhsh Gubms Ghbpulml Bmgmshswm Fm`udtms

    [sh`idinh Ulhvershtms Berju Cumlm

    Ze`hdmsBer[sy?

    Ber[sy, cer-HZZL 3;75-5176,

    berupm`ml m`rilhb amrh Berju Cumlms

    [syjgidiny, secumg bmomdmg psh`idinh

    pipuder ymln ahtercht`ml ideg Fm`udtms

    [sh`idinh Ulhvershtms Berju Cumlm,Om`mrtm, ymln certuouml belymoh`ml

    pebcerhtmml cesertm peln`mohml amdmb

    `ebmsml pipuder tergmamp ahlmbh`m

    psh`idinhs `eghaupml bmlushm Hlaileshm.

    E`spdhshtmsh `mtm [syjgidinyamdmb

    lmbm bmomdmg hlh belomah jirm` `gms

    ymln cedub cmlym` ahtmwmr`ml ideg

    `ecmlym`ml bmomdmg ymln dmhl, ym`lh

    pebm`lmml psh`idinhs tergmamp senmdm

    perhsthwm `eghaupml `htm. [ebcmjmymln hlnhl beln`iltrhcush`ml tudhsml

    irhshlmdlym, certmlym, beln`rhth`, aml

    cer`ilsudtmsh, ahpershdm`ml belnguculnh

    Seam`sh Ber[sybedmduh libir tedepil/

    fmx/mdmbmt surmt ede`trilh` secmnmhbmlm

    terjmltub ah mtms.

    Mdmbmt Seam`sh?

    Fm`udtms [sh`idinh, Ulhvershtms Berju Cumlm

    @mbpus Belmrm Cgm`th

    Od. Beruym Zedmtml, @ebcmlnml, Om`mrtm Cmrmt

    A@H Om`mrtm

    Ebmhd? ream`shKberpsy.jib

    ^ec-=? gttp?//www.berpsy.jib

    ^ec-3? gttp?//fpsh.berjucumlm.mj.ha

    Qedp? (;3=) 571;7=6, (;3=) 578;:155

    Fmx? (;3=) 576=8;6

    Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=; =

    SEAM@ZH

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    [elamgudumlBelnmpm bmlushm bebhdh`h `ecu-

    tugml ymln cesmr ultu` bermsm cmh`

    (feed niia) teltmln ahrh bere`m9

    Belnmpm bmlushm bebhdh`h aebh`hml

    cmlym` persimdml (triucde) ultu`

    bebhdh`h redmsh ymln cmh` aelnml irmln

    ymln cerceam aelnml ahrh bere`m9

    @eaum pertmlymml hlh berupm`ml

    pertmlymml mwmd ymln ahmou`ml

    peljetus Qeirh Bmlmoebel Qerir

    (QBQ), ym`lh Oeff Nreelcern, Qib

    [yszjzyls`h, aml Zgedail Zidibil

    (=876). QBQ smlnmt ahpelnmrugh

    ideg momrml aml peledhthml amrh

    mltripidin `udturmd Erlest Cej`er,

    `gususlym nmnmsml Cej`er amdmb

    cu`ulym Qge Aelhmd if Aemtg. QBQ

    ah`ebcmln`ml pmam =87;-ml ideg

    secumg thb prifesir ulhvershtms,

    Zidibil, Nreelcern, [yszjzyls`h

    ymln sebumlym berupm`ml mgdh-mgdh

    psh`idinh sishmd e`sperhbeltmd. Dechg

    amrh 35 tmgul, pmrm peledhth hlh aml pmrm

    seomwmtlym tedmg belyedelnnmrm`ml

    rmtusml e`sperhbel ah sedurug aulhm

    ultu` belulou``ml cmgwm nmnmsml

    Cej`er ampmt ahuoh, sertm cmgwm

    QBQ ymln budm-budmlym pmam bmsm

    hlsepsh teirh hlh belnmdmbh pelidm`ml,

    sesulnnuglym berupm`ml teirh ymln

    smlnmt cergmrnm sertm dmym` ahpedmomrh

    (Fdhngt frib aemtg, 3;;5).

    QBQ bebpertmlym`ml? Cmnmhbmlm

    irmln cergmampml, belnedidm fm`tm

    ymln belyermb`ml cmgwm irmln

    m`ml bmth9 QBQ ymln ah`dmhb ideg

    pelau`ulnlym secmnmh teirh ymln

    mpdh`mced dhltms cuamym aml dhltms

    wm`tu bebhdh`h aum `ibpilel

    utmbm nulm belomwmc pertmlymml

    cmnmhbmlm bmlushm cerupmym

    belnghlamr`ml ahrhlym mnmr ahrhlym

    tham` ah`ilsubsh ideg pebh`hrml

    teltmln `ebmthml, sertm cmnmhbmlm

    bmlushm ceroumln beluou hbirtmdhtms.

    @eaum pi`i` ph`hrml tersecut mamdmg,

    pertmbm, cmgwm bmlushm gmrus

    bebhdh`h `eym`hlml (fmhtg) amdmb

    pmlamlnml aulhm `udturmd0 aml `eaum,

    bmlushm gmrus bedhlaulnh ahrhlym

    aelnml permsmml m`ml lhdmh prhcmah/

    gmrnm ahrh (vmdue-pritejtea/sedf-

    esteeb) amdmb pmlamlnml aulhm

    `udturmd tersecut.

    Qudhsml hlh certuouml ultu` beledmmg

    sejmrm `rhths aml `ibpregelshf

    sedurug pripishsh teirh bmlmoebel

    terir. [ertmbm, tudhsml hlh m`ml beb-

    cecer`ml persimdml dinhs amdmb teirh

    bmlmoebel terir. Qudhsml hlh cermr-

    nubel cmgwm secmnhml peloedmsml

    QBQ bebhdh`h hl`igerelsh dinhs amdmb

    perlymtmml-perlymtmmllym. Qudhsml hlh

    belulou``ml pudm cmgwm secmnhml

    perlymtmml teires QBQ sesulnnug-

    lym cu`ml berupm`ml gmd cmru aml

    ulh`, bedmhl`ml perlmg ahph`hr`ml

    secedublym ideg teirhs ymln dmhl. Ze-

    dmloutlym, cmnhml hlh ounm bebmpmr-

    `ml cecermpm pricdeb betiaidinhs

    aml redmsh mltmr vmrhmced ter`mht rhset

    e`sperhbeltmd QBQ. Ahtulou``ml pudm

    cmgwm terampmt jiltig-jiltig eb-

    phrhs ymln ahgmshd`ml rhset shstebms

    bmupul pelnmdmbml segmrh-gmrh ymln

    sejmrm seaergmlm `iltrms aelnml

    (aml ampmt ahnulm`ml secmnmh jiltig

    ultu` bebmtmg`ml) `dmhb QBQ. [er-

    simdml dinhs aml ebphrhs hlh ahdeln`mph

    pudm aelnml `rh` amrh phgm` psh`idinh

    evidushiler. Lmbul aebh`hml, cmnhml

    hlh ounm belulou``ml re`inlhsh cmgwm

    QBQ bebcerh`ml perspe`f e`shstel-

    shmd `epmam QBQ0 QBQ tedmg bebcerh-

    `ml secumg lumlsm ilseptumd ymln

    secedublym buln`hl ahmcmh`ml ideg

    psh`idinh sishmd.

    [mam cmnhml `eaum, tudhsml hlh ounm

    belulou``ml cmgwm QBQ berupm-

    `ml secumg teirh ymln bebhdh`h mb-

    chsh belomah secumg pmrmahnbm cesmr

    (nrmla pmrmahnb) amdmb psh`idinh,

    ymln belnmlauln bumtml reau`shi-

    lhs`. Qudhsml hlh bedm`u`ml peledu-

    surml tergmamp seoubdmg dhtermtur `e-

    dsmfmtml aml psh`idinh (mltmrm dmhl,

    Jmbus, @her`enmmra, Freua, Lhetzsjge,

    @ugl, Omli-Cudbml, add), aml smbpmh

    pmam secumg ghpiteshs cmgwm teram-

    pmt vmrhmced dmhl ymln dechg belamsmr

    aml `ecermammllym cecms/hlaepel-

    ael amrh `ejebmsml m`ml `ebmml.

    Mpmchdm ghpiteshs hlh ahterhbm, bm`m

    perlymtmml hlh berupm`ml gmd ymln

    fmtmd tergmamp rmln`mhml reau`sh QBQ.

    @elam aebh`hml, pmam cmnhml `enm,

    tudhsml hlh ounm bebcerh`ml mpreshmsh

    tergmamp per`ebcmlnml peromdmlml

    rhset butm`ghr teirh bmlmoebel terir,`gususlym amdmb beledmmg aibmhl-

    aibmhl trmahshilmd pelyedhah`ml psh-

    `idinh sishmd (stereip, guculnml ri-

    bmls, asc). Cmnhml hlh beluou``ml

    pudm cmnmhbmlm ebuln`hlml-`ebul-

    n`hlml QBQ bebperideg cmshs amrh

    stuah-stuah leurismhls sishmd. Lmbul

    aebh`hml, tudhsml hlh ounm bedm`u`ml

    `mohml `rhs amdmb gmd redmsh mltmrm

    bmlmoebel terir aml `remvhtms. Gmd

    hlh cermln`mt amrh `elymtmml cmgwm

    bmlushm am` sedmdu sejmrm aefelshf

    belyebculyh`ml ahrh ah cmdh` sedhbut

    `embmlml `udturmd ymln rhnha. Qudhsml

    hlh belulou``ml `ilahsh-`ilahsh re-

    spils `remf (tergmamp `ejebmsml

    e`shstelshmd) ymln cmnmhbmlm`mg ymln

    am` belhbcud`ml permsmml cersm-

    dmg tergmamp aulhm `udturmd sesei-

    rmln (ymln sebeslym belurut QBQ

    gmrus ahtenug`ml). Qudhsml hlh ounm

    belulou``ml `ebuln`hlml irmln

    ampmt bebedu` ahvershtms perspe`f

    ymln ahtmwmr`ml aulhm, am` gmlym

    smtu pmlamlnml aulhm `udturmd. [mam

    hllym, pitelsh mrmg-mrmg rhset QBQ

    Qhlomuml @rhths @ibpregelshftergmamp

    Qeirh Bmlmoebel QerirOulebml

    ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH

    Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=; Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=;=:6 =:>

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    ahuln`mp`ml. Zedmloutlym, amdmb cm-

    nhml hlh, ahpmpmr`ml peloedmsml QBQ

    amdmb gmd preferelsh mrs`, pidh`,

    aml pelnmbchdml `eputusml gu`ub.

    [mam cmnhml m`ghr, tudhsml hlh bebce-

    rh`ml nm pihl pelln ymln berupm-

    `ml shsh pishf QBQ sertm tmltmlnml

    QBQ `e aepml amdmb gmd dmls`mp per-

    tmgmlml psh`idinhs amdmb bedmwml`ilsel birtmdhtms.

    Amdmb bebcmjm tudhsml hlh, te`s-

    te`s ymln ahtecmd`ml berupm`ml

    gmd-gmd ymln ahte`ml`ml `mrelm

    ahmlnnmp secmnmh pihl pelthln amdmb

    bebmgmbh `esedurugml tudhsml.

    Qham` dupm, tudhsml hlh selmlthmsm

    belomomr`ml `rhth` tergmamp QBQ

    aelnml `dmhb QBQ, seghlnnm ampmt

    ahdhgmt percmlahlnmllym sejmrm

    dmlnsuln.

    [ersimdml Dinhs aml EbphrhsBelurut [yszjzyls`h, Nreelcern, aml

    Zidibil (=888), teirh bmlmoebel

    terir (QBQ) belsymrmt`ml gmlym

    smtu msubsh m prhirh ymln ahterhbm

    ubub aml redmthf tham` `iltrivershmd?

    cmgwm sejmrm `gusus, irnmlhsbe

    ghaup ahirheltmsh`ml `epmam

    preservmsh ahrh (pebedhgmrmml ghaup).

    Aelnml belnmht`ml QBQ sejmrmdmlnsuln aelnml preservmsh ahrh,

    bere`m lmbpm` belnm`mr`ml QBQ

    pmam dmlamsml ymln tm` terniymg`ml.

    Lmbul fm`tmlym, QBQ tham`

    belnh`uth sejmrm dmlnsuln msubsh

    lil`iltrivershmd tersecut sejmrm

    termln-termlnml. Belnmpm9 Zecmc

    `mdmu celmr, bm`m hbpdh`msh dmlnsuln

    amrh msubsh cmgwm irnmlhsbe

    ahirheltmsh`ml `epmam preservmsh

    ahrh mamdmg cmgwm irnmlhsbe m`ml

    cerperhdm`u sejmrm lmturmd aelnml

    jmrm-jmrm ymln belhln`mt`ml

    `ebuln`hlml bere`m certmgml ghaup

    (survhvmd). Zmtu esudhtml dinhs aelnml

    QBQ mamdmg cmgwm pmrm mgdh teirhlymcedub bebcumt secumg `msus ymln

    `umt (ricust) cmgwm prises-prises

    bmlmoebel terir belhln`mt`ml

    pedumln irnmlhsbe ultu` certmgml

    ghaup.

    QBQ tham` belnh`uth sejmrm `ilshstel

    pripishsh cmgwm bithf preservmsh

    ahrh m`ml belyecmc`ml irnmlhsbe

    bebhlhbmdhsmsh`ml pelaerhtmml (ymln

    ahpersepsh`ml m`ml mljmbml) `epmam

    survhvmd. Fm`tmlym, be`mlhsbe

    bmlmoebel terir ymln belnurmlnh

    `ilsel irnmlhsbe teltmln `ebmthml

    oustru belurul`ml vhmchdhtms survhvmd

    omln`m pmlomln. Belnmpm9 Belurut

    `ecmlym`ml pebh`hr/mgdh (bhsmdlym,

    Frhoam, =876), pelhln`mtml telaelsh

    belnmdmbh `ejebmsml (ounm

    ebish-ebish ymln dmhl ah smbphln

    `ejebmsml) oustru ahperdu`ml

    cu`ml perdu ultu` ahream`ml/

    ah`urmlnh (secmnmhbmlm dmhb QBQ)

    `mrelm `ejebmsml tersecutdmg

    ymln bebpribish`ml survhvmd.

    Ultu` seah`ht belyeaergmlm`ml,

    `ejebmsml bebpribish`ml wedd-

    cehln irnmlhsbe `mrelm `ejebmsml

    beljenmg perhdm`u irnmlhsbe ymln

    cerhsh`i mnmr tham` teromah0 `ejebmsml

    ounm jelaeruln belngelth`ml

    perhdm`u ymln cer`edmloutml nulm

    bebuln`hl`ml peberh`smml udmln

    (re-msesbel) pitelsh cmgmym perhdm`u

    amdmb secumg shtumsh (Frhoam, =876).

    Aelnml aebh`hml, irnmlhsbe ymln

    bebhdh`h secumg shsteb ymln sejmrm

    i t i b m t h s belnurmlnh/bereau`sh

    `ilsel birtmdhtms (secmnmhbmlm

    ahlymtm`ml QBQ) secedub `ilsel

    birtmdhtms tersecut beljmpmh

    pelnetmguml smamr oustru m`ml

    cercmgmym ultu` survhvmd,ideg mrelm

    cerperhdm`u aebh`hml m`ml berusm`/

    berunh`ml wedd-cehlnirnmlhsbe.

    @dmhb [yszjzyls`h, a``. cmgwm mam

    sumtu bithf psh`idinhs fulambeltmd

    ymln cer-evidush `mrelm bithf

    tersecut bebfmshdhtmsh survhvmd

    aml repriau`sh berupm`ml secumg

    prebhs QBQ ymln pelthln (dhgmt

    Cmr`iw, Jisbhaes, & Qiccy,

    =883). Lmbul aebh`hml, mpmchdm

    secedublym `htm sepm`mt cmgwm

    `mpmshtms `ejebmsml belhln`mt`ml

    `eseomgtermml aml `ecerdmlnsulnml

    ghaup, gmd ymln sudht ahbelnerth

    mamdmg prises cmnmhbmlm bmlushm

    belnebcmln`ml secumg be`mlhsbe

    ymln belymlnnm (cufferhln) bere`m

    bedmwml permsmml jebms tersecut.Zejmrm speshfh`, `htm ampmt certmlym?

    prises evidushiler mpm`mg ymln m`ml

    belyecmc`ml irmln belomah `urmln

    tm`ut m`ml `ebmthml `ethbcmln ymln

    segmruslym9 Be`mlhsbe sebmjmb

    htu, ymln ah`dmhb ideg QBQ aelnml

    bmlmoebel terir-lym, lmbpm`lym

    oustru belurul`ml pedumln survhvmd

    irnmlhsbe.

    QBQ belnmlthshpmsh `ecermtml

    tersecut. Belurut [yszjzyls`h,

    a``., pelnetmguml belnelmh tm`

    terghlamr`mllym `ebmthml tedmg

    belhbcud`ml pitelsh terir ymln

    bedubpug`ml, ymln bebcumt perhdm`utermrmg-tuouml ymln cer`edmloutml

    belomah bustmghd. Lmbul, pmam

    cmshs mpm`mg `htm belnmsubsh`ml

    cmgwm terir e`shstelshmd m`ml

    cershfmt bedubpug`ml (pmrmdyzhln)9

    Cetmpmpul, cmg`ml irmln ymln

    ahgmamp`ml aelnml `ebmthml

    serhln`mdh bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb

    thlam`ml-thlam`ml fhlmd ymln

    cerbm`lm, mpmpul terir ymln

    ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH

    Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=; Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=;=:7 =:8

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    bere`m mdmbh. Irmln cmg`ml ampmt

    cermrnubel cmgwm, `ethbcmln

    belngmshd`ml `edubpugml/pmrmdhshs

    perhdm`u, `esmamrml belnelmh

    `ebuln`hlml `ebmthml oustru

    belhbcud`ml perhdm`u termrmg-

    tuouml ymln bereau`sh pricmchdhtms

    `ebmthml. Shln`mslym, QBQ nmnmd

    belulou``ml cmnmhbmlm`mg prises-

    prises bmlmoebel terir buljud amrh

    preservmsh ahrh mtmu belhln`mt`ml

    survhvmd irnmlhsbe. Zedmloutlym,

    mpmchdm prises-prises bmlmoebelterir tham` belhln`mt`ml survhvmd,

    mpm`mg ymln ah`erom`ml ideg (aml

    amrh bmlm msmdlym) prises-prises

    bmlmoebel terir tersecut9

    @esudhtml hlh buljud amdmb QBQ mrelm

    [yszjzyls`h, a``. tham` sedmdu oedms

    bebceam`ml mltmrm pelnghlamrml

    tergmamp`ebmthmlaml pelnghlamrml

    tergmamp `etm`utml m`ml `ebmthml.

    Belymtm`ml cmgwm irnmlhsbe

    ahbithvmsh`ml ultu` belnghlamrh

    `ebmthml tham` belnhbpdh`msh`ml

    cmgwm bere`m ahbithvmsh`ml

    ultu` belnghlamrh terir ymln

    cermsishmsh aelnml `ebmthml.Lmbul aebh`hml, [yszjzyls`h,

    a``. lmbpm`lym belnmsubsh`ml

    cmgwm `ecermamml bithf survhvmd

    ju`up ultu` belnhlah`msh`ml

    cmgwm irnmlhsbe jebms m`ml

    `ebmthml aml ounm ahbithvmsh`ml

    ultu` belnghlamrh `ejebmsml htu.

    Buln`hl`mg cmgwm oustru irmln

    ahbithvmsh`ml sejmrm m`tumd ultu`

    belhln`mt`ml `embmlml (smfety)

    aml `ecerdmlnsulnml ghaup (survhvmd)

    `ethbcmln gmlym beljicm ultu`

    bebcumt ahrh bere`m bermsm mbml

    (feed smfe), secmnmhbmlm ahlymtm`ml

    ideg QBQ9

    [yszjzyls`h, a``. beljicm certmgml

    aelnml belnuln`mp fm`tm cmgwm

    prhbmt lilgubml belulou``ml

    bithf ultu` certmgml ghaup amdmb

    `ethmamml permsmml seomth m`ml ahrh

    (true selse if sedf). Belurutlym, gmd

    hlh belulou``ml cmgwm `mpmshtms`inlhthf jmlnnhg tham`dmg eselshmd cmnh

    pelneomrml hlsthlnthf m`ml `eghaupml.

    Gmd hlh ampmt ahsetuouh, lmbul tham`

    sertm bertm ampmt ahym`hlh cmgwm

    gmd hlh bebcerh`ml au`ulnml cmnh

    perspe`thf bmlmoebel terir. Ideg

    `mrelm perceamml amdmb `ebmbpuml

    `inlhthf, prhbmt lilgubml tham`

    belm`uth ebmthml smbm seperth ymln

    ahrmsm`ml bmlushm. Cerph`hr teltmln

    `ebmthml belsymrmt`ml mamlym

    `mpmchdhtms dhlnuhsth`, `ebmbpuml

    ultu` belniltebpdmsh`ml bmsm

    aepml, aml permsmml shbcidh`

    m`ml ahrh. Fm`tm cmgwm irnmlhsbe-

    irnmlhsbe ymln dmhl lmbpm`lymbebhdh`h bithf survhvmd tham`dmg

    belulou``ml mpm-mpm teltmln

    mpm`mg bere`m belnmdmbh terir

    e`shstelshmd `eth`m `ecerdmlnsulnml

    ghaup bere`m termljmb. Aelnml

    aebh`hml, tudhsml hlh cerpelampmt

    cmgwm cerhsh`i ultu` belamsmr`ml

    mlmdhshs terir e`shstelshmd ymln teromah

    pmam bmlushm pmam e`strmpidmsh

    ymln cermsmd amrh lilgubml.

    Zmdmg smtu gmd ymln ampmt

    ahpertmlym`ml mamdmg lhdmh mampthf

    amrh pelnelamdhml `ejebmsml m`ml

    `ebmthml (bhsmdlym, Demry, 3;;1). Gmd

    hlh berupm`ml pihl pelthln `mrelm,

    secmnmhbmlm ahsecut`ml ah mtms, oedms

    cmgwm seoubdmg `ejebmsml tergmamp

    sesumtu ymln cershfmt belnmljmb

    `eghaupml berupm`ml sesumtu

    ymln ahperdu`ml. Gmd hlh ahperdu`ml

    ultu` bebfmshdhtmsh respils-respils

    prite`thf aml mampthf. [mtut ahjmtmtcmgwm QBQ gmlym cmru-cmru hlh

    smom belnmrmg`ml pergmthmllym

    pmam `etm`utml ymln cershfmt smamr

    (jilsjhius) m`ml `ebmthml. Zejmrm

    trmahshilmd, QBQ bmdmg dechg `ilsel

    pmam rmbhfh`msh (rmln`mhml m`hcmt

    `ibpde`s) psh`idinhs m`hcmt amrh

    nebm pelnetmguml m`ml `ebmthml

    ymln tm` terghlamr`ml (lmbul ymln

    tham` senerm teromah) ymln cershfmt

    tm` smamr (uljilsjhius). Mddel (=8>5)

    belymtm`ml, Cu`mllym smym tm`ut

    ultu` bmth. Zmym gmlym tham` hlnhl

    cermam ah smlm `eth`m htu (`ebmthml)

    teromah. Omah, QBQ secelmrlym

    cerupmym ultu` beloedms`ml

    cmnmhbmlm irmln sejmrm shbcidhs

    beljicm ultu` belnghlamrh shtumsh

    cermam ah smlm (cehln tgere) `eth`m

    `ebmthml teromah.

    [ertmlymml dmhllym mamdmg? Mpm`mg

    efe` ymln termbmth amdmb rhset QBQ

    (sejmrm ubub, fi`uslym mamdmgpertmgmlml pmlamlnml aulhm/

    wirdavhew aefelse) ahairiln ideg

    gmd-gmd ymln berepreseltmsh`ml

    `ebmthml (seperth? `etham`pmsthml,

    `ethmamcermrthml (bemlhlndessless),

    mtmu`mg ahairiln ideg `ebmthml

    htu selahrh9 @ebmthml suamg cmrmln

    terteltu berupm`ml sthbudus budth-

    fmset. @mrelmlym, pelthln ultu`

    bebmgmbh `ilsel-`ilsel psh`idinhs

    ymln cerceam-ceam ymln ampmt

    ahprivi`msh ideg `ebmthml. Lmbul,

    mpm`mg `ebmthml berupm`ml

    secumg pricdeb `mrelm (bhsmdlym)

    bebcmln`ht`ml `ilsel psh`idinhs

    teltmln `etham`pmsthml, `ilsel

    psh`idinhs tergmamp mljmbml

    terputuslym guculnml sishmd aelnml

    irmln dmhl9 Gmd hlh berupm`ml

    pertmlymml ymln sudht, lmbul

    pertmlymml hlh ampmt cmrmln`mdh ampmt

    ahomwmc aelnml cecermpm suaut

    pmlamln ymln cerceam.

    [ertmbm, `ebmthml ampmt ahdhgmt

    secmnmh sebum gmd tersecut

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    (`etham`pmsthml, `etham`cermrthml,

    asc) aml bmshg cmlym` dmnh

    (`ebmthml mamdmg mljmbml ymln

    tm` terghlamr`ml), ymln berupm`ml

    cmnhml amrh mpm ymln ahpmlamln

    sejmrm psh`idinhs ulh` aml `mrelmlym

    sudht ahreau`sh `epmam smdmg smtu

    gmd (`etham`pmsthml, mtmu`mg

    `etham`cermrthml, mtmu`mg ymln dmhl).

    @eaum, pelthln ultu` beljmtmt

    cmgwm `ilahsh-`ilahsh `iltrid amdmb

    e`sperhbel QBQ ounm ju`up redevml

    ultu` ahperthbcmln`ml. Aelnmlaebh`hml, bes`hpul terampmt seoubdmg

    pelulou``ml efe`-efe` QBQ secmnmh

    gmshd amrh `iltebpdmsh pmrthshpml

    teltmln tiph`-tiph` mvershf dmhllym,

    pelthln ultu` bebperthbcmln`ml

    stuah-stuah ah bmlm pelnhlnmt teltmln

    `ebmthml aml tiph`-tiph` mdterlmthf

    seoelhslym tedmg belyecmc`ml efe`-

    efe` ymln cerceam.

    @ethnm, smdhelsh birtmdhtms tedmg

    ahbmlhpudmsh amdmb cercmnmh jmrm

    (bhsmdlym, pertmlymml tercu`m

    teltmln `ebmthml, `eae`mtml fhsh`/

    pri`shbhtms aelnml peth bmth, aml

    prhbhln `ebmthml sejmrm sucdhbhlmd),seghlnnm bebcu`m pedumln mamlym

    seoubdmg u`urml vmdhahtms `ilvernel.

    @eebpmt, peledhthml tedmg beledmmg

    cmnmhbmlm prises-prises bmlmoebel

    terir cerguculnml aelnml seomug

    bmlm irmln sejmrm tm` smamr

    cerph`hr teltmln `ebmthml (bmsmdmg

    m`seshchdhtms pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmthml). Bes`hpul dechg cmlym`

    cu`th peledhthml ymln ahperdu`ml,

    lmbpm`lym terampmt cu`th-cu`th

    `ilvernel ymln belnmrmg pmam perml

    pelthln `inlhsh ter`mht-`ebmthml

    amdmb bebpriau`sh efe`-efe` ymln

    ahcmln`ht`ml ideg perdm`uml smdhelsh

    birtmdhtms.

    Ah smbphln bebperthbcmln`ml

    `esedurugml `e`umtml `ilseptumd

    aml `edumsml peloedmsml amrh mlmdhshs

    ymln ahcerh`ml, pelthln pudm ultu`

    bedmln`mg `edumr amrh psh`idinh sishmd

    ebphrhs amlbebperthbcmln ml fm`tmmltripidinhs aml ghstirhs. @htm ampmt

    belnmsubsh`ml cmgwm sebum `udtur

    bebhdh`h tebpmt-tebpmt vhtmd ah bmlm

    rhtumd ter`mht `ebmthml cerdmlnsuln

    (Nidasjgbhat, =88;). [ertu`mrml

    mdterlmthf aml `rhth` psh`idinh aelnml

    mltripidinh aml seomrmg amdmb gmd hlh

    mamdmg pelthln ultu` pertubcugml

    shsteb teireths.

    Zecelmrlym, QBQ tedmg ju`up

    cer`ebcmln cer`mt hsu-hsu ymln

    ahmln`mt ideg seoubdmg smromlm.

    Zecmnmh jiltig, `rhth` ymln

    cerudmln-udmln cer`elmml aelnml

    hl`ilshstelsh amrh QBQ cer`mhtmlaelnml perhdm`u pelnmbchdml rhsh`i

    (rhs`-tm`hln cegmvhir). Mpmchdm irmln

    ahbithvmsh`ml ultu` belnghlamrh

    `ebmthml, dmdu cmnmhbmlm QBQ

    beloedms`ml m`sh-m`sh cerhsh`i

    amdmb gmd bmlm hlahvhau cerbmlom-

    bmlom aelnml perhdm`u ymln

    ampmt belhbcud`ml `ebmthml

    bere`m9 @rhth` hlh bebcmwm pmam

    pelnebcmlnml ghpiteshs-ghpiteshs

    aml be`mlhsbe-be`mlhsbe

    peloedmsml cmru (bhsmdlym,

    cecermpm irmln belnnulm`ml

    perhdm`u cerhsh`i secmnmh mdmt ultu`

    bebperthlnnh gmrnm ahrh/sedf-esteeb

    elgmljebelt), ymln sedmloutlym

    ahuoh amdmb rhset-rhset cerh`utlym

    (bhsmdlym, perhdm`u cer`elamrm ymln

    cerhsh`i? Qmucbml Cel-Mrh, Fdirhml,

    & Bh`udhljer, =888). Ah smbphln htu,

    cmlym` amrh perspe`thf-perspe`thf

    ymln cermnmb hlh bebcmwm pergmthml

    pmampelnm`uml m`ml pelthlnlymtebm-tebm e`shstelshmd dmhllym

    (seperth, `etham`pmsthml? BjNrenir,

    a``., 3;;=0 bm`lm? Gehle, a``., 3;;6)

    amdmb gmd cmnmhbmlm irmln belomdmlh

    `eghaupml. Hlh berupm`ml wmrlm-

    wmrlm `ilseptumd ymln secedublym

    ahmcmh`ml, `mdmu cu`ml tham` mam,

    ideg pmdet du`hs psh`idinh sishmd.

    Cu`th ebphrhs? Mpm ymln ahtulou`ml

    aml tham` ahtulou``ml ideg amtm

    QBQ belymtm`ml cmgwm irmln

    belymlnnm ejebmsml e`shstelshmdlym

    aelnml aum `ibpilel ahsthlnthf? (=)

    pmlamlnml aulhm `udturmd (judturmd

    wirdavhew)0 aml (3) permsmml m`ml

    lhdmh prhcmah/gmrnm ahrh. Zecmnmhbmlm

    ahtulou``ml ideg [yszjzyls`h, a``.,

    tedmg terampmt cmlym` au`ulnml amtm

    cmnh cmlym` ghpiteshs ymln ahturul`ml

    amrh QBQ. Lmbul aebh`hml, mpmchdm

    rhset-rhset tersecut ahtedmmg sejmrm

    se`smbm, cu`th-cu`th dechg `umt

    belau`uln `ibpilel pertmbm

    amrhpmam `ibpilel `eaum.

    Cmlym` `ubpudml pelnetmguml

    (ciay if resemrjg) QBQ belau`uln

    nmnmsml cmgwm smdhelsh birtmdhtms

    belyecmc`ml irmln belulou``ml

    aelnml oedms au`ulnml tergmamp

    pmlamlnml `udturmd. Zeoubdmg

    stuah tedmg belulou``ml

    cmgwm beliloid`ml birtmdhtms

    belyecmc`ml irmln belnh`hs aml

    belngu`ub bere`m ymln bedmlnnmr

    stmlamr-stmlamr `udturmd, sertm

    belngmahmgh bere`m ymln belomah

    tedmaml. Hlh berupm`ml tebuml ymlnbebpesilm, `gususlym mpmchdm

    efe` bmlmoebel terir hlh tham`

    ahbeahmsh ideg sumsmlm gmth (biia).

    QBQ buln`hl celmr amdmb `dmhblym

    cmgwm rem`sh-rem`sh hlh berupm`ml

    respils tergmamp `esmamrml teltmln

    `ebmthml sertm cmgwm belnerom`ml

    gmd-gmd ymln belipmln pmlamlnml

    aulhm seseirmln amdmb smtu aml

    dmhl gmd belyecmc`ml belurullym

    `eresmgml m`ml birtmdhtms. Qeltu smom,

    QBQ bebcerh`ml peloedmsml ymln

    gebmt/efhshel (pmrshbilhius) amdmb

    gmd hlh. Lmbul aebh`hml, tudhsml hlh

    belnmlnnmp secmnmh dibpmtml

    gecmt ultu` belyhbpud`ml cmgwmfelibelm dmhl ymln ahahs`ush`ml ideg

    [yszjzyls`h, a``. (ym`lh, `ilshstelsh

    `inlhthf, `eperjmymml m`ml aulhm

    ymln mahd/CO^, preseltmsh ahrh, asc)

    ounm berefde`sh`ml upmym ultu`

    belnedidm terir e`shstelshmd. Oedms

    cmgwm rhset-rhset ymln dechg cmlym`

    dmnh ahcutug`ml ultu` belnuoh efe`-

    efe` amrh smdhelsh birtmdhtms tergmamp

    felibelm ymln dmhl htu.

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    @dmhb `eaum, cmgwm gmrnm ahrh

    bebmhl`ml perml seltrmd amdmb

    belymlnnm irmln bedmwml `etm`utml

    ter`mht ejebmsml, cedub bebperideg

    au`ulnml ymln bebmamh. Belurut

    QBQ, irmln belneomr gmrnm ahrh mrelm

    gmrnm ahrh bebcerh`ml prite`sh/

    perdhlaulnml amrh `ejebmsml. Qerir

    ymln ahmsishmsh`ml aelnml ghaupamdmb aulhm ymln cercmgmym aml tm`

    terpreah`sh ahbhlhbmdhsmsh`ml `eth`m

    irmln belerhbm aml belnghauph

    stmlamr-stmlamr lhdmh `udturmd (ym`lh

    cerperhdm`u aelnml jmrm-jmrm ymln

    bebedhgmrm mtmu belhln`mt`ml

    gmrnm ahrh). Nulm belau`uln mspe`

    QBQ hlh, [yszjzyls`h, a``. belhlomu

    peledhthml ymln belulou``ml cmgwm

    gmrnm ahrh `mrelm `emamml (stmte sedf-

    esteeb) aml gmrnm ahrh `mrelm shfmt

    (trmht sedf-esteeb) cermsishmsh aelnml

    `ejebmsml ymln dechg relamg, tmlpm

    peaudh mpm`mg `ejebmsml cer`mhtml

    aelnml `ebmthml mtmu amrh subcer-

    subcer ymln dmhl. Lmbul aebh`hml,

    QBQ cu`mldmg teirh smtu-smtulym

    ymln sejmrm ulh` bebpreah`sh sumtu

    `iredmsh lenmthf mltmrm gmrnm ahrh aml`ejebmsml. Cercmnmh pelae`mtml

    ymln dmhl ounm beloedms`ml guculnml

    hlh, bhsmdlym teirh efh`msh ahrh

    (Cmlaurm, =8>>), teirh sishibeter

    (Demry & Aiwls, =885), bes`hpul

    tham` beruou` pmam `ebmthml.

    Dechg dmlout, redmsh mltmrm gmrnm ahrh

    aml `etm`utml ter`mht `ebmthml

    tham`dmg seaebh`hml dmlnsuln/

    strmhngtfirwmra secmnmhbmlm

    ymln ahpreah`sh ideg teirh.

    Ziwmras, Bilhz, aml Gmrrhs (=88=)

    belebu`ml cmgwm tham` mam cu`th

    ymln belau`uln cmgwm irmln dechg

    su`m belhln`mt`ml evmdumsh ahrh

    bere`m setedmg belniltebpdmsh`ml

    `ebmthml ahrh bere`m. [elebuml

    lhghd hlh tham`dmg gmrus ahpmlamln

    cer`iltrmah`sh aelnml nmnmsml cmgwm

    gmrnm ahrh belymlnnm irmln bedmwml

    `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd, bes`hpul

    tebuml hlh belulou``ml cmgwmirmlntham` gmrus berespils tergmamp

    smdhelsh birtmdhtms aelnml upmym-

    upmym ultu` belhln`mt`ml gmrnm

    ahrh. Zecmdh`lym, Jgmuagmry, Nmrahler-

    [mr`s, aml Gmss (=881) bebperideg

    cu`th cmgwm belnhlau`sh smdhelsh

    birtmdhtms belyecmc`ml pelhln`mtml

    gmrnm ahrh, lmbul gmlym setedmg

    sumtu wm`tu tulam ymln shln`mt.

    Efe` senerm (hbbeahmte) amrh smdhelsh

    birtmdhtms mamdmg gmrnm ahrh ymln

    dechg relamg (diwer sedf-esteeb).

    Lmbul aebh`hml, pmrthshpml amdmb

    `edibpi` `iltrid, ymln tham` ahpmpmr

    aelnml hlau`sh smdhelsh birtmdhtms,

    belulou``ml perucmgml-perucmgml

    gmrnm ahrh ymln tm` ampmt ahoedms`ml

    (ulexpdmhlea) ymln bebcumt pidm

    amtm sudht ahhlterpretmsh`ml. Dechg

    dmlout, preah`sh QBQ bmshg cedub oedms

    cmgwm smdhelsh birtmdhtms seyinhmlym

    belyecmc`ml `eomtugml mwmd amdmb

    gmrnm ahrh secedub pelhln`mtml gmrnm

    ahrh ymln cershfmt aefelshf cerdmlnsuln.

    Demry, Zmdtzbml, aml Cealmrs`h

    (=885) belebu`ml `esudhtml amdmb

    belaete`sh redmsh mltmrm pebh`hrml

    ter`mht `ebmthml aelnml trmht sedf-

    esteeb. Zecmnmh jiltig, QBQ

    bebpreah`sh cmgwm irmln aelnml

    gmrnm ahrh ymln thlnnh seyinhmlym m`ml

    `urmln ternmlnnu ideg pebh`hrml

    teltmln `ebmthml `mrelm permsmml

    teltmln lhdmh prhcmah bere`m

    belymlnnm bere`m bedmwml terir

    e`shstelshmd. Lmbul aebh`hml, Demry,

    Zmdtzbml, aml Cealmrs`h (=885)

    belebu`ml cmgwm trmht sedf-esteebtham` cer`mhtml aelnml `ejebmsml

    ymln ahdmpir`ml ideg ahrh pmrthshpml

    setedmg pmrthshpml beludhs`ml teltmln

    `ebmthml bere`m selahrh, bes`hpul

    trmht sedf-esteeb cer`iredmsh sejmrm

    lenmthf `umt aelnml `ejebmsml

    setedmg pmrthshpml beludhs teltmln

    `ilahsh bere`m amdmb pelidm`ml

    (cehln reoejtea).

    Amdmb stuah ymln dmhl, Demry, a``.

    (=885) beberh`sm redmsh mltmrm

    trmht sedf-esteeb aml s`ir pmam

    s`mdm `ejebmsml `ebmthml stmlamr.

    [eledhth belebu`ml cmgwm gmrnm

    ahrh cer`iredmsh aelnml fmset-fmsetterteltu amrh `etm`utml ter`mht

    `ebmthml, lmbul ceredmsh dechg `umt

    aelnml `etm`utml m`ml cergmampml

    aelnmlsm`ht (pmhl)aml`etham`pmsthml

    (uljertmhlty) `ethbcmln/amrhpmam

    aelnml `ethmamml (lil-e`shstelsh,

    ymln ahpreah`sh`ml QBQ). [mamgmd

    QBQ sejmrm e`spdhsht belymtm`ml

    cmgwm irmln belm`uth `ebmthml

    `mrelm mljmbml lile`shstelsh-

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    lym0 secmnmhbmlm ahlymtm`ml

    ideg Zidibil, Nreelcern, mla

    [yszjsylzs`h (=876), @mpmlpul `mbh

    beruou` pmam terir amrh `ebmthml,

    `mbh tham` bebm`sua`mllym

    sebmtm-bmtm secmnmh `etm`utml

    m`ml `ebmthml, bedmhl`ml `ebmthml

    secmnmh mllhghdmthil mcsidut (gdb.

    86).

    [yszjsylzs`h, a``., sejmrm serupm

    belyhrmt`ml cmgwm terir

    e`shstelshmd bebmljmr amrh`etm`utml prhbhthf m`ml `ebmthml

    chidinhs (lile`shstelsh) amrhpmam

    `etm`utml shbcidhs. Lmbul aebh`hml,

    cer`ecmdh`ml aelnml htu, rhset

    belulou``ml cmgwm irmln serhln`mdh

    dechg ilsel tergmamp `etham`tmguml

    (ul`liwl), perphsmgml amrh irmln-

    irmln ymln ahjhltmh, aml pedm`lmtml

    mcmah (eterlmd amblmthil)

    `ethbcmln belm`uth cmgwm bere`m

    sebmtm-bmtm tham` e`shs dmnh (Fehfed

    & Lmny, =87=). Fm`tmlym, `eth`m

    ahcerh`ml secumg phdhgml mltmrm

    ghaup sedmbmlym selahrh mtmu bmth

    prebmtur aelnml ah`edhdhlnh ideg

    irmln-irmln ymln ahjhltmh, Demry,a``. (=885) belebu`ml cmgwm

    `ecmlym`ml irmln bebhdhg bmth. Gmd

    hlh belulou``ml cmgwm `etm`utml

    m`ml `ebmthml serhln`mdh bedhcmt`ml

    gmd-gmd ymln dechg `ibpde`s, tham`

    se`mamr `e`gmwmthrml tham` e`shs dmnh.

    @rhth` amrh phgm` psh`idinh evidushiler

    [mrm pelau`uln QBQ cermrnubel

    cmgwm cmlym` fmset amrh `eohoh`ml

    m`ml `ebmthml (aemtg ahsnust)

    cerfulnsh ultu` bedhlaulnh irmln

    amrh `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd

    ymln belnhrhlnh `esmamrml m`ml

    birtmdhtms. Ideg `mrelm dhltmsml

    wm`tu bebcmwm bmlushm dechg ae`mt

    pmam `ebmthml, QBQ bebpreah`sh

    cmgwm hltelshtms `eohoh`ml m`ml

    `ebmthml ymln ahthbcud`ml ideg

    pelnhlnmtml m`ml `ebmthml m`ml

    belhln`mt sehrhln pertmbcmgml

    ushm. Fessder aml Lmvmrrete (3;;5),

    mgdh psh`idinh evidushiler, s`epthstergmamp gmd tersecut aml bedm`u`ml

    stuah cercmshs hlterlet aelnml

    belnnulm`ml hlstrubel ymln ahcumt

    ideg pmrm pelau`uln QBQ. Gmshdlym

    belulou``ml cmgwm ushm cer`iredmsh

    sejmrm lenmthf, cu`ml pishthf, aelnml

    selshthvhtms `eohoh`ml m`ml `ebmthml0

    secumg tebuml ymln `iltrmah`thf

    aelnml preah`sh QBQ. Qebuml

    hlh berupm`ml secumg pidm ymln

    `ilshstel aelnml gmchtumsh mampthf

    `ethbcmln bmlmoebel terir. Gmshd

    ymln smbm ounm ahperideg Fessder

    aml Lmvmrrete aelnml belnnulm`ml

    mabhlhstrmsh hlstrubel ah Jistm Shjm.

    [eledhthml ah Jistm Shjm belulou``mlcmgwm, `iltrms aelnml preah`sh QBQ,

    mtelsh tergmamp `ebmthml seseirmln

    tham` perdu belhln`mt`ml rem`sh

    `eohoh`ml tergmamp cmaml mtmu priau`

    cmaml. @e`umtml evi`mthf amrh sthbudh

    `ebmthml sertm efe`-efe` lenmthf

    amrh ushm tergmamp `eohoh`ml m`ml

    `ebmthml mamdmg `ilshstel aelnml

    mrnubel cmgwm `eohoh`ml berupm`ml

    secumg mamptmsh ymln bebithvmsh

    pelnghlamrml m`ml pelym`ht

    `ethbcmln be`mlhsbe aefelshf

    psh`iahlmbhs tergmamp `ebmthml

    secmnmhbmlm ahpreah`sh`ml QBQ.

    Ah smbphln htu, @rh`pmtrhj` aml

    Lmvmrrete (3;;6) belenms`ml cmgwm

    `ermln`m teireths QBQ tham`dmg

    `ibpmthced aelnml perspe`thf

    evidushiler biaerl. [mamgmd, QBQ

    beln`dmhb cmgwm teirh hlh berupm`ml

    teirh evidushiler ([yszjzyls`h,

    Nreelcern, & Zidibil, =88>0

    [yszjzyls`h et md., 3;;3). @hr`pmtrhj`

    aml Lmvmrrete belulou``ml cmgwm,

    chdm belnh`uth perspe`thf evidushiler,

    sede`sh mdmbhmg (lmturmd sedejthil)

    tham` m`ml beljhptm`ml be`mlhsbe

    bmlmoebel terir (shsteb reau`sh

    `ejebmsml) ultu` belnedidm ebish

    ymln ahsecmc`ml `ejebmsml m`ml

    `ebmthml (jrhppdhln ebithil). Zede`sh

    lmturmd oustru belyede`sh/bebhdhg

    irnmlhsbe-irnmlhsbe ymln pertmbm-

    tmbm tham` belmbphd`ml ebish

    sebmjmb htu, mrelm ebish sebmjmb

    htu cershfmt bmdmampthf. Ze`mdhpul

    pmrm pelau`uln QBQ bebcmltmg

    aelnml belnmtm`ml cmgwm shsteb

    bmlmoebel terir bebhdh`h fulnsh

    mampthf, bm`m belurut perspe`thf

    evidushiler, tham` bmsu` m`md

    (hbpdmushcde) cmgwm sidush ymln

    rubht aml cedub teltu redhmced,

    ym`lh aelnml bebpertmgml`ml

    pmlamlnml aulhm `udturmd ymln

    cershfmt aefelshf, buljud. Belnmpm9

    Ideg `mrelm cmlym` sidush-sidush dmhl

    ymln dechg seaergmlm aml dechg mlamd

    ymln suamg terseahm amrhpmam gmrus

    belenug`ml pmlamlnml `udturmdlym.

    @egmbpmml Bm`lm Zecmnmh Gmdymln Dechg Fulambeltmdaml Hlaepelael amrh@ejebmsml m`ml @ebmthml?Mdterlmthf ceramsmr`ml[eledmmgml Fhdisifhs aml[sh`idinhsQBQ cu`mldmg `ermln`m teireths

    pertmbm ymln cerupmym ultu`

    bereau`sh cmlym` whdmymg perhdm`ubmlushm `e smtu airilnml mtmu

    `ecutugml seltrmd PMbchsh QBQ ultu`

    belomah secumg nrmla pmrmahnb

    amdmb psh`idinhR.

    Cmrrett (=857) bhsmdlym belymtm`ml

    cmgwm Lhetzsjge perlmg belymtm`ml

    mamlym cecermpm mspe` amrh psh`e

    bmlushm secmnmh mspe` ymln pmdhln

    belamsmr, amym airiln terpelthln

    cmnh sebum perhdm`u bmlushm.

    Lhetzsjge sebpmt belnuln`mp`ml

    cmgwm `ebmuml ter`umt aml terthlnnh

    ultu` ghaup tham`dmg terdetm` pmam

    peroumlnml ultu` cermam (strunnde

    ti exhst), bedmhl`ml pmam @mrsmultu` cerpermln (^hdd ti wmr). Gmd hlh

    bhrhpaelnml QBQ amdmb gmd secmnmh

    cerh`ut? QBQ bebmlamln cmgwm

    bmlushm ahairiln ideg @egelam`

    ultu` Belnghlamrh @ejebmsml m`ml

    @ebmthml, sebeltmrm Lhetzsjge

    bedhgmt cmgwm `ecutugml tercesmr

    bmlushm mamdmg @mrsm ultu`

    Cer`umsm (^hdd ti [iwer), ultu`

    belm`du``ml aml belnelamdh`ml

    ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH

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    dhln`ulnml. [erceammllym mamdmg

    cmgwm Lhetzsjge tham` cerupmym

    ultu` bereau`sh sebum usmgm/

    thln`mg dm`u bmlushm `epmam @mrsm

    ultu` Cer`umsm. Lhetzsjge tham`

    beln`dmhb secumg rmltmh secmc-

    m`hcmt (jmusmd jgmhl) aelnml bmlm

    sebum `ecutugml bmlushm gmrus

    cersubcer amrh smtu smom `ecutugml

    ymln dechg cesmr.

    Lhetzsjge cerceam aelnml Freua am-

    dmb gmd hlh. Freua belymtm`ml cmg-wm sebumperhdm`u bmlushm gmlymdmg

    berupm`ml Eris ymln tersucdhbmsh.

    Lhetzsjge cerceam pudm aelnml [yszj-

    zyls`h, Zidibil aml Nreelcernpel-

    jetus QBQymln belymtm`ml cmgwm

    sebum perhdm`u bmlushm berupm`ml

    sucdhbmsh amrh ejebmsml tergmamp ph-

    `hrml teltmln `ebmmllym. Lhetzsjge

    am` beln`dmhb cmgwm `mrsm ultu`

    cermam (whdd ti exhst) sebmtm-bmtm

    berupm`ml bmlhfestmsh/sucdhbmsh amrh

    @mrsm ultu` Cer`umsm. Lhetzsjge gm-

    lym beln`dmhb cmgwm mam smtu `e-

    cutugml ymln dechg `umtamrhpmam se-

    bum ecutugml ymln dmhllym, cmg`ml

    dechg `umt amrh `ecutugml ultu` cerm-am/e`shs. @ecutugml tersecut mamdmg

    @mrsm ultu` Cer`umsm. Lmbul, Lhetz-

    sjge am` cermlnnmpml cmgwm sebum

    airilnml gmrus ampmt ahreau`sh `epm-

    am smtu airilnml ter`umt.

    QBQ beln`dmhb cmgwm sebum `e-

    cuamymml aml sebum perhdm`u ymln

    cerbm`lm ymln belyusul udtur mtmu

    pul permamcml ampmt ahreau`sh pmam

    airilnml tulnnmd aml cershfmt hllmte,

    ym`lh gmsrmt/airilnml ultu` bel-

    nghlamrh mfe` lenmf ymln ahmsishm-

    sh`ml aelnml `esmamrml teltmln `e-

    bmml/birtmdhtmslym. Airilnml hlh

    berupm`ml shsteb ymln cesmr (nrmla)

    aml reau`f ymln ahbm`sua`ml ultu`

    bebcerh`ml `etertmtmml (iraer) ter-

    gmamp cercmnmh `ermln`m teires psh-

    `idinh ymln smdhln cersmhln tm`-`mruml.

    QBQ beljicm belngmahr`ml sidush

    ymln cershfmt belymtu`ml, ulh`msh,

    tergmamp pertmlymml Belnmpm bm-

    lushm cerph`hr aml cerperhdm`u seper

    htu9 Omwmc amrh QBQ mamdmg? Qham`

    gmlym ultu` belnghlamrh `ebmml,

    tetmph ounm ultu` belnghlamrh cerph`hr

    teltmln ebmml.

    [ertmlymml `rhslym mamdmg? Bel-

    nmpm bmlushm gmrus belnghlamrh

    cerph`hr teltmln `ebmml9 Mam mpm

    aelnml pebh`hrml teltmln `ebmml,

    seghlnnm pebh`hrml hlh cenhtu belm-

    `ut`ml9Lymtmlym, QBQ am` perlmg

    beloedms`ml sejmrm bebmamh belnm-

    pm`ebmml berupm`ml sesumtu ymln

    am` hlnhl `htm ph`hr`ml. Qudhsml hlh ce-

    rmrnubel cmgwm pelnghlamrml `htm

    tergmamp pebh`hrml teltmln ebmml

    oustru belnmlauln @mrsm, airilnml,

    mtmu `ecutugml ymln cermam cecms

    amrh (hlaepelael/am` cernmltuln

    pmam)gmsrmt ultu` belnghlamrh mfe`

    lenmf ymln cermsishmsh aelnml `e-

    smamrml m`ml `ebmml `htm. @mrsm,

    airilnml, mtmu ecutugml htu mamdmg

    `ehlnhlml m`ml bm`lm (bemlhln),

    mtmu dechg spesh` dmnh, gmsrmt m`ml

    secumg shsteb bm`lm ymln tulnnmd

    (shlnudmr) aml terpmau (ulhea).

    Cmlym` dhtermtur disis aml psh`idi-

    nhs belau`uln mrnubeltmsh tersecut.

    [mrm dsuf e`shstelshmd, amrh @her`en-

    mmra smbpmh aelnml Jmbus aml Geh-

    aenner, tedmg belulou``ml cmgwm

    `ebmml htu selahrh cu`mldmg sub-

    cer `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd bmlushm.

    @etm`utml bmlushm m`ml `ebmml

    belulou``ml gmd ymln dechg bel-

    amsmr dmnh, ym`lh cmgwm bmlushm htutedmg nmnmd belnilstru`sh secumg

    pmauml shsteb redmsh amdmb gmd bmlm

    bmlushm bedhgmt ahrh secmnmh cmnhml

    amrh shsteb redmsh tersecut. Cerph`hr

    teltmln `ebmml cermr cerph`hr tel-

    tmln gmd ymln ahrepreseltmsh`ml ideg

    `ebmml, ym`lh `egmbpmml bm`lm

    (bemlhlndessless), @e`isilnml, Mc-

    surahtms.

    [mam smtu shsh pelnerml, pishsh e`sh-

    stelshmdhs tersecut ampmt ahdhgmt secm-

    nmh pishsh ymln setmrmlmbul ceripi-

    shsh aelnml pishsh QBQ. Zetmrm lmbul

    cerdmwmlml, ideg `mrelm Gmsrmt ul-

    tu` belnghlamrh @ejebmsml m`ml @e-

    bmml ahnml`ml ideg Gmsrmt m`ml

    secumg Zhsteb Bm`lm Qerpmau. Amdmb

    gmd hlh, tetmp mam telaelsh reau`shilhs.

    Qelaelsh reau`shilhs hlh celmr se`h-

    rmlym nmnmsml utmbm amrh teirh e`sh-

    stelshmd certuouml ultu` beletmp`ml

    Gmsrmt m`ml Zhsteb Bm`lm Qerpmau

    secmnmh airilnml pmrhpurlm (udbm-

    te arhve) ymln belamsmrh sebum ai-

    rilnml dmhllym. Lmbul, secmnmhbmlm

    m`ml lmbpm` amdmb urmhml dechg dml-

    out, tudhsml hlh am` cerbm`sua bel-

    nmbchd pishsh reau`shilhs hlh.

    Gmsrmt bmlushm ultu` bebcmlnul

    aml bermsm ter`ile`sh aelnml sh-

    steb bm`lm terpmau ymln tulnnmd

    cu`mldmg sucirahlmt amrh gmsrmt ul-

    tu` belnghlamrh cerph`hr teltmln

    `ebmml. Zebum shsteb bm`lm ymln

    mam cu`mldmg respils tergmamp `e-

    tm`utml bmlushm m`ml `ebmml.@e-

    cutugml ultu` belnilstru`sh amlbede`mt`ml ahrh pmam `ermln`m bm`lm

    terpmau seah`htlym berupm`ml secumg

    `ecutugml ymln cerahrh cecms/hlae-

    pelael tergmamp `ecutugml bmlushm

    ultu` belnghlamrh pebh`hrml m`ml

    `ebmml, ounm berupm`ml `ecutugml

    ymln belamsmrh seoubdmg cesmr mpre-

    gelsh/pebmgmbml `htm ter`mht `ebm-

    ml. Gmbphr am` termnu`ml cmgwm

    bmlushm bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb `il-

    stru`sh bm`lm amdmb tmlnnmpml/re-

    spilslym tergmamp pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmml. Lmbul, gmd hlh oustru beru-

    pm`ml hlah`mtir cmgwm bm`lm beru-

    pm`ml gmd pertmbm ymln pmdhln ahrusm`

    ideg ebmml. Hbpdh`msh pebh`hrml hlh?

    @e`m htm ahhlnmt`ml teltmln birtmdh-

    tms `htm, `htm bermsm gmrusultu` be-

    re`ilstru`sh sertm dechg `umt dmnh bel-

    nh`mt`ml ahrh pmam `ermln`m-`ermln`m

    teramgudu ymln tedmg ahtmltmln ideg

    `egmbpmml bm`lm (secmnmh gmd ymln

    ahrepreseltmsh`ml ideg ebmml).

    Zepmlomln tudhsml ah mtms, ahsecut-

    secut `mtm bm`lm. Mpm`mg ymln ah-

    ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH

    Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=; Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=;=17 =18

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    bm`sua aelnml bm`lm9 Cmubehster

    (=88=) belymtm`ml cmgwm secumg

    aelhsh `msmr teltmln bm`lm mamdmg

    cmgwm bm`lm berupm`ml represel-

    tmsh beltmd ymln tercmnh (sgmrea)

    teltmln redmsh-redmsh ymln buln`hl

    ahmltmrm gmd-gmd, perhswm-perhswm,

    aml guculnml-guculnml. Aelnml

    aebh`hml, bm`lm belnile`sh`ml

    gmd-gmd. Belnh`u aelhsh hlh, bm`m

    cmlym` e`spresh ymln cerceam-ceam

    ampmt ah`mht`ml aelnml pebmgmbml

    teltmln bm`lm. E`spresh-e`spresh htu

    bhsmdlym pmrmahnbm, s`rhp, s`ebm,

    lmrmsh, `ermln`m bm`lm, aibmhl pel-

    netmguml (Aibmhls if tge @liwl),

    aulhm msubf, aml dmhl-dmhl. Zebum

    gmd hlh belnmlauln gmd ymln smbm?

    redmsh ymln tertmtm, ymln ampmt cersh-

    fmt `musmd, `mtenirhs, dinhs mtmu tedei-

    dinhs, ymln belnguculn`ml gmd-gmd ah

    mltmrm ahrh bmlushm sertm mltmrm ahrh

    aelnml gmd ymln ahpersepsh`ml. [ul

    redmsh hlh bebumt mamlym `ile`sh-`i-

    le`sh ymln ampmt ahpreah`sh, cmh` ymln

    ahtebu`ml bmupul ymln ahpm`sm`ml,

    ymln bebuln`hl`ml bmlushm ultu`

    bebpersepsh bmupul belnelamdh`ml

    dhln`ulnmllym.

    Oh`m celmr cmgwm bm`lm cershfmt bel-

    nile`sh`ml, bm`m semp `ecutugml

    mtmu @egelam` m`ml bm`lm m`ml

    berupm`ml secumg `ecutugml mtmu

    @mrsm ultu` cerguculnml. Bel-

    urut Jmbus (=855), bmlushm ubub-

    lym bebhdh`h secumg listmdnhm m`ml

    ulhtms, secumg gmsrmt ultu` `ile`

    (cerguculnml), ultu` beletmp-

    `ml redmsh-redmsh, ultu` bebmau`ml

    edebel-edebel aulhm ah se`htmrlym,

    aml belnh`mt`ml ahrhlym amdmb ulh-

    tms hlh. Qudhsml hlh cermrnubel cmgwm

    `ecutugml hlh cershfmt cmwmml (hllm-

    te) aml tm` tereau`sh`ml (hrreaujhc-

    de). @ecutugml m`ml bm`lm hlh cu`ml

    berupm`ml bmlhfestmsh tmbpm` amrh

    cecermpm `ecutugml dmhl ymln de-

    chg amdmb. @ecutugml hlh ounm ju`up

    e`shced amdmb pelermpmllym amdmb

    belnudhsmsh`ml biae-biae redmshi-

    lmd mpmpul.

    Dechg omug dmnh, tudhsml hlh cermrnu-

    bel cmgwm `erom-`erom/usmgm-usmgm

    beluou ulhtms hlh belngmshd`ml mfe`

    pishf. Zecmdh`lym, `ile`sh-`ile`sh

    ymln terhltmlnhbelngmshd`ml ebish

    lenmf. @egmbpmml bm`lm berupm-

    `ml pelnhlnmt ymln belnhltmh ahmb-

    ahmb terus-belerus cmgwm `ile`sh/

    guculnml stmchd ymln ahbhdh`h bmlushm

    cmrmln`mdh gmlym `sh, cmgwm redmsh-

    redmsh ymln ahtetmp`ml ahh`mt ideg hdu-

    sh. [ul cmgwm pmrmai`s, ahsrupsh, aml

    `iltrmah`sh belnerubulh pmlamlnml-

    pmlamlnml ghaup ymln `htm peroumln-

    `ml ultu` ahpedhgmrm. Mfe` lenmf

    ymln berupm`ml gmshd amrh `esmamrml

    teltmln ahs`ile`sh prifml, teltmln

    `egmbpmml bm`lm, htudmg ymln be-

    rupm`ml `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    Mpmchdm ghpiteshs ah mtms celmr, bm`m

    perlymtmml tersecut berupm`ml el-

    amdm serhus cmnh `dmhb QBQ cmgwm

    mp-mp gmsrmt m`ml bm`lm amdmb

    `eghaupml `htm berupm`ml aerhvmt

    (turulml) amrh gmsrmt ultu` belnghl-

    amrh mfe` lenmf ter`mht aelnml cerph-

    `hr teltmln `ebmml. @mamln`mdm mam

    ymln cermrnubel cmgwm @egelam`

    m`ml Bm`lm cershfmt mampf amdmb

    rmln`m belnghlamrh `ebmml. Bes-

    `hpul aebh`hml, perlymtmml hlh am`

    smbm aelnml belnmtm`ml cmgwm @e-

    gelam` tersecut ahturul`ml amrh ai-

    rilnml/`ecutugml/gmsrmt nulm bel-

    nghlamrh `ebmml cmh` sejmrm smamr

    bmupul tm` smamr. Belurut peludhs,

    QBQ seyinhmlym am` beln`dmhb

    cmgwm sebum perhdm`u ymln beb-

    pribish`ml `ecerdmlnsulnml ghaup

    (survhvmd) berupm`ml `ejebmsml e`-

    shstelshmd ymln ahsucdhbmsh. Belnm-

    pm9 Zecmc, chdm celmr aebh`hml, bm`m

    cmg`ml bm`ml pul, `e`m `htm dmpmr,

    gmrus ahdhgmt secmnmh bmlhfestmsh amrh

    gmsrmt `htm ultu` belnghlamrh mfe`

    lenmf ymln cermsishmsh aelnml pel-

    nhlnmt m`ml birtmdhtms `htm. Mnmr `dmhb

    QBQ tetmp certmgml, bm`m QBQ gmrus

    belutup `ebuln`hlml cmgwm @mrsm

    m`ml Bm`lm cermam hlaepelael amrh

    @mrsm ultu` Belnghlamrh @ejebmsml

    @ebmml. Lmbul, secmnmhbmlm ah-

    urmh`ml cerh`utlym, QBQ am` bmb-

    pu belutup `ebuln`hlml tersecut.

    Qudhsml hlh oustru gelam` bebperdh-

    gmt`ml cmgwm gmd ymln ah`dmhb QBQ

    htu am` celmr. Dechg dmlout, ymln ce-

    lmr mamdmg gmd ipishtlym. Cmgwm mfe`

    lenmf ymln (belurut QBQ) ahmsi-

    shmsh`ml aelnml pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmml sesulnnuglym buljud `m-

    relm `ebmml berusm`/belnnmln-

    nu `ile`sh-`ile`sh amdmb `ermln`m

    bm`lm fulambeltmd `htm ymln suamg

    `htm cmlnul aml tetmp`ml amdmb se-

    pmlomln ghaup htm.

    Omah, hl ghpiteshs rhs hlh mamdmg cmg-wm `ecutugml ultu` beleltu`ml bm-

    `lm (mtmu, `ermln`m redmshilmd terpm-

    au) ymln ahmlnnmp beljm`up sebum

    remdhtms aml tebpmt bmlushm ah amdmb-

    lym berupm`ml `ecutugml amsmr bm-

    lushm. @ecutugml hlh tm` ampmt ahre-

    au`sh`ml `epmam seoubdmg `ecutugml

    ymln dechg cesmr. Mpmchdm `ecutugml

    m`ml bm`lm hlh am` terpelugh, bm-

    lushm belnmdmbh seoubdmg oelhs mfe`

    lenmf. Zubcer amrh mfe` lenmf ymln

    ahmdmbh bmlushm `e`m cerph`hr tel-

    tmln ebmml sesulnnuglym terdetm`/

    cersubcer pmam `esmamrml teltmln

    mcsurahtms mtmu `egmbpmml bm`lm,

    cu`ml terdetm` pmam `ebmml htu sel-

    ahrh. Hlhdmg `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    Amsmr ghpiteshs

    Jmbus berupm`ml pebh`hr pertmbm

    ymln belnilseptumdhsmsh`ml

    tge mcsura. Hm ounm ymln

    bebpistudmsh`ml `ecutugml cmwmml

    (hllmte) m`ml bm`lm. @her`enmmra

    tedmg cernudmt aelnml pebh`hrml tge

    mcsura smtu mcma secedub Jmbus.

    ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH ZMHLZ [ZH@IDINH

    Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=; Vid.3 Li.= Zeptebcer 3;=;=5; =5=

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    Amdmb te`s Sepeththil (=71:/3;;;)

    aml Ehtger/Ir (=71:/3;;;),

    @her`enmmra tedmg belnuln`mp`ml

    teltmln `ecutugml bmlushm ultu`

    beletmp`ml `ile`sh-`ile`sh ymln

    stmchd aml termbmd`ml amdmb persepsh

    aml hlterm`sh bmlushm aelnml remdhtms.

    Lhetzsjge ounm tedmg bebcerh`ml

    pele`mlml `gusus belnelmh tge

    Viha (@e`isilnml). [mam cmnhml

    tudhsmllym amdmb Qge Nmy Zjhelje

    (=77>/=873) ymln pmdhln ahhlnmt,

    Lhetzsjge belymoh`ml `ejebmsml

    ymln ampmt ahmdmbh seseirmln `eth`m

    belngmamph `egmbpmml bm`lm

    e`shstelshmd ymln ahsecmc`ml ideg

    pelebuml cmgwm Qugml bmth

    (Nia hs aema). Cmg`ml Freua tedmg

    belnurmh`ml sejmrm rhln`ms teltmln

    `etham`lymbmlml ymln nmlohd/mleg

    ymln `htm rmsm`ml `eth`m `eghdmlnml

    redmsh-redmsh aml pebhsmgml redmshilmd

    (redmthilmd ahsouljthil). @rhth` esteths

    Freua teramdmb amdmb esmhlym, Qge

    Uljmlly (=8=8/=88;) bele`ml`ml

    `ejebmsml ymln ampmt ahmdmbh

    bmlushm eth`m ahpmpmr aelnml mrym-

    `mrym mrthsth` ymln ahjhrh`ml aelnml

    hrmshilmdhtms fulambeltmdlym.

    [ebh`hrml e`shstelshmdhs Jmbus amdmb

    Ml Mcsura Semsilhln bebcumt

    `dmhb psh`idinhs ymln pmdhln oedms

    belymln`ut `ecutugml e`shstelshmd

    bmlushm ultu` bebmau`ml (ulhfh`msh)

    persepshlym teltmln remdhtms aml

    tebpmt ahrh amdmb remdhtms tersecut.

    @ecutugml hlh ampmt ahpmlamln dhltms

    cercmnmh whdmymg perhdm`u bmlushm.

    Jmbus bebpistudmsh`ml secumg

    listmdnhm m`ml ulhtms, aml beln`dmhb

    cmgwm seoubdmg perhdm`u `ejebmsml

    berupm`ml gmshd amrh `ecutugml

    listmdnhm ulhtms ymln tergmdmlnh, mtmu

    gmshd amrh `esmamrml bmlushm cmgwm

    sedurug upmym/perhdm`ulym cer`mhtml

    aelnml `ecutugml hlh mamdmg shm-

    shm. @ejebmsml amdmb belngmamph

    `egmbpmml bm`lm hlh mamdmg

    `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd. @ejebmsml

    hlh tham` gmrus ahphju ideg `ebmthml,

    lmbul `ejebmsml hlh ampmtbelyecmc`ml gmsrmt ultu` bmth.

    Jmbus bebcmlnul redmsh ahlmbhs

    mltmrm ulhtms aml ahsulhtms, amdmb

    gmd bmlm tge mcsurabelomah ahlahln

    pebhsmg mltmr `eaumlym.

    [ebh`hrml fhdisifhs dmhllym ymln redevml

    amdmb rhth` tergmamp QBQ, ah smbphln

    fhdsmfmt e`shstelshmdhsbe Jmbus,

    mamdmg fhdsmfmt Qgibms @ugl amdmb

    Ztrujture if Zjhelthfhj Seviduthils.

    Qudhsml @ugl secelmrlym sejmrm

    e`spdhsht bebcmgms firbmsh aml redmsh

    mltmr pmrmahnbm-pmrmahnbm ehdbuml.

    Lmbul, pebh`hrml @ugl ounm ampmt

    ahpmlamln secmnmh perdumsml amrh

    pebh`hrml Jmbus teltmln ahlmbh`m

    ulhtms/ahsulhtms. Gmd hlh lmbpm` eth`m

    @ugl belymoh`ml secumg teirh ubub

    teltmln cmnmhbmlm `ile`sh-`ile`sh

    ahcumt, ahrevhsh, mtmu ahmcmh`ml amdmb

    upmym beln`ilstru`sh `ermln`m-

    `ermln`m redmshilmd ymln `ilshstel

    sejmrm hlterlmd. @ugl amdmb

    pebcmgmsmllym ounm belyeltug

    gmsrmt ymln ahaes`rhpsh`ml Jmbus

    secmnmh gmsrmt m`ml bmtrh`s redmshilmd

    ymln smtu, pmau, aml terhlter`ile`sh

    ymln belnguculn`ml sebum mspe`

    amrh remdhtms ymln `htm persepsh`ml.

    @ejebmsml cmln`ht `eth`m bmtrh`s

    redmshilmd `htm pejmg cer`ephln-

    `ephln. [ebh`hrml @ugl shnlhfh`ml

    `mrelm hm tham` senml belnuthp stuah-

    stuah psh`idinhs ebphrhs ymln cerupmym

    ultu` belne`spdirmsh jmrm-jmrm

    aelnml bmlm bmlushm bebedhgmrm

    `ermln`m-`ermln`m redmshilmd

    hlh `eth`m belngmamph ahsrupsh-

    ahsrupsh, `iltrmah`sh-`iltrmah`sh,

    aml `iltrmfm`tumd-`iltrmfm`tumd tm`

    teraunm, stuah-stuah ymln belmwmr`ml

    cu`th ebphrhs ymln belau`uln

    pebh`hrml mdterlmthf `htm teltmln

    subcer `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    Zedmloutlym, terampmt pudm pebh`hrml

    ymln beljicm beloebcmtmlh mltmrm

    pebh`hrml fhdsmfmt aelnml pebh`hrml

    psh`idinh. Mam aum irmln mgdh teirh

    psh`idinh, ymln `eaumlym belnmaipsh

    biaed @uglhml teltmln perneserml

    pmrmahnbm (pmrmahnb sghft) nulm

    belnedmcirmsh pebh`hrmllym

    bere`m teltmln peberidegml aml

    pebedhgmrmml shsteb bm`lm. @eaum

    teirhs hlh cermrnubel cmgwm mam

    `ecutugml cmwmml (hllmte) m`ml

    secumg bmtrh`s redmshilmd ymln stmchd

    ymln beljm`up remdhtms aml tebpmt

    bmlushm ah amdmblym. @eaum teirhs hlh

    belymtm`ml cmgwm `ejebmsml ahgm-

    shd`ml e`m ecutugml hlh tergmdmlnh.

    Amdmb cu`u Zgmerea Mssubpils,

    Sillhe Omli-Cudbml (=888) belnu-

    rmh`ml teltmln `erusm`ml ymln teromah

    pmam `ermln`m bm`lm seirmln hlah-

    vhau `e`m belngmamph trmubm per-

    silmd ymln hltels. Ceramsmr`ml cmshs

    dhtermtur psh`idinhs aml disis, Om-

    li-Cudbml beln`dmhb cmgwm bm-

    lushm ceripermsh amrh amdmb aulhm-

    aulhm msubf ymln tedmg ahcumtlym.

    Aulhm-aulhm msubf hlh mamdmg s`ebm-

    s`ebm fulambeltmd, tm` smamr, aml

    teritibmsmsh`ml ymln belyusul

    titmd oubdmg amrh redmsh-redmsh ymln `htm

    gmrmp`ml, cmh` amdmb aulhm e`ster-

    lmd bmupul amdmb redmsh `htm aelnmlaulhm hlh. [ergmml `gusus ahcerh`ml

    pmam redmsh `musmd aml tedeidinhs, am-

    dmb gmd bmlm perhswm-perhswm

    trmubms belmltmln permsmml (sel-

    se) `htm m`ml preah`tmchdhtms, `iltrid,

    aml lhdmh prhcmah.

    Amdmb Bmps if Bemlhln? tge Mrjghtej-

    ture if Cedhef, Oiraml [etersil (=888)

    ounm cermln`mt amrh biaed @uglhml

    amdmb aes`rhpshlym belnelmh cmnmh-

    bmlm Aibmhl if tge @liwl ahgmshd-

    `ml aml ahstru`tur`ml ideg hlahvhau se-

    cmnmh oeomrhln hbpdhsht amrh redmsh-redmsh

    aml `ile`sh-`ile`sh ymln bebcerhtm-

    gu`ml htm mpm-mpm ymln ampmt htm gm-

    rmp`ml amrh aulhm. Ahlmbh`m teltmln

    cmnmhbmlm Aibmhl if tge @liwl hlh

    ahrevhsh mtmu ahmcmh`ml bhrhp aelnml

    biaed @ugl teltmln ahlmbh`m pmrm-

    ahnbm. [etersil cermlom` sedmln`mg

    dechg omug aelnml belymtm`ml cmgwm

    terampmt msmd-bumsmd leurichidinhs

    cmnh sebum m`vhtms peljhptmml bm`-

    lm. [etersil beln`dmhb cmgwm pmam

    smtu shsh pelnerml, `htm htu gmra-

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    whrea (cercmshs nele`) ultu` bele-

    tmp`ml shsteb redmsh ymln stmchd mltmrm

    edebel-edebel remdhtms e`sterlmd aml

    ahrh `htm selahrh. @htm bedm`u`mllym

    tmlpm referelsh pmam `etm`utml `htm

    m`ml `ebmml mtmu `ejebmsml m`ml

    cerph`hr teltmln `ebmml. @egmb-

    pmml bm`lm, tge Mcsura, tge Ai-

    bmhl if tge Ul`liwl bebprivi`m-

    sh ejebmsmllym selahrh pmam tmtmrml

    leurichidinhs.

    [ebh`hrml Bmrl Gehaenner(=85:/=886) amdmb Cehln mla Qhbe

    belnnelmp`ml mrnubel-mrnubel ah

    mtms ultu` ceripishsh tergmamp QBQ.

    Gehaenner belymtm`ml cmgwm bm-

    lushm mamdmg peljhptm bm`lm. Zemp

    tmltmlnml tergmamp bm`lm hlh bebp-

    rivi`msh seoubdmg mfe` lenmf sertm

    upmym-upmym ultu` bebpercmh`h mtmu

    belmbcmd `ephlnml-`ephlnml bm`lm

    hlh amdmb bmtrh`s-bmtrh`s redmshilmd

    `htm. Dechg pelln dmnh, Gehaenner

    bebcumt perlymtmml ymln pmdhln

    e`spdhsht cmgwm `ejebmsml e`shstel-

    shmd `htm amdmb belngmamph pebh-

    `hrml m`ml `ebmml mamdmg sejmrm

    hltrhlsh` berupm`ml `etm`utml m`ml`egmbpmml bm`lm, cmgwm `ebmml

    berepreseltmsh`ml perusm`ml terce-

    smr tergmamp `eutugml redmshilmd `htm,

    seomug `ebmml berepreseltmsh`ml

    secumg pmrmai`s cesmr amdmb hl `e-

    bmlushmml `htm sertm seomug `ebmml

    sejmrm rmah`md bebhsmg`ml `htm amrh

    e`shstelsh ymln `htm lnnmd`ml. Mpm-

    chdm bm`lm mamdmg redmsh, `ebmml

    berupm`ml lilredmshymln pmrhpurlm.

    @rhth` ter`mht pripishsh QBQ

    Cmlym` psh`idin terhbpresh ideg

    cesmrlym `mrym (ciay if wir`) ebphrhs

    ymln ahgmshd`ml ideg QBQ. @mrym-`mrym

    tersecut belulou``ml guculnml

    secmc m`hcmt mltmrm pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmthml, gmrnm ahrh, aml `ede`mtml

    pmam lhdmh-lhdmh amrh pmlamlnml

    ghaup `udturmd bmlushm. Qham` germl,

    `ecmlym`ml psh`idin tham` `rhths pmam

    upmym teireths QBQ ultu` bereau`sh

    sebum bithvmsh bmlushm sertmsebum `ilstru` `udturmd `epmam smtu

    `ecutugml mtmu airilnml tulnnmd.

    Sichl S. Vmddmjger (=88>), seirmln

    psh`idin sishmd, bhsmdlym, amdmb

    `rhth`lym tergmamp QBQ belymtm`ml?

    Zetedmg bebperthbcmln`ml fm`tm

    aml pebh`hrml ymln cerceam-

    ceam, [yszjzyls`h, a``. tedmg

    bebcumt teirh ymln beym`hl`ml

    cmgwm bmsmdmg `ebmthml

    berupm`ml subcer `ejebmsml

    ymln bebichdhsmsh`ml irmln

    ultu` bebprite`sh gmrnm ahrhlym,

    sertm belymlnnm/belenug`ml

    pmlamlnml ghaup aml shsteb`eperjmymmllym.

    Lmbul, Vmddmjger tetmp s`epths

    belnelmh?

    @dmhb ymln ju`up cermlh cmgwm

    Bmlmoebel Qerir berupm`ml

    subcer amrh sebum bithf.

    Zecmnmh bmlm ahjmtmt, mrnubel

    [yszjzyls`h, a``. amdmb gmd hlh

    mamdmg belmrh`, `mamln-`mamln

    jerams (hlnelhius), lmbul

    tercu`m ultu` ahperaecmt`ml

    aml `mrelmlym tham` terdmbpmu

    beym`hl`ml.

    Amdmb `rhth` serupm, seirmln mgdh

    psh`idinh, Siy Cmubehster (=88>)

    belymtm`ml cmgwm?

    QBQ beln`dmhb cmgwm sebum

    bithf bmlushm ahturul`ml

    amrh perdhlaulnml ahrh (sedf-

    preservmthil) ymln ahsecut

    [yszjzyls`h, a``. secmnmh bithf

    utmbm (bmster bithve). @htm

    ampmt setuou cmgwm seoubdmg

    perhdm`u cerirheltmsh pmam upmym

    ultu` tetmp ghaup. Lmbul,

    mpm`mg celmr, sebum9 Mam

    `eselomlnml ymln cesmr mltmrm

    tebuml ebphrhs ymln ahdmpir`ml

    ideg [yszjzyls`h, a``. aml `dmhb

    teireths bere`m. Ztuah-stuah

    bere`m tedmg bebperdhgmt`ml

    aelnml cmlym` jmrm cmgwm

    belnhlnmt`ml irmln m`ml

    `ebmthml ampmt belnucmg

    perhdm`u irmln tersecut. Lmbulaebh`hml, tebuml hlh omug

    amrh ampmt ahnulm`ml secmnmh

    ousthfh`msh perlymtmml cmgwm

    sebum bithvmsh ahturul`ml amrh

    `etm`utml m`ml `ebmthml.

    Amdmb `rhth` QBQ ymln dmhl,

    psh`idin sishmd Bedvhl Derler (=88>)

    belebu`ml cmgwm?

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    Shset ymln tedmg ahdm`u`ml

    [yszjzyls`h, Zidibil aml

    Nreelcern tm` ampmt ahrmnu`ml

    dmnh smlnmt hbpreshf. Lmbul

    aebh`hml, s`up (jm`upml) amrh

    spe`udmsh teireths hltenrmthf

    bere`m smlnmtdmg dums (si

    eljibpmsshln) seghlnnm sudht

    cmnh smym, aml `ebuln`hlml cmnh

    irmln dmhl, ultu` belerhbmlym.

    [elampmt-pelampmt tersecut ah mtms

    ounm ahnmuln`ml ideg psh`idin Crett[edgmb (=88>) amdmb mrth`edlym

    Gubml Bithvmthil gms Budthpde

    Siits?

    [yszjzyls`h, Zidibil aml

    Nreelcern bebcerh`ml secumg

    biaed hltenrmthf teltmln

    bithvmsh bmlushm. Qeshs bere`m

    mamdmg cmgwm bithf-bithf

    bmlushm ymln prhber sebumlym

    cerm`mr pmam smtu bithf ymln

    dechg fulambeltmd, ym`lh

    bebhlhbmd`ml terir e`shstelshmd

    ymln ahthbcud`ml ideg `esmamrml

    cmgwm irmln sumtu gmrh m`ml

    bmth. Bes`hpul smym bebuohcmh` rhset ebphrhs QBQ bmupul

    tuouml teireths peljetus teirhlym

    ultu` belyeahm`ml secumg teirh

    hltenrmthf ultu` bebmgmbh

    bithvmsh bmlushm, hlterpretmsh

    smym tergmamp rhset-rhset ymln

    mam belnelmh QBQ hmdmg cmgwm

    teirh ymln beym`hl`ml cedubdmg

    ahjmpmh ideg pmrm teirhs QBQ.

    Zmlnmt tham` buln`hl cmgwm

    bmlmoebel terir e`shstelshmd

    berupm`ml bithf bmlushm ymln

    pmdhln vhtmd (quhltesselthmd).

    Mam aum strmtenh ubub nulm

    beln`rhth` `dmhb-`dmhb reau`shilhs

    amrh QBQ. [ertmbm, smbpmh aelnml

    QBQ bmbpu bebcu`th`ml cmgwm

    efe` smdhelsh `ebmthml (birtmdhty

    smdhelje) cerdm`u cmnh sebumperhdm`u

    bmlushm aml cer`elmml aelnml

    sebum shsteb bm`lm sertm sebum

    fmset cuamym, bm`m `dmhb reau`shilhsbere`m tham` cideg ahterhbm.

    Zecmnmhbmlm ahlymtm`ml ideg Derler?

    Zecumg aebilstrmsh ymln

    beym`hl`ml cmgwm bmlmoebel

    terir cermam pmam puljm`

    ghermr`h amrh bithf bmlushm gmrus

    belulou``ml aebilstrmsh cmgwm

    bmlhpudmsh smdhelsh birtmdhtms

    bebhdh`h dechg cmlym` efe`

    armbmths pmam sebum oelhs rem`sh

    aefelshf amrhpmam efe` ymln

    ahgmshd`ml ideg oelhs mljmbml

    cerbm`lm dmhllym (ah dumr

    mljmbml `ebmthml). Zmymlnlym,

    gmd hlh berupm`ml tunms ymlnsudht ahpelugh ideg QBQ.

    Ztrmtenh `eaum bebpertmlym`ml

    vmdhahtms tmbpmln (fmje vmdhahty)

    amrh teirh mpmpul ymln cerupmym

    ultu` bereau`sh sebum bithvmsh

    bmlushm `epmam smtu airilnml

    tulnnmd, `gususlym airilnml ultu`

    belnghlamrh `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    Gmd hlh `mrelm `htm ampmt aelnml

    senerm belnmbchd jiltig amrh

    perhdm`u aml bithvmsh ymln oedms-

    oedms tham` cerm`mr pmam gmsrmt

    ultu` belnghlamrh mfe` lenmthf

    ymln ahgmshd`ml amrh `esmamrml m`ml

    birtmdhtms htm. [edgmb belulou``ml

    cmgwm sejmrm hltuhthf bmlushm oustru

    bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb cmlym` se`mdh

    perhdm`u ymln sudht, ymln amdmb

    terbhlidinh QBQ segmruslym ahghlamrh

    mtmu tham` ahdm`u`ml.

    Irmln bedm`u`ml culug ahrh,

    bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb se`s ymln

    tham` mbml, belnghrup `i`mhl,

    beri`i` tebcm`mu, bmcu` aml

    belyethr, bedm`u`ml m`ricmt

    uamrm, belyedmb `eamdmbml

    dmut, cmg`ml bm`ml bm`mlml

    ymln thlnnh nudm aml `idesterid.

    @htm belnmlnnmp cmgwm irmln

    bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb perhdm`u-

    perhdm`u ymln cerpitelsh

    belaestru`sh ahrh hlh `mrelm ampmt

    bebelugh `ecutugml-`ecutugml

    amsmrlym sertm gmsrmt-gmsrmt

    ymln hlaepelael amrh (aml

    serhln`mdh mlthteshs tergmamp)

    gmsrmt ultu` belnghlamrh

    `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    [erhdm`u culug ahrh berupm`ml

    tmltmlnml tercesmr tergmamp QBQ

    ymln bedm`u`ml reau`sh rmah`md.

    Derler bebpertmlym`ml sejmrm `rhths?

    Zecermpm belamsmr`mg `etm`utml

    m`ml `ebmthml, mpmchdm `htm

    belym`sh`ml cmgwm cmlym`

    irmln bebhdh`h fmltmsh serhus

    ultu` belnm`ghrh `eselnsmrmml

    bere`m aelnml belnm`ghrh

    ghaup bere`m, sertm mpmchdm `htm

    belym`sh`ml cmgwm cmlym` amrh

    bere`m certhlam` ceramsmr`ml

    fmltmsh tersecut9

    Qeltu smom terampmt `ebuln`hlml-

    `ebuln`hlml ahbmlm `htm belm`u

    sesumtu ymln dechg amrhpmam `ebm-

    ml. Mam pudm lmshc-lmshc ymln celmr-

    celmr curu` amdmb gmd bmlm `ebm-ml fm`tmlym berupm`ml smrmlm ymln

    ahphdhg ultu` belnghlamrh pelaerh-

    tmml/lmshc curu` hlh. Zecmnmhbmlm J.

    S. Zlyaer (=88>) belulou``ml amdmb

    Jiltrid mla Mppdhjmthil if Ijjmbs

    Smzir ti Qerrir Bmlmnebelt Qgeiry?

    Amdmb gmd-gmd `eth`m upmym ultu`

    beream`ml pelaerhtmml tham`

    su`ses mtmu tham` terseahm, irmln

    ampmt sejmrm rmshilmd cerupmym

    ultu` belnm`ghrh ghaup bere`m

    sejmrm m`thf bmupul sejmrm pmshf.

    Cmnh irmln aelnml pelym`ht

    terbhlmd ymln belnmdmbh rmsm

    sm`ht/pelaerhtmml ymln thlnnh,

    girir ymln pmdhln pmrhpurlm

    cu`mldmg `eghdmlnml ghaup/

    lile`shstelsh (secmnmhbmlm

    belomah `dmhb QBQ), lmbul

    oustru `ecerdmlnsulnml ghaup/

    survhvmd.

    Zeoubdmg irmln dmhl ampmt

    belymln`md cmgwm hlahvhau bebhdhg

    bmth amrhpmam ghaup oh`m e`shstelshlym

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    ahjhrh`ml aelnml sm`ht ymln tham`

    cerpelngmrmpml sebcug. Lmbul,

    smln`mdml hlh pul tham` redevml ultu`

    terus belau`uln `dmhb QBQ cmgwm

    sethmp irmln bedm`u`ml culug

    ahrh ultu` belnghlamrh terir ymln

    ahgmshd`ml ideg esmamrml cmgwm irmln

    m`ml beluou `ebmthml. Zecmnmhbmlm

    Cmubehster belymtm`ml?

    Ultu` bedm`u`ml culug ahrh

    secmnmh omdml `edumr amrh ahstress

    ebishilmd gmlym bmsu` m`md

    ahph`hr`ml mpmchdm m`mr amrh

    ahstress tersecut mamdmg gmd dmhl ah

    dumr `ebmthml. Shln`mslym, `msus

    culug ahrh smom suamg berupm`ml

    cu`th ymln bebmamh ultu`

    bebpertmlym`ml aml cmg`ml

    buln`hl belidm` `dmhb QBQ

    cmgwm perdhlaulnml/preservmsh

    ahrh berupm`ml bithf utmbm

    amdmb gmd bmlm sebum perhdm`u

    aml bithf dmhllym ahirheltmsh`ml

    aml ahmcah`ml `epmamlym.

    Mpm`mg mam sh`smml psh`idinhs dmhllym,

    mtmu `ejebmsml dmhllym, ymln ampmt

    bebcumt irmln bedm`u`ml culug

    ahrh9 Cu`ml`mg celmr, bhsmdlym,

    hlahvhau bedm`u`ml culug ahrh

    oustru `mrelm belngmamph e`shstelsh

    ymln tham` cerbm`lm (bemlhlndess

    exhstelje) 9 [ertmlymml term`ghr

    hlh sejmrm ubub tham` perlmg

    ahshlnnuln ideg `rhth`us-`rhth`us QBQ

    secedublym. Zebeltmrm pmrm teirhs

    bebpertmlym`ml reau`shilhsbe

    QBQ, tham` mam smtu mgdh pul ymln

    belnnmnms cmgwm peljhptmml bm`lm

    ampmt ahph`hr`ml secmnmh secumg

    airilnml hlaepelael mtmu cecms

    amrh airilnml ultu` belnghlamrh

    pebh`hrml teltmln `ebmthml ahrh. Ideg

    `mrelmlym, tham` mam smtu teirhs pul

    ymln bebperthbcmln`ml pishchdhtms

    cmgwm `ecutugml fulambeltmd m`ml

    bm`lm sejmrm m`tumd bebmhl`ml

    perml sucstmlshmd amdmb belngmshd`ml

    `ejebmsml ymln `htm rmsm`ml amdmb

    belngmamph birtmdhtms `htm.

    @dmhb QBQ, ymln berupm`ml `dmhb

    cesmr (nrmla dmhb), ampmt ahpmtmg`ml

    mpmchdm ampmt ahtulou``ml cmgwm

    mam airilnml dmhl ymln e`shs ymln

    cmg`ml dechg fulambeltmd cmnh

    bithvmsh bmlushm. Airilnml hlh

    tham` gmlym dechg piwerfud amrhpmam

    gmsrmt ultu` belnghlamrh pebh`hrml

    teltmln `ebmthml, tetmph ounm aelnml

    selahrhlym certmlnnuln omwmc

    cmnh gmsrmt `htm ultu` belnghlamrh

    pebh`hrml teltmln `ebmthml. Amdmb

    gmd hlh, `htm tham` belymln`md cmgwm

    bmlushm bebhdh`h gmsrmt ultu`

    belnghlamrh smdhelsh birtmdhtms, aml

    cmgwm `htm bedhcmt`ml ahrh amdmb

    perhdm`u cerbm`lm ultu` bebums`ml

    gmsrmt hlh. Lmbul, tudhsml hlh

    cermrnubel cmgwm gmsrmt ultu`

    belnghlamrh pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmthml sebmtm-bmtm berupm`ml

    secumg jiltig speshfh` amrh gmsrmt

    ymln bmshg dechg belamsmr dmnh, hmdmg

    subcer pmrhpurlm amrh `ejebmsml

    e`shstelshmd, ymln bebcm`mr gmsrmt

    `htm ultu` belnghlamrh smdhelsh

    `ebmthml.

    Mpm`mg airilnml sebmjmb htu e`shs9

    Mpm`mg terampmt secumg biaed nu-

    luln es amdmb gmd bmlm gmsrmt `htm

    ultu` belnghlamrh smdhelsh `ebmml

    berupm`ml cmnhml puljm` amrh nu-

    luln es amrh smbuaerm `eam`smam-

    rml `htm, aml cmshs nululn es-lym

    mamdmg `ehlnhlml m`ml bm`lm, ym`lh

    airilnml fulambeltmd bmlushm ultu`

    beletmp`ml aml bebedhgmrm oeomrhln

    msishmf stmchd ymln sejmrm preah`f

    belnguculn`ml sebum edebel amrh

    remdhtms ymln ahpersepsh`ml, amdmb

    bmlm `htm sejmrm pmrhpurlm belyeb-

    pduln`ml ahrh `htm amdmb remdhtms hlh9

    Amdmb gmd hlh, omwmclym mamdmg ym.

    @eshbpudml ghpiteths

    QBQ mamdmg rmln`mhml reau`sh.

    Zmdmg smtu amrh reau`sh-reau`sh hlh

    bebmlamln sebum perhdm`u `inlhthf,

    sebum peljhptmml bm`lm, sebum selh,

    redhnh, fhdsmfmt, cuamym, secmnmh gmd-gmd

    ymln tereau`sh`ml pmam `ecutugml

    ultu` belnghlamrh `ejebmsml

    e`shstelshmd. Gmd dmhl ymln belomah

    cmnhml amrh reau`sh hlh bebmlamln

    `ejebmsml m`ml `ebmthml secmnmh

    tereau`sh`ml pmam `etm`utml m`ml

    `ebmthml, aml sedmloutlym tham`

    ampmt ahreau`sh`ml dmnh. Cmnhml

    tudhsml hlh tedmg belnuln`mp`ml

    secumg ghpiteshs cmru cmgwm tham`

    celmr oh`m ah`mtm`ml cmgwm sebum

    pebh`hrml ymln cerbm`lm aml sebum

    upmym ghaup bmlushm tereau`sh`ml

    pmam gmsrmt `htm ultu` belnghlamrh

    `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd. Qudhsml hlh

    belymtm`ml cmgwm gmsrmt ultu`

    bebcumt/beljhptm`ml bm`lm

    berupm`ml gmsrmt eselshmd ultu`

    belnile`sh`ml edebel-edebel

    remdhtms ymln ahpersepsh`ml, sertm

    belnguculn`ml ahrh `htm `e remdhtms

    hlh, amdmb bmlm gmsrmt hlh cu`ml

    berupm`ml gmshd amrh gmsrmt mpmpul

    ultu` belnghlamrh `ejebmsml

    e`shstelshmd.

    Qudhsml hlh oustru belnuln`mp cmgwm

    gmsrmt htm ultu` bebcumt guculnml-

    guculnml, ultu` beljhptm`ml bm`lm,

    berupm`ml gmsrmt ymln hllmte.

    @ejebmsml ymln buljud `eth`m gmsrmt

    hlh tm` terpelugh berupm`ml subcer

    seomth amrh `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd.

    @ebmthml, mtmu dechg tepmtlym gmd

    ymln ahrepreseltmsh`ml nmnmsml

    teltmln `ebmthml, berupm`ml

    pelaerhtmml rmah`md m`ml redmsh,

    secumg ahs`ile`sh rmah`md, ymln

    belngmljur`ml bmtrh`s redmshilmd

    ymln belnmht`ml `htm aelnml

    remdhtms ymln `htm persepsh`ml.

    Aelnml aebh`hml, tham`dmg celmr

    cmgwm `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd

    tereau`sh`ml pmam `etm`utml m`ml

    `ebmthml, bedmhl`ml ymln celmr

    mamdmg cmgwm `etm`utml m`ml

    `ebmthml berupm`ml secumg jiltig

    amrh `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd, ymln

    hlthlym mamdmg `ejebmsml amdmb

    belngmamph ahs`ile`sh, lilmsishmsh,

    `emjm`ml, @e`isilnml, mcsurahtms,

    `etham`cermrthml.

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    Gmsrmt ultu` bebcumt `ile`sh

    (beljhptm`ml bm`lm) terbmlhfestmsh

    amdmb gmsrmt `htm ultu` belnulhfh`msh

    (belymtu`ml) sebum remdhtms,

    terbmsu` ahrh `htm, amdmb secumg

    bmtrh`s redmshilmd ymln tulnnmd aml

    stmchd. Qudhsml hlh tedmg belnuln`mp

    cmgwm gmsrmt QBQ htu selahrh ultu`

    belnulhfh`msh psh`idinh ah cmwmg

    rmln`mhml tulnnmd redmsh e`spdmlmtirh

    berupm`ml jiltig hrilh` amrh gmsrmt

    prhbirahmd m`ml bm`lm terpmau(ulhfhea bemlhln) hlh, listmdnhm ultu`

    gmd ymln smtu. M`ghrlym, bmtrh`s

    redmshilmd ymln `htm ym`hlh tedmg `htm

    cmlnul Aibmhl if tge @liwl,

    pmrmahnbm ymln belnulhfh`msh, aulhm

    msubthf cer`iltm` aelnml aibmhl

    dmhl ymln `mamln`mdm `htm persepsh`ml

    secmnmh beljm`up remdhtms Aibmhl

    if tge Ul`liwl, Lmtur, Jgmis ymln

    ah`mrm`terhsmsh`ml ideg `ethmamml

    sebpurlm m`ml redmsh-redmsh tertmtm

    aml `ile`sh-`ile`sh stmchd. Amdmb

    tedu` mltmrm `eaum gmd ymln

    berupm`ml e`strhb-e`strhb ymln tm`

    tercmlahln`ml (ulhtms mcsidut aml

    ahsulhtms mcsidut), `htm belebu`mlmcsurahtms, mlibmdh, trmubm, aml msmd

    bumsmd amrh `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd

    `htm.

    Mpmchdm ghpiteshs ah mtms hlh ahterhbm,

    bm`m perlymtmml hlh berupm`ml gmd

    ymln fmtmd tergmamp rmln`mhml reau`sh

    ymln berupm`ml mbchsh tercesmr amrh

    QBQ.

    Mpreshmsh tergmamp[er`ebcmlnml[eromdmlml Shset Butm`ghr QBQQBQ ampmt ahph`hr`ml secmnmh secumg

    delsm ymln bedmduhlym `htm ampmt

    belnerth shnlhfh`mlsh fulnshilmd

    amrh cercmnmh aibmhl perhdm`u

    sishmd bmlushm ymln cerceam-ceam.

    Amdmb rmln`m hlh, QBQ tedmg ahtedmmg

    ultu` belnerth cmnmhbmlm ahstress

    e`shstelshmd `htm cerguculnml

    aelnml seoubdmg aibmhl trmahshilmd

    pelyedhah`ml psh`idinh sishmd,seperth mnresh (bhsmdlym, BjNrenir,

    a``., =887), prises `esmamrml-

    ahrh (bhsmdlym, Mrlat, a``., =887),

    pelnmrug sishmd aml persumsh (Zee

    & [etty, 3;;6), `ilfirbhtms aml

    `eulh`ml (bhsmdlym, Zhbil, a``.,

    =88>), `ilshstelsh sh`mp aml perhdm`u

    (bhsmdlym, Frheabml & Mrlat, 3;;5),

    sertm mdtruhsbe (bhsmdlym, Oilms,

    a``., 3;;3).

    Amdmb cmnhml hlh, ahpmpmr`ml seoubdmg

    jiltig teltmln cmnmhbmlm pmrm

    peledhth tedmg belnnulm`ml delsm

    QBQ hlh ultu` bebmgmbh mrshte`tur

    `inlhthf ymln belamsmrh pebrisesml

    pebh`hrml teltmln `ebmthml,jmrm-jmrm amsmr amdmb gmd bmlm

    `ilstru`sh haelthtms `htm cerguculnml

    aelnml pelnedidmml `ilsel-`ilsel

    e`shstelshmd, aml cmnmhbmlm nmnmsml-

    nmnmsml hlh ampmt ahmpdh`msh`ml ultu`

    belnupms persimdml sishmd.

    Mrshte`tur `inlhthf amrh bmlmoebel

    terir

    Zebeltmrm rhset QBQ cernerm`

    bmou, buljud hlshngt pelthln ultu`

    bebmgmbh seoubdmg ahlmbh`m

    `inlhthf ah cmdh` pelnedidmml/

    bmlmoebel seseirmln m`ml

    `esmamrml m`ml `ebmthml (Mrlat,

    Jii`, & Siutdeane, 3;;10 [yszjzyls`h,

    Nreelcern, & Zidibil, =888). Mlmdhshs

    hlh belymtm`ml cmgwm ideg `mrelm

    prises per`ebcmlnml amdmb gmd bmlm

    irmln cedmomr ultu` belnguculn`ml

    selse ymln belhlnnh teltmln lhdmh

    shbcidh` aelnml bhthnmsh ahstress

    e`shstelshmd, pelnetmguml belnelmhbirtmdhtms belomah secumg `ilstru`

    seltrmd amdmb oeomrhln beltmd irmln

    ymln terahrh mtms `eym`hlml-`eym`hlml

    ter`mht ahrh, ymln ampmt ahm`thvmsh

    aelnml seoubdmg jmrm. M`thvmsh hlh

    `ebuahml bebithvmsh aum shsteb

    pertmgmlml ymln cerceam cernmltuln

    pmam `esmamrml m`ml `inlhsh ymln

    cerguculnml aelnml birtmdhtms

    seseirmln. [ertmbm, pertmgmlml

    pri`shbmd (prixhbmd aefelses)

    ahm`thf`ml ultu` bereau`sh mljmbml

    ter`mht ahrh ymln cerguculnml aelnml

    `inlhsh smamr teltmln `ebmthml.

    Irmln belnnulm`ml cermnmb smrmlm

    pseuai-rmthilmd ultu` belnghlamrh

    cerph`hr teltmln `ereltmlml tergmamp

    birtmdhtms (bhsmdlym, pelymln`mdml

    `ereltmlml `ebmthml? Nreelcern,

    Mrlat, Zhbil, [yszjzyls`h, & Zidibil,

    3;;;). Gmd hlh ahtulou``ml Jgmpdhl

    (3;;;) ymln beruou` pmam respils

    cu`ml smym, omlnml se`mrmln. Efe`-

    efe` hlh cer`elmml aelnml perml

    ymln smlnmt m`thf ymln ahomdml`ml

    bhla amdmb belnedidm `ilsel-

    `ilsel smamr ter`mht-`ebmthml,

    secumg m`thvhtms ymln pmam nhdhrmllym

    ampmt bebhdh`h `ilse`uelsh ymln

    smlnmt `umt amdmb belnh`hs gmchs

    `esedurugml subceramym renudmsh ahrh

    seseirmln (Nmhddhit, Zjgbehjged, &

    Cmubehster, 3;;6). Lmbul aebh`hml,

    respils-respils seoelhs htu gmlym

    beljerbhl`ml uouln `u`u amrh

    nululn es aefelshf bmlushm.

    @eth`m pertmgmlml pri`shbmd

    ahtelmln`ml (redmxea), mam

    pelhln`mtml ymln tertulam amdmb

    m`seshchdhtms pebh`hrml ter`mht

    `ebmthml ah dumr `esmamrml (Mrlat,

    a``., =88>). Gmd hlh ahu`ur amdmb

    rhset-rhset. Bes`hpul irmln ampmt

    tham` bedmpir`ml pebh`hrml teltmln

    `ebmthml pmam smmt htu, bere`m

    ampmt bmshg dechg buln`hl ultu`

    bedeln`mph secumg frmnbel `mtm

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    seperth BMY Y aelnml bmth`ethbcmln

    bmtm. Gmd hlh belulou``ml cmgwm

    pebh`hrml teltmln `ebmthml m`thf aml

    bebpelnmrugh persepsh bes`hpul

    hm tham` belymamrhlym. Hlthbmsh

    birtmdhtms ymln tm` smamr hlh pmam

    nhdhrmllym belyecmr pmam `ilstru`-

    `ilstru` m`thf ymln terhlter`ile`sh

    (pmlamlnml aulhm aml gmrnm ahrh

    ymln redevml) ymln bebcerh`ml

    bm`lm aml lhdmh cmnh hlahvhau tersecut

    (Mrlat, Nreelcern, & Jii`, 3;;3).

    Aelnml per`mtmml dmhl, pebh`hrmlteltmln `ebmthml ymln cershfmt tm`

    smamr belhbcud`ml pebh`hrml tm`

    smamr teltmln gmd-gmd ymln bebcumt

    `eghaupml htu cermrth (bemlhlnfud).

    Gmd hlh berupm`ml `erom bhla ymln

    belnirnmlhsmsh`ml subceramym cmnh

    `ecutugml ymln cerh`utlym m`ml

    pertmgmlml psh`idinhs ahstmd (mtmu

    shbcidh`)ymln belnumt`ml eym`hlml

    (fmhtg) teltmln `eperjmymml-

    `eperjmymml `udturmd (judturmd cedhefs)

    aml permsmml pelthlnlym ahrh (sedf-

    shnlhfhjmlje). @eterdhcmtml amdmb

    pertmgmlml pri`shbmd aml ahstmd

    bebhdh`h fulnsh `rhths? (=) belnurmlnh

    m`seshchdhtms tergmamp `etm`utml m`ml

    `ebmthml (Mrlat, a``, =88>), sertm

    (3) belnurmlnh pitelsh `ejebmsml

    ymln ahdmghr`ml ideg pebh`hrml m`ml

    `ebmthml (Nreelcern, a``., 3;;:).

    Bes`hpul prises-prises hlh ampmt

    bebhdh`h hbpdh`msh pelthln amdmb

    bebmgmbh sumtu reltmln ipermsh-

    ipermsh `inlhthf bithvmshilmd

    (`ilse`uelsh ahferelshmd amrh pebh`hrml

    smamr aml tm` smamr? ^enler & Zbmrt,

    =88>0 Cmrng & Jgmrtrmla, =888), rhset-

    rhset dechg dmlout ahperdu`ml ultu`

    thcm pmam pebmgmbml ymln dechg

    `ibpregelshf belnelmh mrshte`tur

    psh`idinhs aml cmg`ml leuridinhs ah

    cmdh` bmlmoebel `etham`mbmlml

    e`shstelshmd (hlsejurhty exhstelthmd).

    Aelnml pelnebcmlnml aml amym tmrh`

    ymln dechg dmlout amrh betiae-betiae

    leurismhls sishmd, se`mrmln buln`hl

    ultu` beberh`sm prises-prises

    `inlhthf aml chidinhs ymln terdhcmt`eth`m irmln ah`ilfriltmsh`ml aelnml

    `esmamrmllym teltmln `ebmthml.

    Zecmnmh jiltig, stuah cmru-cmru hlh

    belnnulm`ml te`lh` ede`trifhshidinhs

    ultu` belne`spdirmsh `mpmshtms

    amrh pelnhlnmtml (rebhlaers) m`ml

    `ebmthml ultu` belngmshd`ml irmln

    ymln sejmrm `gusus pe`m tergmamp

    pedmlnnmrml gmrmpml sishmd (Gelry,

    Cmrtgidiw, & Mrlat, amdmb Mrlat

    & Vess, 3;;7). Gmrmpml sishmd ymln

    ahbm`sua mamdmg senmdm sesumtu ymln

    belidiln ultu` bebcumt hlterm`sh

    `htm aelnml irmln dmhl cerbm`lm aml

    ampmt ahpreah`sh. [eledhthml aelnml

    belnnulm`ml peljhtrmml itm`

    cmrmln`mdh tham` terdmdu dmbm dmnh ampmt

    ahnulm`ml ultu` belnhaelthfh`msh

    whdmymg-whdmymg itm` ymln ter`elm

    hbpdh`msh pebrisesml ahlmbh`m

    e`shstelshmd.

    Zeoubdmg mrmg cmru rhset bmlmoebel

    terir

    Jhltm aml `ebmml? Bebperdums shs-

    teb bmlmoebel terir. Amdmb tmgul-

    tmgul cedm`mlnml hlh, peledhml tedmg

    bebudmh ahs`ush teltmln cmnmhbmlm

    redmsh-redmsh hlterpersilmd ampmt cer-

    fulnsh secmnmh fulnsh-fulnsh e`shs-

    telshmd sertm bebceltelnh permsmml

    hltrmpersilmd htm teltmln ahrh htm. Ce-

    rmln`mt amrh perspe`f teirh `ede`mtml

    amrh Ciwdcy (=868), Bh`udhljer, Fdirh-

    ml, aml Ghrsjgcerner (3;;:) belnmou-

    `ml pripishsh cmgwm guculnml m`rmc

    (jdise redmilsghps) bebcmltu irmln

    ultu` belmlnnudmlnh pelnetmguml

    smamr teltmln tm` terghlamr`mllym`ebmml. Guculnml m`rmc bebce-

    rh`ml tmlnnud ymln pelln ultu` pe-

    bm`lmml `udturmd aml gmrnm ahrh, aml

    bebfmshdhtmsh mamptmsh evidushiler,

    sertm belmwmr`ml smrmlm ultu` be-

    renudmsh ahstress `e`m irmln bebpe-

    rideg `elymbmlml aml `embmlml amrh

    `ede`mtml bere`m aelnml irmln dmhl.

    [eledhml Bh`udhljer, a`` tedmg pmam

    nhdhrmllym cerfi`us pmam `mpmshtms

    amrh irmln-irmln secmym ymln m`rmc,

    guculnml-guculnml ribmls, ultu`

    bedmymlh tuouml bmlmoebel terir,

    ymln belebu`ml cmgwm `esmamrml

    m`ml `ebmml belhln`mt`ml upmym

    ultu` belnhlhshmsh hlterm`sh sishmd

    (Qmucbml Cel-Mrh, Fhlader, & Bh`udhl-

    jer, 3;;3), sertm belhln`mt`ml gmsrmt

    m`ml hlbmsh ribmls aml `ibht-

    bel (Fdirhml, Bh`udhljer, & Ghrsjg-

    cerner, 3;;3). @gususlym, cmlym` amrh

    peledhml hlh belebu`ml cmgwm cmnh

    bere`m aelnml nmym `ede`mtml mbml

    (sejure mmjgbelt styde), mamdmg pel-

    ln ultu` belulou``ml aepelaelsh/

    pelnmlamdml sebmjmb htu `epmam te-

    bml secmym aml redmsh-redmsh ribmls,

    secmnmhbmlm gmdlym hlahvhau bebhdh`h

    secumg seomrmg pelnmdmbml `urmln-

    lym `ejebmsml amdmb `ilte`s hlter-

    m`sh hlterpersilmd ymln m`rmc.

    Cmru-cmru hlh, Jix, a``. (amdmb Mrlat

    & Vess, 3;;7) belulou``ml cmnmhbm-

    lm `ede`mtml seseirmln ymln cershfmt

    dechg ruahbelter (belamsmr) tergm-

    amp irmlntumlym cerdmlout belomah

    pelyeahm prite`sh bedmwml `ilsel

    birtmdhtms pmam irmln aewmsm buam.Zecmnmh jiltig, gmlym cerph`hr tel-

    tmln irmlntum ampmt belnurmlnh m`-

    seshchdhtms pebh`hrml `ebmml sertm

    belnurmlnh respils-respils aefel-

    shf tergmamp pelnhlnmt `ebmml.

    Dechg dmlout dmnh, `e`m cergmampml

    aelnml `ilsel birtmdhtms, hlahvhau

    belomah dechg belyu`mh aml cerupmym

    belampmt`ml `iltm` ymln dechg ae`mt

    aelnml irmln-irmln dmhl ymln cmru ah-

    `elmd ymln belnhlnmt`ml bere`m tel-

    tmln irmlntum bere`m. Gmd hlh se`mdh-

    nus belyi`iln nmnmsml `dmsh` Freula

    (=8=3, =857) teltmln trmlsferelsh.

    Ztru`tur seaergmlm, pebh`hrml

    tebpirmd, aml listmdnhm

    Zehrhln aelnml cer`ebcmlnlym

    ciay if resemrjg amrh QBQ, fulnsh

    amrh `ilsepsh teltmln remdhtms ymln

    ahturul`ml sejmrm `udturmd (ym`lh,

    pmlamlnml aulhm/wirdavhews) sertm

    redmsh `htm amdmb berhltmlnh `ilsel

    ymln cerm`mr amdmb teltmln `ebmthml

    tedmg belomah oedms. Lmbul aebh`hml,

    cmlym` amrh rhset hlh tedmg cerfi`us

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    pmam cmnmhbmlm ilsel ymln belhlnnh

    teltmln `ebmthml belyucur`ml

    pelnmlamdml ymln belhlnnh tergmamp

    mspe`-mspe` speshfh` amrh pmlamlnml

    aulhm (bhsmdlym, `eym`hlml-`eym`hlml

    aml haelthtms-haelthtms hlnriup)

    sertm redmsh-redmsh speshfh` (bhsmdlym,

    guculnml ribmlhths). Shset-rhset

    ymln mam bebcerh`ml gmlym seah`ht

    pergmthml pmam gmd-gmd ymln dechg

    belamsmr amrh shsteb `eym`hlml

    ymln bebcerh`ml pebm`lmml.

    [eledhthml butm`ghr tedmg budmh

    belnhsh `eselomlnml (nmp) hlh aml

    belermln`ml lhdmh e`shstelshmd

    amrh `ilsepsh terstru`tur teltmln

    remdhtms aml jmrm-jmrm aelnml bmlm

    `ebmbpuml `htm ultu` cerph`hr

    sejmrm tebpirmd ampmt bebcmltu

    `htm ultu` beljmpmh tuouml.

    @mrym budm-budm ymln belnhsh

    `eselomlnml ahbm`sua mamdmg nmnmsml

    teltmln cmnmhbmlm stereithp mltmrm

    dmhl cerfulnsh ultu` belstmchd`ml

    pmlamlnml aulhm (wirdavhew) ymln

    ahnulm`ml hlahvhau ultu` belhphs`ml

    `ilsel birtmdhtms. Zjghbed, a``.

    (=888) belebu`ml cmgwm `eth`m

    `ecutugml ultu` bebedhgmrm secumg

    pmlamlnml ymln stmchd belnelmh

    remdhtms ahperthlnnh (gmd hlhdmg ymln

    teromah belyusud smdhelsh birtmdhtms),

    hlahvhau cerph`hr aelnml jmrm-jmrm

    ymln dechg stereithph` sertm dechg

    su`m/bebhdhg hlahvhau dmhl ymln

    `ilfirb tergmamp stereithp ymln

    ahtmwmr`ml ideg bmsymrm`mtlym.

    Gmd hlh gelam` belymtm`ml cmgwm

    beln`ilstru`sh secumg pmlamlnml

    ymln stmchd aml cerbm`lm (belnelmh

    gmd-gmd ymln oh`m tham` ahperdm`u`ml

    aebh`hml m`ml terdhgmt secmnmh remdhtms

    ymln `mjmu/`mith` aml tm` terpreah`sh)

    berupm`ml fulnsh-fulnsh bmlmoebel

    terir amsmr. Cmru-cmru hlh Dmlamu, a``.

    (3;;1) cermrnubel cmgwm hlahvhau

    ymln belulou``ml ahspishsh `rilhs

    m`ml pelnetmguml ymln seaergmlm

    aml tm` mbchnu (ym`lh, `ecutugml

    prhcmah ymln thlnnh m`ml stru`tur ([LZ

    2persilmd leea fir strujture? Leucern

    & Lewsib, =88:)) m`ml smlnmt

    buln`hl belurul`ml permsmml

    cerbm`lm amrh pmlamlnml aulhm ymln

    fmbhdhmr aml terstru`tur aelnml cmh`.

    Shset Dmlamu belulou``ml cmgwm,

    dhltms cmlym` rmnmb stuah, hlahvhau

    ymln thlnnh [LZ-lym berespils

    tergmamp `ilsel birtmdhtms aelnml

    preferelsh ymln belhln`mt ultu`

    sumtu bm`lm ymln tertmtm (wedd-

    iraerea) aml tm` mbchnu. @mrym-

    `mrym cerh`utlym amdmb dhtermtur ymln

    cer`ebcmln hlh tedmg belnnulm`ml

    nmnmsml hlh ultu` belnerth rmsm (tmste)

    selh biaerl (biaerl mrt). Irmln

    aelnml [LZ ymln thlnnh berespils

    tergmamp `esmamrml m`ml `ebmthml

    aelnml `esu`mml ymln belurul

    tergmamp selh, amdmb gmd bmlm selh

    belnghdmln`ml `eoedmsml bm`lm,

    `ejumdh chdm `mrym selah tersecut

    ahcerh`ml ouaud mtmu ermln`m ruou`ml

    ymln cerbm`lm (Dmlamu, Nreelcern,

    Zidibil, [yszjzyls`h, & Bmrtels,

    3;;6). Omah, chdm `eaum gmshd peledhthml

    ah mtms ahnmculn`ml, tebuml-

    tebumllym belymtm`ml cmgwm

    hlahvhau-hlahvhau terteltu belnedidm

    `ejebmsml e`shstelshmd aelnml

    belstru`tur`ml remdhtms aelnml jmrm-

    jmrm ymln bebcumtlym stmchd aml

    tm` mbchnu. @rhth`lym mamdmg cerupm

    pertmlymml teltmln cmnmhbmlm`mg

    bebperideg pebmgmbml ymln dechg

    cmh` belnelmh gmd-gmd mpm smom ymln

    bebuln`hl`ml seoubdmg hlahvhau

    ymln dmhl dechg ampmt sejmrm lymbml

    belidermlsh mbchnuhtms amdmb aulhm

    sishmd bere`m. Gmd hlh beberdu`ml

    peledhthml dechg dmlout.

    @ebmbpuml ulh` `htm ultu` cerph`hr

    sejmrm tebpirmd (ymln berefde`sh`ml

    ah bmlm `htm tedmg cermam aml ah

    bmlm `htm m`ml beluou), oedms-oedms

    cer`iltrhcush tergmamp pelstru`tur

    aulhm sishmd `htm. Fm`tmlym,

    `udtur belyeahm`ml `ilsepsh-

    `ilsepsh ymln terirnmlhsmsh ultu`

    bebmgmbh ceromdmllym wm`tu. Gmd

    hlh bebuln`hl`ml hlahvhau ultu`

    belstru`tur`ml `eghaupml segmrh-

    gmrhlym sertm belebpmt`ml ahrhlym

    amdmb ilte`s ghstirhs ymln cerbm`lm

    (Siutdeane & Mrlat, 3;;5). Amrh

    perspe`thf QBQ, `ilsepsh-`ilsepsh

    belnelmh wm`tu berupm`ml mspe`-

    mspe` pelthln amrh pmlamlnml aulhm

    `udturmd ymln ampmt belnurmlnh

    ahstress ter`mht `esmamrml m`ml

    birtmdhtms. Zeomdml aelnml hlh, smdhelsh

    birtmdhtms belhbcud`ml dechg cmlym`

    au`ulnml ymln cmlym` cmnh `ilsepsh-

    `ilsepsh `udturmd belnelmh wm`tu,

    ounm bebithvmsh hlahvhau ymln sejmrm

    `umt ternmculn amdmb permsml

    remdhtms ymln tertmtm ([LZ thlnnh) nulm

    bebcumt pereljmlmml gmrhml aelnml

    dechg oedms bebcumt nmrhs aebmr`msh

    tebpirmd (Dmlamu, Nreelcern, Mralt,

    & Siutdeane, amdmb Mrlat & Vess,

    3;;7).

    Ah smbphln htu, `ebmbpuml

    speshfh` `htm ultu` berefde`sh`ml

    bmsm dmdu cernulm ultu` belephs

    `ilsel birtmdhtms aelnml cercmnmh

    jmrm. Zecmnmh cmnhml amrh prinrmb

    peledhthml ymln dechg dums, ^hdasjgut,Zeah`haes, Mrlat, aml Siutdeane

    (3;;6) bebcerh`ml cu`th cmgwm

    refde`sh listmdnh` ampmt bebper`umt

    subceramym psh`idinhs ymln cerfulnsh

    secmnmh fulnsh bmlmoebel terir

    (bhsmdlym, gmrnm ahrh). Zetedmg

    ahhlnmt`ml teltmln `ebmthml,

    dmbulml listmdnh` (cmh` ymln sejmrm

    ahspishshilmd thlnnh bmupul `mrelm

    sejmrm e`sperhbeltmd ahthbcud`ml)

    bebperthlnnh persepsh teltmln

    bm`lm amdmb `eghaupml sertm

    belnurmlnh m`seshchdhtms `inlhsh-

    `inlhsh ter`mht `ebmthml (Siutdeane,

    Mrlat, Zeah`haes, & ^hdasjgut, 3;;7).

    Dmbulml listmdnh` sejmrm `gusus

    ampmt cernulm cmnh hlahvhau-hlahvhau

    ymln dechg tum, `mrelm bere`m ampmt

    berefde`sh cmdh` `eghaupml bere`m

    ultu` bebperideg permsmml cmgwm

    `eghaupml bere`m cerbm`lm.

    Hltenrmsh bithvmshilmd? @remthvhtms,

    pertubcugml, aml `etercu`mml

    ph`hrml

    Zmdmg smtu `rh` ymln ampmt ahcerh`ml

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    tergmamp QBQ mamdmg cmgwm ah smb-

    phln `etm`utml dumr chmsm ymln bes

    `htm gmamph ter`mht `inlhsh teltmln `e-

    bmml, `htm am` sedmdu sejmrm aefel-

    shf belyebculyh ml ahrh `htm ah cmdh`

    sedhbut embmlml udturmd ymln rhnha.

    Cmlym` irmln ymln sejmrm nmnmg cerm-

    lh pernh `e tebpmt ah bmlm am` sei-

    rmln pul perlmg pernh `esmlm. Gmd hlh

    cmrmln`mdh ampmt ahtermln`ml aelnml

    `ilsep `remvhtms. Fm`tmlym, terampmt

    shsh dmhl amrh bivmsh ymln beljer-

    bhl`ml perhdm`u ymln beree`sh`ml`etercu mml ph`hrml aml peber`mym-

    ml ahrh (sedf-elrhjghln) (bhsmdlym, Aejh

    & Syml, =8750 Bmsdiw, =863). [eledh-

    ml tedmg budmh belne`spdirmsh aum

    `ilse`uelsh ahvernel amrh belomomr-

    `ml (ouxtmpishln) lam`ml-lam`ml

    `remf ymln ahprivi`msh ideg `ilsel

    teltmln birtmdhtms.

    Xmln pertmbm cerguculnml aelnml

    `ilse`uelsh ebishilmd amrh lam`ml

    `remf. Ceramsmr`ml teirh `dmsh` amrh

    Ii Sml` (=8:3, =878) aml nmnmsml

    `iltebpirer belnelmh ahslnsh ip-

    bmd (Crewer, =88=), Mrlat, Nreelcern,

    Zidibil, [yszjzyls`h, aml Zjghbed

    (=888) belymtm`ml cmgwm `eterdhcm-

    tml `remf (ideg `mrelm belnghdmln-

    `ml ahrh amrh pidm-pidm sishmd `ilvelsh-

    ilmd) belnmljmb `ile`sh sishmd ymln

    bebcerh`ml prite`sh amrh `etm`utml

    e`shstelshmd `htm. Ideg `mrelmlym, `e-

    `m ahgmamp`ml aelnml `etm`utml

    e`shstelshmd, lam`ml `remf ampmtbelhbcud`ml permsml cersmdmg (se-

    cumg ebish ymln beljerbhl`ml

    gmsrmt m`ml repmrmsh sishmd? Qmlnley,

    =885) aml ounm upmym-upmym ultu`

    belnumt`ml eserupmml (shbhdmrhtms)

    aelnml irmln-irmln dmhl. Lmbul ae-

    bh`hml, ahceltelnh aelnml belhln`mt-

    lym permsmml m`ml `ile`sh sishmd se-

    bmjmb htu, irmln ampmt terdhcmt amdmb

    `remvhtms setedmg ahhlnmt`ml m`ml

    `ebmml tmlpm belnmdmbh permsml

    cersmdmg, aml `mrelmlym ampmt bel-

    ngmshd`ml efe` psh`idinhs ymln dechg

    pishf belnelmh m`vhtms `remf ter-

    secut (Mrlat, Siutdeane, Nreelcern,

    & Zgedail, 3;;5). Cmnmhbmlm gmd hlhbuln`hl9 Zetedmg ahhlnmt`ml m`ml e-

    bmml, irmln ampmt dechg `remf oh`m

    priau` lam`mllym ahmrmg`ml pmam

    `eultulnml `ibulmd. Lmbul irmln

    ampmt belomah urmln remf oh`m pri-

    au` lam`mllym ahmrmg`ml pmam pel-

    jmpmhml hlahvhaumd (Siutdeane, Mrlat,

    Vess, Zgedail, amdmb Mrlat & Vess,

    3;;7). Aelnml aebh`hml, peledhml

    hlh am` gmlym belulou``ml seoub-

    dmg shsh nedmp amrh e`spresh `remf, te-

    tmph ounm belulou``ml cmgwm mpmchdm

    irmln ahgmamp`ml pmam pelnedidmml

    `etm`utml e`shstelshmd, `remvhtms be-

    bhdh`h pitelsh ultu` bebfmshdhtmsh `e-

    terdhcmtml ymln dechg ipbmd aelnml

    `eghaupml.

    Cermln`mt amrh gmd tersecut, Siutdea-

    ne, a``. (3;;1) tedmg budmh belne`s-

    pdirmsh cmnmhbmlm `remvhtms ampmt

    belhln`mt ml permsml ymln dechg gi-

    dhs` m`ml `etercu`mml ph`hrml ymln,(`iltrms aelnml tebuml rhset QBQ

    secedublym), ampmt belhln`mt`ml

    `eshmpml seseirmln ultu` belne`s-

    pdirmsh nmnmsml-nmnmsml cmru ymln

    cmg`ml belmltmln ahrhlym selahrh.

    Siutdeane, Mrlat, aml Zgedail (3;;1)

    belebu`ml cmgwm mpmchdm `remvh-

    tms belnhlsphrmsh`ml irheltmsh ymln

    dechg bebcu`m ph`hrml, gmd hlh bere-

    au`sh telaelsh irmln ultu` belnedidm

    `etm`utml e`shstelshmd aelnml jmrm

    belyusut`ml `eym`hlml-`eym`hlml

    ymln ce